How much are you guys spending monthly

mwillheim22

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I was around 2k per month for the past few years.

Hindsight is 20/20 and the money, invested in a decent ETF, would have doubled by now. Lots of stocks are down this month so you have a chance to catch-up a little bit if you're concerned about not saving enough for retirement. If you haven't capped out your RRSP and TFSA contributions each year then you should consider doing it.

I've had so much fun exploring fantasies. Things that put a smile on my face whenever I think about them. No vacation or singular purchase gives me the same feeling. It's why I haven't stopped yet.
 

Mike74

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I was around 2k per month for the past few years.

Hindsight is 20/20 and the money, invested in a decent ETF, would have doubled by now. Lots of stocks are down this month so you have a chance to catch-up a little bit if you're concerned about not saving enough for retirement. If you haven't capped out your RRSP and TFSA contributions each year then you should consider doing it.

I've had so much fun exploring fantasies. Things that put a smile on my face whenever I think about them. No vacation or singular purchase gives me the same feeling. It's why I haven't stopped yet.
I have investments tfsa
Xrp
Your right stocks are down right now
I agree I love exploring fantasies aswell
I think I’ve seen all the girls out there ,I just don’t find none of them worth it anymore
The only ones I see is penny costa ,Alex Grenier ,maybe sometimes honee in Gatineau
If you have any good suggestions let me know
 

mwillheim22

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I have investments tfsa
Xrp
Your right stocks are down right now
I agree I love exploring fantasies aswell
I think I’ve seen all the girls out there ,I just don’t find none of them worth it anymore
The only ones I see is penny costa ,Alex Grenier ,maybe sometimes honee in Gatineau
If you have any good suggestions let me know
My only suggestion is to try an interactive threesome. A few ladies on Tryst / OIC advertise enjoying duos.
 
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I thought I was spending alot at 600-800$ per month 🤣 Now that I've found a few regular ladies, I feel I spend my money more wisely and a nice relationship has flourished between us. However, there are the occasional comments/reviews on this forum which I find interesting and push me to try new offerings. Occasionally, these turn out fairly good while other times, they remind me that I should stick with my favorites, my regulars.
 

philonius

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I’m at 2k ,just wondering if that’s the norm ?
Or do I need help lol
I still saving money monthly,but I’m like all that money could be going somewhere else
Next week I’m trying to go without for the first time in years
I'm around that too, sometimes more if I travel, sometimes less like around Xmas, but it's well within my budget. I sometimes go for stretches where I don't see anyone too, just to make sure I can shut it down if it becomes too costly.
 
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Sonic Temple

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Really depends on your marital status. I'm a single guy so 2K is norm for me as I still save a good chunk into my investments - 24K/year is perfect.
 
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speakercontrols

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I’m at 2k ,just wondering if that’s the norm ?
Or do I need help lol
I still saving money monthly,but I’m like all that money could be going somewhere else
Next week I’m trying to go without for the first time in years
$1K-ish +?- per week so $4K per month ish, sure
Yes
Meh, if you're already saved up for retirement, enjoy the moment
Ya, that's hard. (heh...)
 
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Gentlemansecret

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There was another post similar to this where I answered. As of now I am still averaging 1-2 sessions a month. I still see a FWB here and there.

2k a month a legendary - I need to make more money 😂
 
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surfer83

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I used to hover between 1 to 1.5 K per month , but now price going up and service going down I am about 300 to 400 per month sometimes 400 per 2 month, I enjoyed having the variety and the change everytime but now at 42 it all feels the same , so I am more picky who I see so it happens less often
 

Giƅ Sinep

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Jesus, that’s like $35-40k pre tax!! Think I need some career advice from you guys.
Dividends. You can build yourself what's in effect a 6% + tax-advantaged GIC with dividends. I've done OK with this.

I'm stuck firmly under $2,000 / month. I'd like to spend more but I don't want to see any one lady too frequently, and a couple of ladies have raised the bar so much that I'm having a tougher time settling for less. Sigh. Such a terrible first-world problem.
 

FarmerJoe

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I'm in that boat. Some months are a tad higher or lower.
Investments are good and prudent, but appreciating life is important also. If you die tomorrow, you're giving all that money away. I'm investing in my memories now.
 
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