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At what age should a man stop having a fixed relationship?

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superstar_88

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PvtJoker said:
Depends on you, depends on who you find.

If you’re over 40 you want to be very careful about getting involved with someone less financially successful than you. If you get taken, there is no time to build up another retirement nest egg.

On the other hand, if you’re over 60 the best bet is to find some 25 year-old hot chick, have her sign an ironclad prenup that states that if she is married to you at the time of your death, she will be the sole beneficiary of your estate, but if she leaves before you die, she gets nothing. Then, spend the rest of your natural life fucking her like the dirty whore that she knows she is deep down in her soul ;). If you’ve got a really clever lawyer, they may be able to put a clause in where she gets bonus money if you die while in the act of fucking her….
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What if she slips a small dosage of a concoction into your morning beverage daily until one day you feel like you're coming down with something
 
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xix

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Just Looking For A Latina said:
Today I find 30 - 39 year olds attractive, but I find they are very gun shy due to bad past experiences.
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I met women who were the opposite and playing the men. Setting themselves up for when they reach 65 to see who is the richer one or not.
 
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jd3402

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Canadiandude said:
Shit man losing a child or parent/sibling has to be the most painful experience. Sorry to hear that. Was that your only child or do you have/want more? Sometimes I hear stories like this from guys and think how can some women be this evil. Same with men when my female friends tell me stories about their partners and they can be just as bad. It sucks but I hope anyone that has gone through tough relationships eventually find their person or true happiness. Not all relationships or women are bad I also read stories on here from guys talking about how good their marriage is and that they see escorts with their wives together. I guess everything in life is a gamble.
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She was the only child I fathered yes. I have a few stepkids past and present.
 
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when your partner/ girlfriend/ wife/ mortgage payment/ car payment are all 5 weeks late!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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jeff2

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comeagain said:
You should never rely on a partner to make you feel happy. That's wrong on so many levels. Your basically dependent on them and that plays a key role in mental health. You should also ask whoever you're dating whom you may want long term some questions about things like the whole Covid vaccine, abortion thoughts, etc. as that can play a key role if that partner is someone who you still wanna be with. That's not to say people's opinions change as they age but can't predict that. What if you have kids and one is against vaccines or just certain vaccines. There's a reason why guys like DiCaprio date 20 year olds and they sign contracts when dating them since wealthy folks try to play it safe as possible. I would enjoy another long term relationship even with its ups and down long as sex was still happening too and both people were turning/teasing each other on like some older couples do. Would I get remarried again? That's tough to say more so leaning towards someone in a similar financial bracket to me so it can be not too bad if things end. Women also generally prefer a provider if not the bread winner then mentally strong than some weak minded individual who cries often and is scared or something cause then it brings the fear of being worried to them and uncertainty when most women generally are worried some in nature.

It all depends if you want a partner in your life or even some like roommate if you enjoy the company and can handle the stress that comes with it otherwise many people handle being alone just fine too regardless what society says. Lots of 20 year olds today prefer being single by choice and not even wanting kids too or sex.
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Regarding kids, from what I have read and seen, before the 1980s couples would plan on having less. After that period, there are less and less couples to even make that decision.
And sperm banks are not really filing in the gap. So, off we go into extinction.
 
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jeff2

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comeagain said:
In about 15 years we're suppose to reach another billion so 9 billion. Roughly past 20 years the average seems to be an increase of 1.5 billion give or take. Lots of people still producing out east and America.
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Latest news out of China showing big declines. Still pumping them out in Sub-Saharan Africa but declines expected even there going forward.
Canada's fertility rate hit a record low of 1.25 children per woman in 2024, continuing a 15-year downward trend and marking a shift toward "lowest-low" fertility levels comparable to Japan and South Korea.
 
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Sonic Temple said:
Am single and love the peace of being alone. Realized after finding this hobby lifestyle that no need for relationships ever, enjoy company of friends, family and occasional civie hookups, but that's it. At the end of the day, I go home to a peaceful home alone and happy. To get to this state though you need to one oneself and accept what you have and where you want to go.
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I feel the same. When I was in my 20s I had my fun and I assumed I would get married and have kids eventually. In my 30s it wasn't happening but I wasn't even trying to make it happen, I was perfectly fine being single. Just before I turned 40 I had a bit of an epiphany and realized I didn't want kids or a relationship. This was before I started hobbying, but I happened to start hobbying maybe 2 weeks after that. It was purely a coincidence though, that happened mostly because of circumstance. Ever since then I've been happy to enjoy my time with providers then go back to my quiet home.
 
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PvtJoker

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jd3402 said:
First off, I'd have never married. After marriage and having a child, wife decided to quit her decent paying job and work part time instead in retail. That eventually led to an amicable separation. In the years after that, she eventually turned my child against me and my child no longer wanted to see me. A year or so after that my child committed suicide...there are more personal details surrounding all that that I will not share. Suffice it to say, covid played a small part in all of this as well. I'm just scratching the surface with this post.
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Brother, I’m so sorry for what happened to you.
 
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Comenjo

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I don't really understand the premise of the question: that what you're looking for should vary so greatly across your middle decades, and that there's some age by which pursuing this desire should generally become untenable. My 90yo grandfather has a girlfriend at the retirement home where he lives, following the deaths of his previous wife and then girlfriend. He's catheterized most of the time, so I doubt they've had PIV sex even once. Yet it seems to me that most of his joy now comes from this typical relationship structure.

Most people prefer sexually exclusive relationships with single partners (mono). I suppose then my general advice would be to stick to this structure throughout one's life. If you're not confident in the strength of your romantic relationship... break up, especially before marrying! Prenups exist as an option to hedge risk, but I'm personally doubtful of the point of a marriage where partners don't consider their lives completely joined, including finances.

Those engaging with sex work are probably more likely to embrace non-mono, but I wouldn't doubt that most married men here are in nominally closed marriages, and that furthermore have not made a significant effort to figure out their feelings on the prospect of an equally open marriage, nor discussed this with their spouse. It seems to me that the norm is still to avoid difficult conversations, evidenced by the millions of relationship advice posts where the answer is "talk to the person".
 
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Surprised to see 40% saying keeping no matter what. when the poll was posted expected to see almost no one saying keep trying. Expectation was >90% on TERB would saying enjoy MP and SP.

Maybe TERB has more romantics on it than I expected. Or guys are not afraid of losing their nest egg in a split.
 
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