It's not that they're big or anything but theyre just so inexperienced or they just learned all the wrong ways to do things.
There's so many different ways to hurt women and it honestly makes it so hard to relax and enjoy it in any aspect when you're worried about people spreading your pussy lips so far apart it hurts or using their fingernails or creating tears.
It's like like the male equivalent of getting a blow job with teeth.
I used to see a lot of people who did really stupid stuff like pull my skin too hard, use their fingernails, jackhammer but their dick was too small and they would miss I actually had a tear so bad from that I probably should've gone to the doctor and had stitches. I've had to go to the doctor multiple times because people are so bad at sex and the really sad part is , I come here and I see all these guys complaining that women don't like something and instead of just taking the hint , they move on to someone else. I think for some people , they can't take constructive criticism. It's one thing to hear from one woman that they don't like something , but I think that some people never get the hint that most women don't like something. It's a slippery slope too , because unfortunately , the worse someone is at sex , the more likely they are to become a person I see on a regular basis. They spend more money and they see me regularly.
I think the people I was talking about specifically used to want to just fuck the opening of my vagina and the only thing I could compare it to is just someone pulling on the most delicate part of your skin over and over again to the point where it breaks
It was the angle they would do it at I've never had anyone else do that since and I had two people around the exact same time , from the same area become clients and do the exact same crappy thing.
I'm more selective now and I stand up for myself , but some days I wish there was an aptitude test they had to take.
I still get occasional person using their fingernails to rub my pussy but I can just tell them where to go. Some people get offended but they're not paying me to be abused. They're paying me to have a good time... And if part of having a good time is hurting me , I don't need their money.
I think it's probably less of an issue to see an experience man with a big dick than an idiot with a small penis. I've never really been hurt by someone with a big d*** but I have been hurt several times by someone with a tiny penis because they have no idea what they're doing.
