Anyone one else having issues with penis size being too big?

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Are you booking for long enough time to get them warmed up ? I mean it can stretch but it takes patience and time and lots of lube and communication. This is of course after consent To begin. Also knowing different women have different anatomies so a different angle and position might be needed. Pillows. Breathing. Ambiance etc
I get where you're coming from but in all fairness an SP is not exactly where I want to exhibit patience, with this hobby time is money. This is not a girl who I'm emotionally vested in where I want to waste time making sure she's the one who has the best experience. That's not to say I don't want her to enjoy herself, but if it becomes more work than pleasure then in my opinion it's a failed session where I just wasted my time and money. This is why I'm always upfront with the booker so they understand, but I always get "don't worry, she should be fine" followed up with the SP shrieking in horror knowing I'm going to take their virginity for the second time (yes I've made girls bleed on more than one occasion and I was always gentle as hell). So I've resigned myself to avoid Chinese SPs, not worth the frustration, mind you Candy from GG was the only one who took it without an issue, but she's a seasoned pro.
 

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One lady I used to see "fired" me as a client because she thought I was too big.

I've had another lady say she was reluctant to do Greek with me because of my size and when I mentioned that I had taken a Trip to The Isles four ladies to another lady I saw a couple times, her response was "Those were four very brave ladies!"

A lot of ladies say that they can only really do Asian Cowgirl on guys who are on the large size and one lady I see regularly confirmed this!
 

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I run into this problem quite often. I have been denied by girls for being too large. I try to be proactive by telling them about me, and I'll get denied (which is fine, I'll find someone else) or I'll get told it's fine, and then I get there, and after they've started just...say they can't. Im not the type to force anyone to do anything, I dont get off on that. Is their a better way to go about this? A certain worker who performs well with guys like me? Any and all advice is appreciated.
I run into this problem quite often. I have been denied by girls for being too large. I try to be proactive by telling them about me, and I'll get denied (which is fine, I'll find someone else) or I'll get told it's fine, and then I get there, and after they've started just...say they can't. Im not the type to force anyone to do anything, I dont get off on that. Is their a better way to go about this? A certain worker who performs well with guys like me? Any and all advice is appreciated.
I've experience a similar problem or same problem depending how you answer OP.

The OP used Big and Large. For the SP's who contributed (Luv when SP's chime in) with desriptions of Huge and 9" If I mentioned I use XL or XXL size condoms what would your initial thought be on my size?

the wording Big, Large Huge is that refering to just length?

My problem is I have girth. I'm average length but above average on the thickness. Way above I've sometimes been told. I'm likely over respectful in the eyes of some contributors to this question here but if the SP is soldering through FS and not enjoying it. Schooching away from me in doggie for instance or some facial expressions showing discomfort then I'll dial it back to the first 2 or 3"s to see if it is better or switch up to oral or 69. Will not repeat in those cases. Except for one where we have steller oral and covered PS and we click on the convo.

For preselection for my TDL I'm adding to the list knowledge gathered from reviews from this platform (thanks gents) and also the advertised pics and their bio. From my experience the height, weight and measurements will help with my decision but only if they are up to date and accurate. One contributer here said stay away from the spinner small ones which I did have a concern but if I stuck with that criteria then I would've missed out on some wonderful experiences. I've had parts compatibility 5' gals and not compatible with an SP at 5'9

So does size matter for both involved?
 
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I've fucked little spinster Sylvia Lux and she took it like a champ, but I've also had girls at a MP that just couldn't take it so they swapped her for another body. I think it's really subjective and comes down to their comfort level. If your girth is the size of a coke can, some girls eyes water at the thought, others wince. That's life sometimes :cool:
 
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Are you booking for long enough time to get them warmed up ? I mean it can stretch but it takes patience and time and lots of lube and communication. This is of course after consent To begin. Also knowing different women have different anatomies so a different angle and position might be needed. Pillows. Breathing. Ambiance etc
I don’t think an sp wants to be stretched out in the first place to be able to accommodate. They have other clients to consider and be careful if they’re bodies in general. I can’t imagine that is too appealing to them. I’m sure they would rather pass on the client.
 
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I've fucked little spinster Sylvia Lux and she took it like a champ, but I've also had girls at a MP that just couldn't take it so they swapped her for another body. I think it's really subjective and comes down to their comfort level. If your girth is the size of a coke can, some girls eyes water at the thought, others wince. That's life sometimes :cool:
A coke can lol .. not quite that thick but to my point some would desire more thickness than I can provide. So big, huge, large are we talking just length here?
 
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I don’t think an sp wants to be stretched out in the first place to be able to accommodate. They have other clients to consider and be careful if they’re bodies in general. I can’t imagine that is too appealing to them. I’m sure they would rather pass on the client.
Yeah .. I try to book the last hour of an SPs shift if I can.
 
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1) Broadly, Chinese girls are going to be less capable and older SPs of any ethnicity are going to be looser, esp if they have kids

2) You have to ease into it with oral, lube and slow pacing. Some girls will still be unable to accommodate but nearly all can with time - they push babies out of those things

3) If you can, bring your own condoms. Most girls have Magnums around but if you have another brand like Skyn King Elite Large and can bring them, it helps

4) Anal is off the table. Fun to joke about but it’s not enjoyable for almost any girl

5) Forget about DT. A bit of gagging is all you’re getting

6) There will be incidents. Sometimes blood, sometimes the girl will ask that you be her last client. I’ve had blood a few times, once recently with a current ATF. Next time all good. The girls say if they haven’t worked for a week or more it can tighten up again.

When I’ve talked to SPs about banning clients with large cocks, they mostly say it’s not so much the size as the accompanying aggression. Remember you’re kind of using a sledgehammer to drive a nail, so go easy and check in often.

Oh one more thing: in a recent convo an SP said guys with larger cocks generally cum faster. We both thought it was because the sensation is so much more intense - generally I can feel every ridge of a woman’s pussy, which for me generally means I slow way down and savor each inch. It also means they don’t pull off me very quickly afterwards; we’re both kind of slowly detaching which is sexy as fuck.

The girls say very few cocks are an extreme issue - too big or too small. Everything is in how you use it and how you connect - girls are much much more into the “whole person” than we are.
 

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1) Broadly, Chinese girls are going to be less capable and older SPs of any ethnicity are going to be looser, esp if they have kids

2) You have to ease into it with oral, lube and slow pacing. Some girls will still be unable to accommodate but nearly all can with time - they push babies out of those things

3) If you can, bring your own condoms. Most girls have Magnums around but if you have another brand like Skyn King Elite Large and can bring them, it helps

4) Anal is off the table. Fun to joke about but it’s not enjoyable for almost any girl

5) Forget about DT. A bit of gagging is all you’re getting

6) There will be incidents. Sometimes blood, sometimes the girl will ask that you be her last client. I’ve had blood a few times, once recently with a current ATF. Next time all good. The girls say if they haven’t worked for a week or more it can tighten up again.

When I’ve talked to SPs about banning clients with large cocks, they mostly say it’s not so much the size as the accompanying aggression. Remember you’re kind of using a sledgehammer to drive a nail, so go easy and check in often.

Oh one more thing: in a recent convo an SP said guys with larger cocks generally cum faster. We both thought it was because the sensation is so much more intense - generally I can feel every ridge of a woman’s pussy, which for me generally means I slow way down and savor each inch. It also means they don’t pull off me very quickly afterwards; we’re both kind of slowly detaching which is sexy as fuck.

The girls say very few cocks are an extreme issue - too big or too small. Everything is in how you use it and how you connect - girls are much much more into the “whole person” than we are.
Thanks Y for your post and the detail. Appreciate it!
 
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LOL, One girl once told me, "you have a nice 10 inch dick" I had to laugh as I am not 10". So she was either trying to flatter me, or enough guys are saying their 6" is a 9" that she has a skewed sense of measurement.

The female body can push out a 10 lb baby, trust me, none of us as too big.
 
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LOL, One girl once told me, "you have a nice 10 inch dick" I had to laugh as I am not 10". So she was either trying to flatter me, or enough guys are saying their 6" is a 9" that she has a skewed sense of measurement.

The female body can push out a 10 lb baby, trust me, none of us as too big.
Oh yes because pushing out a baby is so enjoyable. I’m not sure any of us should be deciding what is and isn’t too big for a woman to be comfortable with. If she says it’s too big then it’s too big. Why is this even a debate?
 

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Oh yes because pushing out a baby is so enjoyable. I’m not sure any of us should be deciding what is and isn’t too big for a woman to be comfortable with. If she says it’s too big then it’s too big. Why is this even a debate?
Absolutely agree. If a woman says "no", "stop" or "it hurts", those are not suggestions. Fucking stop and make sure she's ok or else you're a piece of shit rapist.
 

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Oh yes because pushing out a baby is so enjoyable. I’m not sure any of us should be deciding what is and isn’t too big for a woman to be comfortable with. If she says it’s too big then it’s too big. Why is this even a debate?
I wasn't targeting you at all, my comment was to all the other guys out here that flatter themselves into thinking they have the same issue as you. And I applaud you for doing the right thing if the woman does not want to proceed, if a woman says No, it is No.
 

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LOL, One girl once told me, "you have a nice 10 inch dick" I had to laugh as I am not 10". So she was either trying to flatter me, or enough guys are saying their 6" is a 9" that she has a skewed sense of measurement.

The female body can push out a 10 lb baby, trust me, none of us as too big.
Yep after many hours of hard labour. We only have 1hr sometimes less lol
 

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I run into this problem quite often. I have been denied by girls for being too large. I try to be proactive by telling them about me, and I'll get denied (which is fine, I'll find someone else) or I'll get told it's fine, and then I get there, and after they've started just...say they can't. Im not the type to force anyone to do anything, I dont get off on that. Is their a better way to go about this? A certain worker who performs well with guys like me? Any and all advice is appreciated.

Lol it is funny it became a running gag like this. I like every size but huge dick are like that special dildo you keep for that special occasion. 😍

I have noticed that guys have a tendency to lie about their size tho 😭. So don't worry Goodoer, huge dick are not as common as this board let it seems!
No lie Ms @Josephine - I can honestly say I am not big - far far far from it - there you have it - the whole truth and nothing but the truth...did I mention far :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO: :love: .

Thank god the SPs like what I have - at least that's what they tell me and I believe every word of it. I really do :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::love::love::D
 
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