Have you ever had someone ask for their money back?

The person im thinking of in particular saw me when they were working and then over the years came into an inheritance and retired. They blew their inheritance on lavish trips and prostitutes. Giving away money to people who didn't ask for it.

He calls me one day and says I needed to pay back all the money 😂 I rarely answer the phone but he had spent so much money over the years and we had spent so much time together I felt like I had to answer the phone even though we hadn't talked for well over a year.

He tells me the money he spent hiring me by the hour was all a loan and I needed to pay it all back. Something to the tune of $40,000 all spent with me 1 or 2 hours at a time over the course of several years.

He obviously ran out of money and was trying to recoup some of it.

The audacity though...

You dont go to your mechanic after he fixed your car several times and ask for your money back.

You don't do it to your plumber or your doctor after you've visited them multiples times or had them fix your plumbing for years.

Its just so strange how entitled some people are.

He offered me a payment plan and told me he'd send people after me 😂

Where do people get off?

He finally did the math and figured out how much he spent and tried to acts like it was all a loan.

This guy had balls im telling you lol
 
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The person im thinking of in particular saw me when they were working and then over the years came into an inheritance and retired. They blew their inheritance on lavish trips and prostitutes. Giving away money to people who didn't ask for it.

He calls me one day and says I needed to pay back all the money 😂 I rarely answer the phone but he had spent so much money over the years and we had spent so much time together I felt like I had to answer the phone even though we hadn't talked for well over a year.

He tells me the money he spent hiring me by the hour was all a loan and I needed to pay it all back. Something to the tune of $40,000 all spent with me 1 or 2 hours at a time over the course of several years.

He obviously ran out of money and was trying to recoup some of it.

The audacity though...

You dont go to your mechanic after he fixed your car several times and ask for your money back.

You don't do it to your plumber or your doctor after you've visited them multiples times or had them fix your plumbing for years.

Its just so strange how entitled some people are.

He offered me a payment plan and told me he'd send people after me 😂

Where do people get off?

He finally did the math and figured out how much he spent and tried to acts like it was all a loan.

This guy had balls im telling you lol
That must’ve been the best laugh you had in a long time!! 😂
 

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There was only one time I've ever asked an escort for my money back. Went to her incall for full service but when I got there she gave me the old 'lost my condoms' and I don't do bbbj so all I'll do is a handjob. I asked for my money back, she refused, in frustration I called her a scamming bitch and walked out. Outside of that, it's never even crossed my mind
 
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You should work at Walmart return desk, the stories.

Well he couldn't manage his money and now desperation and depression is kicking in.

>> IF he calls again, answer and tell him you willing to help him, you will take him to a daycare centre or a mental intuition.
 
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The person im thinking of in particular saw me when they were working and then over the years came into an inheritance and retired. They blew their inheritance on lavish trips and prostitutes. Giving away money to people who didn't ask for it.

He calls me one day and says I needed to pay back all the money 😂 I rarely answer the phone but he had spent so much money over the years and we had spent so much time together I felt like I had to answer the phone even though we hadn't talked for well over a year.

He tells me the money he spent hiring me by the hour was all a loan and I needed to pay it all back. Something to the tune of $40,000 all spent with me 1 or 2 hours at a time over the course of several years.

He obviously ran out of money and was trying to recoup some of it.

The audacity though...

You dont go to your mechanic after he fixed your car several times and ask for your money back.

You don't do it to your plumber or your doctor after you've visited them multiples times or had them fix your plumbing for years.

Its just so strange how entitled some people are.

He offered me a payment plan and told me he'd send people after me 😂

Where do people get off?

He finally did the math and figured out how much he spent and tried to acts like it was all a loan.

This guy had balls im telling you lol
More than half the cases on "Judge Judy" were about that. Loans that the deadbeat recipients insisted were really only gifts.

Judge Judy was not sympathetic at all...
 

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What a POS that person is. I hope they're a member here so they can read what I just said.

Secondly, and perhaps a bit off topic, I feel deep-seated white-hot rage for people who cannot control their spending. I have a friend who makes an excellent living, yet he cannot keep his head above water financially. Always coming around to others looking for temporary loans, which I have reluctantly given him (and he has always paid back).

I few years back, he inherited $200,000. The month was April when this happened. By September he had blown through every penny of it on holidays and cars and toys. It was all gone. Seriously, $200,000 in EXTRA money should last you several years, not five months.
 

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I think it is awkward as he'll to ask for money back. I tell the Greek uncharge ladies they can change their minds but then prorate me time (on a few occasions things did not quite fit). Once a reg got stuck in traffic on an outcall so my 90 min had to become a 60 min as i had a biz meeting. I could not ask her to take the dough out so i just said keep it and thanks for being tolerant and accommodating with me over the years. If it was a first or second date, I might have had to ask for some of it back.
 
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What a POS that person is. I hope they're a member here so they can read what I just said.

I few years back, he inherited $200,000. The month was April when this happened. By September he had blown through every penny of it on holidays and cars and toys. It was all gone. Seriously, $200,000 in EXTRA money should last you several years, not five months.
So do you know if he spent on SP's?
 

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The person im thinking of in particular saw me when they were working and then over the years came into an inheritance and retired. They blew their inheritance on lavish trips and prostitutes. Giving away money to people who didn't ask for it.

He calls me one day and says I needed to pay back all the money 😂 I rarely answer the phone but he had spent so much money over the years and we had spent so much time together I felt like I had to answer the phone even though we hadn't talked for well over a year.

He tells me the money he spent hiring me by the hour was all a loan and I needed to pay it all back. Something to the tune of $40,000 all spent with me 1 or 2 hours at a time over the course of several years.

He obviously ran out of money and was trying to recoup some of it.

The audacity though...

You dont go to your mechanic after he fixed your car several times and ask for your money back.

You don't do it to your plumber or your doctor after you've visited them multiples times or had them fix your plumbing for years.

Its just so strange how entitled some people are.

He offered me a payment plan and told me he'd send people after me 😂

Where do people get off?

He finally did the math and figured out how much he spent and tried to acts like it was all a loan.

This guy had balls im telling you lol
He must be a little slow - in other word stupid is the only term I can think of. Very sad - all jokes aside - he must be very desperate. Not a good mind set to be in.
 
What a POS that person is. I hope they're a member here so they can read what I just said.

Secondly, and perhaps a bit off topic, I feel deep-seated white-hot rage for people who cannot control their spending. I have a friend who makes an excellent living, yet he cannot keep his head above water financially. Always coming around to others looking for temporary loans, which I have reluctantly given him (and he has always paid back).

I few years back, he inherited $200,000. The month was April when this happened. By September he had blown through every penny of it on holidays and cars and toys. It was all gone. Seriously, $200,000 in EXTRA money should last you several years, not five months.

I think he had worked for several years and had his own money and then he inherited real estate and sold it during the peak during covid.

He probably received about a million dollars and I received very little of it. Very little. Most of the money came before his inheritance. Before he sold the properties and then he just disappeared for a year or 2 until I got this phone call

It took him about two or three years to blow through it all.

It's sad you know when I think about it. His parents worked their whole lives. They came to this country and built their dream and bought property and managed those properties. they went without, they made sacrifices all for their son to blow it all on his sex addiction and living like a millionaire.
 

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I think he had worked for several years and had his own money and then he inherited real estate and sold it during the peak during covid.

He probably received about a million dollars and I received very little of it. Very little. Most of the money came before his inheritance. Before he sold the properties and then he just disappeared for a year or 2 until I got this phone call

It took him about two or three years to blow through it all.

It's sad you know when I think about it. His parents worked their whole lives. They came to this country and built their dream and bought property and managed those properties. they went without, they made sacrifices all for their son to blow it all on his sex addiction and living like a millionaire.
I agree it's sad, but we also make our choices. I have seen this sort of thing just happen too many times: people end up with a windfall and then spend like a poet on payday, as if it's going to last forever, And THEN -- and THEN -- he has the audacity tp ask you for a whopping 40-large that he feels he's "given" you???????????????????????????????????????????? Piss on this clown. He could have been responsible, but he chose not to be. That's NOT your fault. That kind of money should last through retirement, but he chose to blow through it like an idiot. Now he's broke. Thems the breaks. You don't owe him a penny.
 
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It sound like the guy woke up one day and realized what he had done.

................or, maybe it was the money back guarantee tattoo on your ass that made him think he could get his money back.
 

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Yes, I've asked for and gotten my money back, but not years, months, days or even hours after the session. I didn't go on after about 5 minutes, when it was clear she was not as happy with digits as she led me to believe while we messaged about her limitations prior to the appointment.

She was not happy. Neither was I.
 
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