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Im convinced this is a kink. Pretending to have a big dick.

Im a size queen and I love a big dick. In my personal life if my partner doesnt have 9 inches im not interested but from a business perspective a big dick can cause tearing, friction irritation, they need special condoms that are more expensive and harder to find.

I would start off by reassuring them that you would not do anything to hurt them and then proceed to do things that arent intended to hurt them.

I used to have a clients who were so bad at sex that they would give me tears everytime I saw them. They weren't big, they were just deliberately trying to hurt me and I think that type off bad is VERY hard to ignore when a dick is big. I would have to take days off to heal. I fired them as client but tried several times to get them to learn how to do it better. They just weren't willing to learn.

My only concern with a big dick is how much damage it can do if the person doesnt know what theyre doing.

You might have to look at who you're asking. If you're going after spinners you might have to change your preferences. They're tiny. Theyre not built for it.
 
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Well you’re not going to be able to be picky. I recommend Indy’s so you can ask them directly. Seriously go down the list of sw’s so to speak with your erect dimensions and lay it on them. You need to find vaginas that feel like you’re sticking your dick into a warm bucket of water. They’re out there.
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There’s also lube…. Too many people now think spitting on this and that and in their hand is lube and it’s not
 
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Really bro, what you got from that is some rape scenario and not fucking them how you want?? If he explicitly tells the booker that he's big and the SP sees that he's big then it's up to both parties to let the client know it's not going to work out before wasting his money. Not to mention, if you're paying good money to see a particular SP then you should be able to fuck how you please, not some half-ass penetration like you're trying to nail the perfect shot in a porno.
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He said "I'm not the type to force anyone to do anything". If only we had a word for forcing someone into a sexual act....

Anyways I was just pointing out the irony in the way he said it. I'm going to give OP the benefit of the doubt that he wasnt implying actual rape.

But do you really think that if he pays he should be allowed to just jam it in how he likes no matter how it feels for the person being jammed into?

That's pretty messed up man.
 
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He said "I'm not the type to force anyone to do anything". If only we had a word for forcing someone into a sexual act....

Anyways I was just pointing out the irony in the way he said it. I'm going to give OP the benefit of the doubt that he wasnt implying actual rape.

But do you really think that if he pays he should be allowed to just jam it in how he likes no matter how it feels for the person being jammed into?

That's pretty messed up man.
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Well that's a given unless he wants to be permanently banned from that agency or face jail time, weird that you even mentioned it, it's just understood. Regardless, what I'm saying is the agency/booker and SP failed to their due diligence. The booker has a duty to communicate issues or requests to the SP (which 99% of the time they don't), and the SP has the duty to refuse service if she knows the session will potentially become an issue before the client wastes his money on a subpar experience. This is exacly why I avoid Chinese SPs, because more often than not I get an SP who provides no DFK, DATY or has an issue with my size after explicitly explaining everything to the booker. I can almost guarentee that I'll walk in only to realize the SP has no clue what I'm talking about, it's annoying as hell. And in my situation it's worse because I'm a grower so when I explain "listen I'm big" they laugh it off until they see it hard.
 
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Well that's a given unless he wants to be permanently banned from that agency or face jail time, weird that you even mentioned it, it's just understood. Regardless, what I'm saying is the agency/booker and SP failed to their due diligence. The booker has a duty to communicate issues or requests to the SP (which 99% of the time they don't), and the SP has the duty to refuse service if she knows the session will potentially become an issue before the client wastes his money on a subpar experience. This is exacly why I avoid Chinese SPs, because more often than not I get an SP who provides no DFK, DATY or has an issue with my size after explicitly explaining everything to the booker. I can almost guarentee that I'll walk in only to realize the SP has no clue what I'm talking about, it's annoying as hell. And in my situation it's worse because I'm a grower so when I explain "listen I'm big" they laugh it off until they see it hard.
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Not quite right my man. I did not "mention it". I reacted to the OP mentioning it by saying "I'm not the type to force anyone to do anything, I don't get off on that" which I pointed out is Rape, so good thing he's not into that.

You reacted to my reaction.

For those that get the reference "I didn't bring up the rapey vibes, he did"

I will agree with your assessment that this comes down to proper communication between all parties ahead of time so that OP does not pay for a service he does not get.
 
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You may have to adjust your expectations.

If you want DT, maybe settle for just the head. If you want balls deep, maybe settle for half shaft. Maybe let the girl do CG so she can control how far down the shaft she goes.

The thing with vaginas is they expand for girth but for length, you hit the cervix and that shit can hurt. Going slower, making sure to have lots of foreplay will help and don’t pound away.

Maybe adjusting completely to massage and really good, long, teasing edging style HJ. Maybe requesting that for the first session with the SP of your choosing to then judge if by you two can make it work on another session is the trick.
 
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Jenesis is right. Listen to her. Women are not all built the same. Don't expect one size fits all. That's completely unrealistic.

The OP needs to adjust and realize going balls deep is not going to work for every woman, if he has found refusal in the past, there is a good reason.
You absolutely need to warm up the oven before putting the bun in the oven, even if she is a pro ;-) lots of oral and foreplay. Lube if needed.
In my life, I have found that curvier women generally can take a lot more cock than tiny petite women and many can deep throat really good, which is a plus.
Vietnamese or Japanese tend to be tight, not all for sure, but that is true on average. Being tiny has both advantages and disadvantages for sex, for many positions obviously.

I have found that some women love the girth, some do not want the length, it varies. I am very girthy and while certainly not over 8 inches, I have been told more than once that I hit their cervix. Some women loved that full feeling, others found it very painful. Some women are just not deep but their pussies can all lengthen naturally (during childbirth everything gets stretched out).

I have actually had blood on my dick and bruised it from going too deep, unfortunately a few times. It is rare but it can happen. Slow down or shorten your strokes if that seems to be the case. Maybe have the woman ride you to better control the speed and depth. You'll learn to feel once she is wet enough to take more, or she will plainly tell you.

Good Luck
 
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Only with anal. Usually, I just take it slow with vaginal and let the lady dictate the depth and speed to start, then just pay attention to the signs I'm getting too deep/going too hard. With greek I only try with women that absolutely love it, otherwise I know it won't work. To date only one woman has properly DT'd me and it was amazing.
 
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DopamineJunkie said:
Well that's a given unless he wants to be permanently banned from that agency or face jail time, weird that you even mentioned it, it's just understood. Regardless, what I'm saying is the agency/booker and SP failed to their due diligence. The booker has a duty to communicate issues or requests to the SP (which 99% of the time they don't), and the SP has the duty to refuse service if she knows the session will potentially become an issue before the client wastes his money on a subpar experience. This is exacly why I avoid Chinese SPs, because more often than not I get an SP who provides no DFK, DATY or has an issue with my size after explicitly explaining everything to the booker. I can almost guarentee that I'll walk in only to realize the SP has no clue what I'm talking about, it's annoying as hell. And in my situation it's worse because I'm a grower so when I explain "listen I'm big" they laugh it off until they see it hard.
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Are you booking for long enough time to get them warmed up ? I mean it can stretch but it takes patience and time and lots of lube and communication. This is of course after consent To begin. Also knowing different women have different anatomies so a different angle and position might be needed. Pillows. Breathing. Ambiance etc
 
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Jenesis is right. Listen to her. Women are not all built the same. Don't expect one size fits all. That's completely unrealistic.

The OP needs to adjust and realize going balls deep is not going to work for every woman, if he has found refusal in the past, there is a good reason.
You absolutely need to warm up the oven before putting the bun in the oven, even if she is a pro ;-) lots of oral and foreplay. Lube if needed.
In my life, I have found that curvier women generally can take a lot more cock than tiny petite women and many can deep throat really good, which is a plus.
Vietnamese or Japanese tend to be tight, not all for sure, but that is true on average. Being tiny has both advantages and disadvantages for sex, for many positions obviously.

I have found that some women love the girth, some do not want the length, it varies. I am very girthy and while certainly not over 8 inches, I have been told more than once that I hit their cervix. Some women loved that full feeling, others found it very painful. Some women are just not deep but their pussies can all lengthen naturally (during childbirth everything gets stretched out).

I have actually had blood on my dick and bruised it from going too deep, unfortunately a few times. It is rare but it can happen. Slow down or shorten your strokes if that seems to be the case. Maybe have the woman ride you to better control the speed and depth. You'll learn to feel once she is wet enough to take more, or she will plainly tell you.

Good Luck
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Will also depend on what kind of birth control they have if they’re on it. There’s one that is a copper rod that stays inside at the cervix I’ve felt it before so it could also be hurting them for that reason
 
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