Do (sugar) dating apps actually work or are they a waste of money?

Have you checked out this thread?

Yes, I did find 2 SB to sleep overnight with and countless dates that lasted 8 hours without overnight if that what you desire.
I was in my late50s when I started and the two SB overnighter were early 20s. The cost was similar to what I would pay an escort for 2 hour
The girls I was with are amateurs so the sex isn’t going to be exactly the same as going to a pro SP
There are some useful insights in that thread posted above.

I've had success on Seeking, yes. You can actually browse the site without paying a dime initially. It's only when you want to message members that you have to pay.

In terms of sleeping overnight, yes, you can probably find a girl who will do that at a rate that is much less than an SP would charge. However, the girl would have to be comfortable with you and build up rapport over (likely) a series of meetings before she would actually feel comfortable falling asleep beside you.

What would that rate be? There is no fixed rate on the site. Some girls may ask 300 to stay overnight; others 3k (seriously). These girls mostly are amateurs and often don't know what is realistic.

Overall, if you have the money and patience, yes, you can find a good companion on Seeking. I would ignore the other Sugar sites, personally.

eetlepel2023 said:

I am separating from a sexless-marriage / dead-bedroom situation. I am now free to date in public. (I have seen sex workers
when the urge and frustration about lack of sex got to me but for obvious reasons stayed away from real relationships.)

As a financially comfortable but not good looking man of 55 I realize it may take a long time to find a new and permanent partner.

I would really like to find someone to sleep overnight with but am not willing to pay fucking "hourly rate" x 8 for just that pleasure....

Have any of you been successful on the "Sugar Baby" apps for that kind of stuff? I looked at subscription cost on Seeking.com
and feel that it may not actually deliver matches at all.

Please share your experiences, how do you rate your own looks, what kind of matches did you make, was it worth it?

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TBH, Sugar dating is very cost effective, but the women vary in sexual pleasing abilities. Why? Because they are normal people who may be very open to sex, and one night stands, but aren't pros and are doing it for the money. However, I have found a few SB's that surprised me with their creativity and sexual interest and blew me away! I've also had beauties who seemed to equate cum with toxic waste. But over all, it's been an excellent experience and there are many gems out there, just be normal about sugar babies and it may work out amazing.

Yeah, agreed. Overall I've found the sex with sugar babies to be good. They are (for the most part) civilians so you should expect a 1 night stand kind of feel. The lack of a time limit is a major plus for me as I find with SP's I'm always rushing.

It’s been about 7 years since I used Seeking. At the time it was very effective. Met a total of 4 women over the course of 3 years. The price was more than with an escort, but the experiences were, over all, much better.
Three of the four women treated it like a regular hook up where they got paid; genuine kissing, genuine lubrication, genuine (or so effectively faked that I don’t care they were fake) orgasms, do all the stuff I like (digits, cum on tits/face, toy herself). The fourth was very up tight; we had awkward sex once and I never went back.
The trick I found was to not engage with the high-end smoke shows; they had learned that they could extract money from men without giving up anything in return (I don’t blame them, if I could get paid for looking good, I would….). I always had the best luck with the regular looking girls in the 30-40 year old range.

If I were in your situation, I would run to someplace like Thailand and never look back. Just be smart and don’t build any houses or attend to sick buffalo. When the bullshit start, just move on to the next one that same afternoon.

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