How do married guys deal with locators on their phones?

Jami77

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Thanks, I actually needed this. However, Lucky asks for info related to ID, address, current provider, credit card, etc. when activating on the website. Any alternatives where can I get a prepaid sim card paid cash for the card, plan, and activation all at the store without providing any info related to ID, address, current provider, etc.
This is the simplest way -
1. Burner phone - buy on Kijiji. Its linked to someone elses EMEI - make sure phone takes esims- most modern phones do. I use Pixel and install Calyx but you dont need to do that.
2. If you use Fido - get an extra "tablet sim" around $15 a month for 4gb for your tablet so is data only. This sim can also go in phone. This is good for plausible deniability - theres usually no biggy if you have a tablet and need a sim - theres no phone number attached to it and no-one is going to need to track your tablet. Or
3. Go to Saily.com - and buy an esim - $17.99 USD per 30 days for 5gb. There are other esim providers. But this is a good one. If you dont need 30 days just buy credit every time you want the phone to go live. These places aren't ever going to reveal your details to anyone and many of these companies are based abroad - so dont worry about paying with credit card - or having the saily account showing up on a credit check. Note some of the esim companies might give you a phone number but if they dont...
4. Get a phone number - lots of burner apps - Hushed.com or My Sudo.com - I find My Sudo very reliable and you can add and delete phone numbers. My Sudo company is all about anonimity online - their company would go bust if they start giving out details to anyone.

So to summarise.
1. Use an old phone or buy one on Kijiji
2. Add a tablet Sim to your Fido account or
3. Get an eSim - saily or whoever
4. Get a phone number- my sudo or hushed.com
 

bobbywings

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This is the simplest way -
1. Burner phone - buy on Kijiji. Its linked to someone elses EMEI - make sure phone takes esims- most modern phones do. I use Pixel and install Calyx but you dont need to do that.
2. If you use Fido - get an extra "tablet sim" around $15 a month for 4gb for your tablet so is data only. This sim can also go in phone. This is good for plausible deniability - theres usually no biggy if you have a tablet and need a sim - theres no phone number attached to it and no-one is going to need to track your tablet. Or
3. Go to Saily.com - and buy an esim - $17.99 USD per 30 days for 5gb. There are other esim providers. But this is a good one. If you dont need 30 days just buy credit every time you want the phone to go live. These places aren't ever going to reveal your details to anyone and many of these companies are based abroad - so dont worry about paying with credit card - or having the saily account showing up on a credit check. Note some of the esim companies might give you a phone number but if they dont...
4. Get a phone number - lots of burner apps - Hushed.com or My Sudo.com - I find My Sudo very reliable and you can add and delete phone numbers. My Sudo company is all about anonimity online - their company would go bust if they start giving out details to anyone.

So to summarise.
1. Use an old phone or buy one on Kijiji
2. Add a tablet Sim to your Fido account or
3. Get an eSim - saily or whoever
4. Get a phone number- my sudo or hushed.com
if you have to go through all those lengths, maybe choose a different hobby like golf or fishing, if ya know, ya know LFG
 
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d4rkness35

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Thanks, I actually needed this. However, Lucky asks for info related to ID, address, current provider, credit card, etc. when activating on the website. Any alternatives where can I get a prepaid sim card paid cash for the card, plan, and activation all at the store without providing any info related to ID, address, current provider, etc.
You can also activate an eSIM with Public Mobile using a prepaid Visa card (bought with cash) if you open a support case with them and ask them for help activating your account. You can then buy top up vouchers for cash at grocery stations to add money to your account. I use GrapheneOS on a Pixel phone for my burner and the Public Mobile app works fine.
Though I probably would have gone PC mobile if I had known you could still buy a SIM for cash directly like someone else in this thread mentioned.
 

love_jones

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I have a second phone which I keep at work and use strictly for hobbying. My main stays at the office so the location sharing will show that I'm at work. When I'm hobbying I just simply switch the sim card to the second phone, so I can still respond to text messages if needed.
 

atlantica

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Your locker method is great. To modify it a bit, I just found out another way without prepaid sim cards so I thought I share. Just tested it too, so it definitely works like a charm.

Your going to need your main iphone (iphone A) and another apple device like an ipad/ipod/iphone (apple device B). Make sure both iphone A and apple device B are logged into the same icloud.

Then on apple device B, go to
->settings
->privacy
->location services
->share my location
->Use this device as my location

*by this point, the device being tracked by findmy is apple device B*

Then when your ready to come back home to poor wifey, on iphone A, go to
->settings
->privacy
->location services
->share my location
->Use this device as my location

*by this point, you would have switched back the findmy location to your main iphone (iphone A)*

Throughout this entire process of switching the location back and forth between iphone A and apple device B, the other person will not be notified of the location change.

Also, sometimes if the option "use this device as my location" does not show up, click "find my iphone" at the top. Then go back and the option should be available.
I do this. Have an old iPhone and an old iPad. One at work. One at the gym. Turn on the one I say I’m going to be. Do my business and turn location finder on main phone back on when I’m a safe area. Works great
 

Jami77

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That sounds like a lot of work to get laid by an SP. Especially for someone like me, whose not the greatest in technology.
Its a fair bit of work - but Im a cheapo so instead of paying for a full account - my wife has a phone and this is mine - so I basically run a regular phone - hers for $45 and this one is $15 a month - plus My sudo which is $40 a year. So its not really a lot of work as its my daily phone. Its a cheap way to get a 2nd phone.

Other options suggested on here work. To be honest I just wait til Ive been left alone and the wife has gone off somewhere for the day and then I do a walk-in at the local AMP. I turn my phone off completely on the walk over. Not because the wife might track me - its untrackable so she cant - its just Im a paraniod person and I like multiple layers of security around my shenanigans.
 

hemiman

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Flip the script and try that on her. Say to her you want to know her location 24/7 and use tracking software/devices.

Her lawyer will use that as evidence of domestic abuse, some coercive control kinda shit, and youll be seen as a monster.

Yet you guys think nothing of her wanting to track you.
 

Jami77

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Get this app on your phone - https://apps.apple.com/us/app/life360-stay-connected-safe/id384830320
Get her to sign up so you can track her too - then go the gym - leave phone in locker - grab burner or head over to AMP and have fun with it.

Should probably also work out once in a while -so you at least start looking like its working.

Plus when you are at gym you can track her and make sure she isnt following you...
 

barnacler

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EEh 5 miles. 5 miles! Luxury. When I was a kid we had to run 50miles to school and when we got there they made us do it again.
Run? LUXURY!

We had to HOP on one leg while carrying a sack of coal - blindfolded of course!
 

Robert Mugabe

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Snow? Snow? Luxury. We dreamed of snow - we had to run barefoot on hot coals....
Reminds me of a female Japanese comedienne. She was saying most kids had to listen to their parents telling stories of having to walk backwards 5 miles to school in bare feet in the snow. She said she had to listen to her parents complaining, "when we were going to school they dropped an atomic bomb on us" She said she didn't have any comeback for that one.
 

xyphy

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my family uses share locations for safety, we're also on the highway regularly so it's easy to gauge arrival times etc. and also for timing with dinner when I was working full time and on my way home.
As much as my SO says she only looks at it for that, she's full of crap and I know she tracks everyone in the house because she's bored and always scrolling. She also has a nose like a bloodhound so I need to be able to disguise myself either with going to an RMT before or after a session or the gym.
Here's my fail safe method, As mentioned, join a gym that has multiple locations, see if they line up with a favourite provider or agency. Good life has locations often in the same buildings or next door. go to the gym or you "booked a trainer". phone ringer is off but the location matches with working out. keep your gym bag in the car or with you at all times. I say I used the sauna or had a steam. You can also do the same with a tanning bed or trying out a juice bar or whatever floats your boat. Just make sure the story adds up and if you missed a call or text, usually your down time was 30/45 or maybe an hour. I miss calls all the time, my latest ios update screwed my texts for almost 2 weeks. problem solved
 
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