Is twice a week with the same provider too much?

itd131 · Dec 7, 2025

Short answer: yes, it is too much.

The sweet spot is somewhere between 2-4 times/month. Definitely not more than once a week and most of the time less than that is best. In order for an experience to be unique or special, it must also be infrequent. You want to see her enough that you build a rapport but not so much that it becomes a routine. Also, if you are seeing her more than once per week you are likely getting way too attached and she is probably occupying a role in your life that you shouldn't fill with an SP.

Pokemon301 · Dec 8, 2025

Fluor said:
By “bitter taste,” I didn’t mean the service was bad or mechanical. It was more subtle than that.

For example, arriving about 6 minutes late and ending the session 8 minutes early (on a 1-hour booking), combined with an overall vibe that felt less engaging, less present, and less “real” than usual.

Nothing dramatic. Just small details that, added up, changed the feeling of the encounter for me. It could very well be external factors on her side, I may start reading too much into things.

I see. The second visit doesn't feel real, so you are unsatisfied, which makes sense.
If you see a provider twice a week and it always feels real, however, you will get attached and that's bad news.

The only way out of this dilemma is for you to find multiple SP's that you like, and that way when you get attached the following week you can see somebody else twice or even three times. Put them on a weekly rotation, or stick to infrequent visits with one provider.

Fluor · Dec 9, 2025

itd131 said:
Short answer: yes, it is too much.

The sweet spot is somewhere between 2-4 times/month. Definitely not more than once a week and most of the time less than that is best. In order for an experience to be unique or special, it must also be infrequent. You want to see her enough that you build a rapport but not so much that it becomes a routine. Also, if you are seeing her more than once per week you are likely getting way too attached and she is probably occupying a role in your life that you shouldn't fill with an SP.

You’re absolutely right. That’s exactly what happened with my former MA. Things became too frequent, the emotional connection got stronger than it should have, and the feelings genuinely seemed reciprocal. I didn’t really know how to handle it since it was the first time I’d experienced something like that, so I eventually decided to stop seeing her altogether. She took it pretty badly, but I felt it was the healthiest choice.

That being said, it’s not what’s happening with my current regular at all. Things are great, the dynamic is solid, but there’s no romantic attachment on either side. It feels balanced and healthy, which is exactly what I want.

And when I have time to kill, I’ll just focus on other hobbies instead. Keeps things balanced.

William St · Jan 23, 2026

Fluor said:
I’ve experienced this with different providers, and more often than not, the second visit had a bitter taste. From your experience, is seeing the same provider twice a week too much ? For you / for the provider ? (or maybe both)

The sp actually should take it as a compliment that a client wants to see her twice in the same week.

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