Is the reverse massage an endangered species?

How do you feel about a reverse massage?

  • It's absolutely mandatory - appointment doesn't feel complete without it.

    Votes: 11 22.0%
  • I like it, but I'm not a stickler. If it happens, great; if it doesn't, no biggie.

    Votes: 27 54.0%
  • Um, I'm not paying to do the work. She massages me, not the other way around.

    Votes: 10 20.0%
  • Other - explain in the comments.

    Votes: 2 4.0%

  • Total voters
    50
  • Poll closed .

johnnyonthespot

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I recently had an appointment with a lady and, a little while after the flip, I asked if she was open to me massaging her. It stopped her in her tracks, and she told me that she'd never had a client ask to massage her before. This wasn't a newbie - she's been at this for a few years at least. She was down for it, though, and we both had a lovely time with me delivering a massage, both back and front, and then eventually we switched back to bring the appointment to a conclusion.

But it left me wondering - is she an anomaly, or do guys really not look to include a reverse massage in their sessions anymore? So, I put it to the room, for science (cross-posting this to the Toronto forum too, to see if it's a regional thing).
 

Tango Urilla

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Why in the hell would one wanna give a woman a massage when they are the one paying? I pay for them to pamper me.
 

OttawaZugZug

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I love giving a reverse massage to the ladies. I'll admit, my lasting power is not the greatest, so a reverse massage is a nice way to put a pause on things in the middle of the session to avoid me paying for an hour and popping at 35 minutes.

Plus, I love massaging them and seeing their reactions during and afterwards.
 

Tango Urilla

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You don’t understand how it works, do you ? I was mad at first reading your comment but I realized that you must be a really sad human being
I fully understand how it works. I pay and I receive. Quite the contrary as I’m a very happy individual.
 

OttawaZugZug

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You don’t understand how it works, do you ? I was mad at first reading your comment but I realized that you must be a really sad human being
There is nothing wrong with their attitude. (And I am not being patronizing).

It all depends on how one gets satisfaction/pleasure/contentment and how one views what they are engaging in.

Some people see it as totally transactional. "I pay, you do."

Others see it as more of an interactive experience.

Neither is wrong, neither is right, and one person liking one does not make the other invalid and vice versa.
 

randomott

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Not something I've ever done but it must be fairly common as I see it advertised quite often.
 

OttawaZugZug

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never had an SP refuse a massage. Actually I get a real good look at their ass at the same time
And their legs, and their feet, and their boobs, with the wonderful opportunity to kiss all those spots and, if you do it right, make them shiver and moan.
 

kawarider69

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NR is old school term .. In TO , that was the advertised term used for go to the next level over the base $40 price. Back 20 or 30 years ago , it allowed you to touch. Now a days most high end spas just have the one basic price then you negotiate.. Either way you get to business as slow or quick as you want.
 
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