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Bait & Switch and bad experience with Jessica from Ottawa

WanderingMexa

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Sep 30, 2025
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Hey y'all, it's my first time seeing a provider in Ottawa, but I've had many experiences in Mexico, some in Vancouver and Montreal, as well as Europe, since about 2016

I contacted the girl in this ad: https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...specialprostate_sensual_bodyworktoday-9787446

We agreed on rates & times. I show up, and didn't notice it wasn't the girl from the pictures until I already went into her appt, but decided to give her a chance because it's rare that someone knows their way around a prostate as the ad claims, and I've had good and even great services from girls I didn't find super appealing.

However, once the "massage" started, she was continuously bumping into me and the table (something I never realized other providers had NEVER done). She seemed fairly uncoordinated and nervous in general, which made me uncomfortable. The straw that broke the camel's back is that she couldn't find her gloves for a specifically prostate service. This is tantamount to not knowing where your condoms are. Once I made it clear I wouldn't do anything without protection she searched her apartment for a good 5 minutes until I told her I was uncomfortable and wanted to leave. She kept searching another 5 and then I did something I have never in my nearly 10 years of escorting have done: asked for my money back. She, of course, refused and threatened to call the cops once I insisted.

I left.

I have never in my life had such an uncomfortable experience, even taking into account other times I've been scammed, bait & switched, had girls with bad attitudes, etc. Heck, once a girl left period blood on the hotel bathroom floor and it wasn't as uncomfortable as this.

I don't know why bait & switches take my by surprise anymore, but it's the last time I'm letting it happen.
 

WanderingMexa

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Sep 30, 2025
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Sadly I'm here for a visit and don't come to Canada often. Thankfully I found the forum.

Is there something like escort-adviser in Italy, where there's ads with reviews in Canada?
 

Frank Gravey

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If it's any consolation I just ran a Google pix search on what she has posted. I don't treat those results as a sure bet, but for ads I think are sketchy it often validates my suspicions. Not so here. If I'd been in your position and really wanted prostate work, the Google results would not have persuaded me not to proceed. Such is life. Don't look back.
 

PointyP

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You said yourself at the end: "...last time..."
B&S happened to me exactly once, and never again, not worth mentioning because nothing happened... at the beginning of my adventures early days..
To my chagrin, there was plenty of reviews here to warn me...

Low price/off images/telegram/ etc etc are all red flags, anything else that feels off
Even if somehow you puddle through all that, you'll likely get a crappy experience anyway.
And if by some miracle there's a gem that is just bad at marketing, its a 1 in 100, still not worth the odds...

Stay home, save your time, money, effort.
 
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