A good way to get yourself banned and possibly arrested.....
but sure - let's try this to test if a woman you pay for sex is interested in your money.
At no point was I suggesting a guy try that with any provider he hasn't seen regularly for a long time and with whom he thinks the relationship is mutually romantic.
The point in my above post is that, if you really think a sex provider likes you just for being you, and that you have developed what you feel is a real friendship or even romantic relationship, not paying will clear up that misconception real quick.
A couple of times, with the few ladies I saw as long-time regulars, I neglected to pay up front, and because they knew me and were comfortable with me, they didn't ask for the money up front, which is when I usually paid.
Then, being engrossed in conversation, and being a bit of an old coot, I forgot that I hadn't paid as per usual up front, and was obviously forgetting to pay on my way out.
The few times that happened the ladies involved were quick to remind me that I hadn't paid. Actually they were a bit apologetic about it, seeming to not want to offend me by reinforcing the financial nature of our friendly and regular relationship.
Of course I apologized profusely and paid immediately.
A couple of times both of us forgot, and either I remembered when I got to my car, or I got a call from the agency advising of the issue.
If I was still in the parking ,lot, and there was no other guy on his way up, I went right back up, apologized, and paid.
If I wasn't close by, I took care of it by e-transfer to the agency, added on the small agency e-transfer premium involved, and that was that.
No provider, no matter how often I had seen her, ever let it ride until the next session, not would I expect them to.
Also at no point, regardless of how comfortable it seemed we felt in each other's company, how many laughs we had, and how good (I thought at least) the physical part was, I never assumed there was anything more to any of my escort relationships than sex provider /client.
And honestly I don't think there are many clients as consistently respectful to sex providers as me. Which of course I can't prove, but the ladies have often told me that.
In my single, twice-divorced old age, my main loves are my children, my music, my TV, my computer, my New Yorker magazine and Record Collector magazine subscriptions, and the ladies in the sex industry. Reasons to get up each morning.
Oops, I forgot to mention cheeseburgers...
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