Help out a newbie. What are the big red flags when looking at an AD and when you arrive?

Jolly_Giant89

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Good Evening Everyone,

Somewhat newish to the hobby here, and have only ever played around with Asian agencies where there is at least a website and you tend to talk to the same handlers/phone numbers. I was wondering if anybody had some solid red flag tips that they could share to help me be able to know what I'd be getting into or even when to back off.

Some that I know:
-Only fans link in the ad is usually a scam
-photos that show face and body are usually fake unless supported by other photos(i.e 1 type of those photos and the rest are at different angles or things are blurred out)
-pre-booking can potentially be a scam depending on how its approached....as if the girl is just asking for it out of the blue and it's not listed on her website
-Asian photos are either something random from the net or are severely airbrushed for the most part...though some have been pretty close.
-Bait and switch can happen when you arrive with some girls.

Please add more or edit the ones I listed!|

My prime example would be this ad for a girl named Helen. Wondering if anyone notices anything off with it or how it will play out? I think she'll be a very different person from the pics that are showing, and probably much older. She also has a low hourly rate at $260 which when compared to the normal $400 seems like something would be off(i.e older or bigger lady).



Thanks for your insights and advice!
 

Curiousguy4l

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Sep 13, 2023
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Good Evening Everyone,

Somewhat newish to the hobby here, and have only ever played around with Asian agencies where there is at least a website and you tend to talk to the same handlers/phone numbers. I was wondering if anybody had some solid red flag tips that they could share to help me be able to know what I'd be getting into or even when to back off.

Some that I know:
-Only fans link in the ad is usually a scam
-photos that show face and body are usually fake unless supported by other photos(i.e 1 type of those photos and the rest are at different angles or things are blurred out)
-pre-booking can potentially be a scam depending on how its approached....as if the girl is just asking for it out of the blue and it's not listed on her website
-Asian photos are either something random from the net or are severely airbrushed for the most part...though some have been pretty close.
-Bait and switch can happen when you arrive with some girls.

Please add more or edit the ones I listed!|

My prime example would be this ad for a girl named Helen. Wondering if anyone notices anything off with it or how it will play out? I think she'll be a very different person from the pics that are showing, and probably much older. She also has a low hourly rate at $260 which when compared to the normal $400 seems like something would be off(i.e older or bigger lady).



Thanks for your insights and advice!
You also want to google the photos and check corresponding ads or stolen pics.
 

MikeO

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I think you've identified some pretty good indicators.
I've never seen a legit lady that is: (and they are usually a combination of)
- available 7-24, often for incalls and outcalls
- party girl (yes, some legit girls may like to 'party' so this alone many not be a deterrent if you do. Is sharing a bottle of wine 'partying'... not in my books
- offers multi hour and overnight sessions without previously meeting and/or screening potential client
- shows full face photos / very explicit photos
- offers car calls or 15 minute sessions
- has ads that include inconsistencies in size, weight... eg. 4 ft tall / 160 lbs or 5 ft. 9" tall and 89 lbs. (yes, we do see these) and/or poor spelling or phrasing

If you show up and the door opens and the lady does not greet you but instead retreats to another room....quickly retreat to your car.

I'm certain many other Terbites have more to add.

Good luck!
 

ArgoHater

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Avoid ads that say "contact me on my OnlyFans" - it's just farming for subscribers, and is against the TOS.
Ads with "word salad" (I mentioned this in the past on here a few times).
Avoid Telegram and Signal contact methods - while Signal is fairly good, Telegram is a Russian app that mines ALL your data.
I'm sure there are others.
 
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