This is more of a before booking thing but an ad needs to have some idea of location for me to even reach out. Something as general as west-end or downtown is fine.
Clients, what makes a booking experience better?
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1. Not so much personally. But I do appreciate it when I am asked about my Kinks (which of course should be laid out beforehand) and my hobbies.
2. Always when I'm working with someone new. A 15 min gentle massage and get to know each other type chitchat always helps to break me down a bit
3. I prefer dim lighting, no strong artificial scents or particular noise. this may vary though with the type of visit.
4. A hug is great. Being immediately collared, leashed, and pulled to the bed (or wherever) is my favorite.
5. goodbye hug is also great. Text is a plus. If impact was involved, I like sending them a picture of their handwork.
2. Always when I'm working with someone new. A 15 min gentle massage and get to know each other type chitchat always helps to break me down a bit
3. I prefer dim lighting, no strong artificial scents or particular noise. this may vary though with the type of visit.
4. A hug is great. Being immediately collared, leashed, and pulled to the bed (or wherever) is my favorite.
5. goodbye hug is also great. Text is a plus. If impact was involved, I like sending them a picture of their handwork.
Same boat Peter485, I have to book like almost a 2, 3 and 2 times 4 weeks in advance. Yeah a flirty little email the morning of or night before during the confirmation, general location email......that would be awesome!! I tend to do deep research before booking and communication on everything so services I am looking for are provided. I know some of you hate this but I will send a deposit if small, if requested to hold that spot because of the lack of availability on my end. Of course only if well reviewed and established here in Ottawa.....if not no deposit for sure!
HB69......
I think most providers would be cautious about sending those kinds of texts outside the initial process, considering that someone's wife might see it.
I like any of these little touches that make me feel welcome and appreciated. It's nice when women are intentional about these gestures. Makes things sexier and not as transactional. I like to text later just to say I had a good time (if I did not, I won't text at all).Hi folks,
Just coming on here to ask some questions regarding a booking. The attention to detail, ways to make you feel special before, during, after. I mean hell yeah you're going to a sexy person for good times but just the other aspects of it too. I threw some of my tid bits of things I incorporate into sessions also
1. Asking you questions such as are you allergic to scents, latex?
(I always use mens deodorant anyways for discreet reasons for many. I ask before hand if I can put on a fave perfume to feel sexy)
2. Do you get nervous arriving or during a session ? Is there some thing that helps you ? Would luring you to the bed or table help, certain music ? Fresh ice water ?
(I do my sessions sober and prefer my dates do too or limit a drink or their pine tree usage outside lol)
3. Noise, lighting, scent...setting the mood. What helps to create the best getaway and be in the current with a worker(s)
4. Initiating - do you feel taken care of when the worker goes in for a hug, sometimes a kiss(or asks you first that always feels nice for some) gentle grabs into you or into the bed/table. Or initiating any other details
5. Sending off. A goodbye hug, warm embrace. Do you prefer no text after or a text to make it feel like the worker is good to see you again ? Do you wait a bit ? For discreet reasons I'd only message few min after to get home safely so it can be deleted.
Would appreciate to see your comments & thoughts
Warm regards on this chilly evening
Katrinna
In the same category as this comment: I find ads without specifics as to what services are offered frustrating. At a minimum the ad should be clear on what the restrictions are.
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So I only see local established Ladies. So this would not really affect me, but you could reach out to the Lady you were interested in and ask in a very nice way. Even my first contact messages, I am very polite and open about what my expectations are and ask about restrictions right away so not to be a time waster if they do not offer services I am looking for. At the same time I always ask for an area of Ottawa/Gatineau they are seeing people in and if it is a hotel or residence. Those are things that could be handled in a nice short and polite message. If I do not get anything back.....I move on.....lots of great Ladies in Ottawa....but I usually start my search here for reviews and then move to twitter to see more comments and maybe reach out there to the Lady. Hope that helps.....Oh I do not use LL if I do not have to.
HB69....was here??!?!?! Words of Wisdom....do not pee into the wind
Maybe that is why you haven't seen don't-even-ask-me-about-a-menu types. But they do exist, and my reaction after encountering that is: you are selling a service, this is a commercial transaction, I need to know what is being offered before making a decision.
Correct!!! I have been very careful in who I see and if "don't-even-ask-me-about-a-menu " happens or I don't do "menu type service" messages are what I get, then I thank them politely and move on. I don't get angry or frustrated with the Ladies, it is like you said it is a commercial transaction and if I can not find out what is on the invoice before signing for the product I refuse delivery. Does that sound better for you. In the end you choose who you go see, the Ladies don't search here looking to find us on here, twitter or LL. We do the searching and if you are not willing to do the work and research on them, then sometimes you will get what you don't want.....sub-par service! But that is on YOU, not the Lady.....now sometimes someone TOFTT and we have mostly all of us at one time or another have. You are accepting that amazon box without even knowing what is inside of it. Sometimes you get more than you bargained for, then sometime exactly what you expected and sometimes you get less, and once in a while a member walks away when the door opens.
You need to understand this whole website is here to help you find Ladies based on your desires, restrictions, availability, price range, kink, from what others have experienced, if you do not use the search tool nobody here can help you out.....go back and look at how many new Terbitonians on their first day ask "Can anyone recommend someone?" "Does anyone know of someone who is Lactating right now?" "Does anyone know of a provider who has a prosthetic leg?" "Who has the biggest boobs?" All without using the search bar......even I asked a question recently about a provider in a thread and got the shot back at me "Search Bar", that was my bad.....own it and move on. You need to figure out who you want to be a whinnying baby or someone who takes the time and puts in the effort to find what he is looking for. Even Amazon you need to do your research because half the time I find the same products for half the price on there....I just might have to wait a week for shipping....unless you need that dildo tomorrow then but it for twice the price! Okay I think I covered everything in my rant.....whoa this is a long one for sure. Happy reading everyone.....
HB69......was here?!?! The keeper and giver of nonsensical wisdom
I guess it doesn’t apply to providers with a reputation but I’d like to see phone numbers and dates written on cards in photos. Maybe AI has made this an obsolete verification method now but I don’t know why a legit girl wouldn’t do it.
ok so I do t hobby very often but I always used to think I just needed to be in a room with a smoking hot girl and I’d do the rest but I can’t believe how much an outgoing personality of the girl is a factor. I always choose outgoing over anything else. Not sure if it’s common but I’m an introvert that relies on being adopted by extroverts I guess.
ok so I do t hobby very often but I always used to think I just needed to be in a room with a smoking hot girl and I’d do the rest but I can’t believe how much an outgoing personality of the girl is a factor. I always choose outgoing over anything else. Not sure if it’s common but I’m an introvert that relies on being adopted by extroverts I guess.
You need to understand this whole thread is here to help a lady get more information about what makes a booking experience better.
I don't get the point of you rant, you start agreeing with me but then go on posting a wall of text, in which you are arguing with something you made up in your head, not what I wrote.
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Now you know my Super Power!
The rant was because some Ladies don't want a laundry list about what they offer because then if an individual doesn't get that full list they tend to post a bad review. Not everyone but I am almost sure the Ladies will tell you some services they won't deliver on due to the individuals hygiene or other issues, maybe too big maybe too small......the ladies who tend to be around longer don't post a laundry list. As far as location some Ladies move weekly as they do short term rentals, I have seen at least 3 that I can remember that do this. There are certain places in the City where the Ladies can rent a certain condo and I have been at that particular condo 5 times, three times with the same lady and 2 other times with others.
The original poster was asking how to make the initial time better during the booking stage, and first appearance with the individual, not about your laundry list of what they do or don't provide....and some Ladies preferer not to tell you any details until you book. You suggest restrictions lists, but then you alienate a bunch of Ladies who provide services but only on a individual basis and all of the usual depending's on hygiene, nails cut short, dirty nails, fresh breath, heavy beard, scruffy beard, BO, smells like alcohol before arriving. So maybe a Lady might be offering BBBj but if the individual shows up with sweaty balls and doesn't want to shower she will refuse the service and get a bad review from that individual.
So why post anything unless they really don't offer such as a trip to the islands. I am just responding to you as you were quoting me....and if I am ranting too long it is early morning as I have been up all night and like to type before going to bed. I know you have been on here for a long time. But I appreciate your feedback on my post.
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HB69.....was here?!?!?! Random dropper of the mics
HONESTY.
-I see so many ads, Best Oral in the city, best ass etc…you all can’t be, just tell me it’s good.
-I get you don’t need to put a menu out, hard stops are great to know.
-General Location - near Algonquin College works.
-Real pictures, if I get there and the picture is 20 years old (I’ve known some ads I’ve seen the same picture for 15-20 years I’m not kidding)
-what I can do to make you comfortable as sometimes still I’m nervous so if you are too we are screwed.
-I see this from guys all the time, they want BBBJ, but covered everything else. Tell us. If it costs more, then tell us.
-also prep time, you put out an ad, I’m scrolling and see your ad, it moves the needle and I’m heading to the car…then to be told you need an hour or two. I get you might be busy or booked, I generally don’t plan this as most guys don’t, we wake up excited or in some of the guys cases the wife left for the mall and he’s got 2 hours to kill. Don’t be mad if we try and book now, if the ad says “notice needed” then ok. If it says 24/7 I assume I can roll in pretty quickly, I don’t need a model at the door, I don’t need everything to be perfect, just make us forget about our shitty lives and relax and we are happy.
-I see so many ads, Best Oral in the city, best ass etc…you all can’t be, just tell me it’s good.
-I get you don’t need to put a menu out, hard stops are great to know.
-General Location - near Algonquin College works.
-Real pictures, if I get there and the picture is 20 years old (I’ve known some ads I’ve seen the same picture for 15-20 years I’m not kidding)
-what I can do to make you comfortable as sometimes still I’m nervous so if you are too we are screwed.
-I see this from guys all the time, they want BBBJ, but covered everything else. Tell us. If it costs more, then tell us.
-also prep time, you put out an ad, I’m scrolling and see your ad, it moves the needle and I’m heading to the car…then to be told you need an hour or two. I get you might be busy or booked, I generally don’t plan this as most guys don’t, we wake up excited or in some of the guys cases the wife left for the mall and he’s got 2 hours to kill. Don’t be mad if we try and book now, if the ad says “notice needed” then ok. If it says 24/7 I assume I can roll in pretty quickly, I don’t need a model at the door, I don’t need everything to be perfect, just make us forget about our shitty lives and relax and we are happy.
I agree with most of the comments above, few things to note that I found myself to appreciate during booking:
- I actually appreciate the, perhaps long, but informative auto text reply that you get, when you contact some sps; outlining services, restrictions, rough location etc. It gets really so much out of the way of needless texting. In my experience I find that visiting Montreal Sps tend to do this, and I can see why, it also eliminates alot of wasters on their side.
- someone mentioned above honesty, and thus being real and genuine; that connects to personality, and making yourself a better customer service rep. Its been said many times, clients in this business and real life will take cute with great personality over hot with an attitude. Same thing applies to clients, don't be a jerk, sorry no thank you is a perfectly acceptable answer.
- first time booking/seeing each other; of course it's always a bit awkward, but smiles, laugh touches hugs softness go a long way. On both ends and genuine ones. We are like dogs, we sniff out fake just like that. Its OK not to be perfect, but if we see potential we are coming back.
- hygiene, clean incall, shower available, etc is a must. This one is a must. Few times I went places that i should have turned around, but I stayed out of politeness, got the job done quick, and left asap, even though i normally book an hour. For me, honestly #1 turn off with no recovery. I prefer Hotels/motels for this reason, at least there's minimum level of cleanliness insured.
There... I guess not a rant but more of a droning on...
- I actually appreciate the, perhaps long, but informative auto text reply that you get, when you contact some sps; outlining services, restrictions, rough location etc. It gets really so much out of the way of needless texting. In my experience I find that visiting Montreal Sps tend to do this, and I can see why, it also eliminates alot of wasters on their side.
- someone mentioned above honesty, and thus being real and genuine; that connects to personality, and making yourself a better customer service rep. Its been said many times, clients in this business and real life will take cute with great personality over hot with an attitude. Same thing applies to clients, don't be a jerk, sorry no thank you is a perfectly acceptable answer.
- first time booking/seeing each other; of course it's always a bit awkward, but smiles, laugh touches hugs softness go a long way. On both ends and genuine ones. We are like dogs, we sniff out fake just like that. Its OK not to be perfect, but if we see potential we are coming back.
- hygiene, clean incall, shower available, etc is a must. This one is a must. Few times I went places that i should have turned around, but I stayed out of politeness, got the job done quick, and left asap, even though i normally book an hour. For me, honestly #1 turn off with no recovery. I prefer Hotels/motels for this reason, at least there's minimum level of cleanliness insured.
There... I guess not a rant but more of a droning on...
I like to support local SP more but it takes a bit more effort than simply go to the Asian Agencies. I once had to spend multiple back and forth messages with a provider to inquire what type of services she is offering (Massage only or hybrid) and the price for the type of services. One thing about those Asian agencies is you know exactly the services they are offering and the price they charging you.
Yeah agreed the customer service aspect is taken care of type thing.
I see only the high end / higher priced Asian SPs and you eliminate the fake photos too, what you see is what you get (despite the heavy air brush)
I had a few communications with some local / visiting Sps which at some point it starts to feel like courting. And worse yet when they use text apps and you are getting texts 17 hours later, and the train has left the station...
I see only the high end / higher priced Asian SPs and you eliminate the fake photos too, what you see is what you get (despite the heavy air brush)
I had a few communications with some local / visiting Sps which at some point it starts to feel like courting. And worse yet when they use text apps and you are getting texts 17 hours later, and the train has left the station...
I’m not experienced at this so maybe that’s it makes me nervous. I don’t know how one would convey this in a first meeting but if I’m nervous that the service provider is not in this industry by choice. I don’t know how one would convey this. Having your own website, communicating with YOU when I reach out to book and seeing your ads/posts on terb goes a long way. Makes me feel like you are invested in this as a career.
I find I feel confused this way especially when it comes to Asian providers. The concept that they hardly speak English. The ads are posted by agencies, the women in the ads may not be the same person and when you book you get a handler. These sound like red flags to me. Though I wish they were not 🫤
I find I feel confused this way especially when it comes to Asian providers. The concept that they hardly speak English. The ads are posted by agencies, the women in the ads may not be the same person and when you book you get a handler. These sound like red flags to me. Though I wish they were not 🫤
- I am always nervous when meeting a provide, so a smile and a hug when entering the room/apartment/condo goes a long way towards making me feel at ease.
- It may be just me, but I feel weird entering a room dressed when the SP is in lingerie.
- I like to take a shower before getting active, (see # 1), so not making me ask is appreciated.
- Scent-free stuff should be the default, but ask if we mind scented stuff.
- An offer of a bottle of water before/after would be appreciated.
- In your ad, an indication of where you are located would be appreciated. "5 minutes drive from [major intersection]" or something similar.
- I enjoy kissing and other intimate activities (snuggling, caressing, etc) before and after, so an indication (especially for kissing) would be appreciated.
- An indication of where to leave the envelope would be appreciated. A tray, enevlope holder or something similar so I can just walk in and leave it without asking "where do you want this?"
- Someplace in the room to put my stuff. Chair or something similar. Maybe even a rack with hangers to hang clothes on for those in shirt/tie.
