Someone explain this to me once, and it makes a lot of sense. There's no facts behind this, but the way they explained it to me was...
You have people of average intelligence and these people can function and get a girlfriend and get married and be civil and normal. You have people who are above average intelligence who are likely a pleasure to deal with. They're like the people with average intelligence but more pleasant. They're the people who raise the average. Then you have the people who bring down the average... And from this highly intelligent person's perspective, the majority of the people I dealt with on my work phone, and through social media, are the people that bring down the average. They're the people that can't function in normal society, they don't have the money, the means, the intelligence, the personality or even the basic understanding of human interactions to come across as decent people even through a text conversation with a stranger.
Those are the people that I consistently have to deal with and consistently get frustrated with, and if I was of lower intelligence, I would, probably, you know, enjoy these conversations or it wouldn't bother me as much. I spend an overwhelming amount of time trying to decipher illiterate nonsense people send. Some days it's so bad I have to get a second opinion on what the hell someone is trying to say and we still don't understand. These people actually get belligerent because you asked them to clear up their own illegible nonsense.
It's funny though because these men devalue us and think that we are scraping the bottom of the barrel and that we're terrible and blah blah blah. I absolutely f***** dread, having to talk to these people or meet them.
I only meet less than ten percent of the people that talk to me. I don't even want to be in the same room as the rest of them just based on initial interactions and how ignorant they come across.
Like, if they can't even start a conversation by treating me like a human being, i'm not engaging in the conversation. That weeds out like half of them right there. Another 25 percent is just "hey" or "hi" ... If people can make it past that... It's still like a fifty fifty chance I'll see them. There's just so much trash trying to book appointments its awful.
If they're not trying to tell me all about cheating on their wife they're trying to sneak me past their kids while they're sleeping or being cheap rude, belligerent and entitled.
It's also funny how many people try to book an appointment with someone who's outcall only and then expect me to walk them through every step of the process in booking a hotel they're never going to book. Like jesus christ, if they can't even book a hotel without help... Maybe they shouldn't be cheating on the person that books all of their appointments and does everything for them.
I feel like I get asked to do a lot of things that any normal functioning adult should be able to do on their own but i'm I expected to do all of the work for people. I know it's called emotional labor and most women won't tolerate it. Like any normal woman won't tolerate it and I know that's why these men come to us, but I won't do it. I'm not their wife, I'm not their mother. I wouldn't want to be in a million years.Anyway, like I couldn't be more turned off by a person who can't even function on a normal level. Like, if a person can't book a hotel and do basic stuff on their own, they are going to finger my pee hole and think it's a clit. 100%. They're lazy and dumb.And their whole life is just other people doing stuff for them. They definitely never figured out sex, or what a clitoris does.
I just don't understand why because I sell sex... That means I have to have the worst f****** sex of my life all day, every single day.
I was a sex worker for twenty years and I didn't cum once until I quit. I was literally just abused by stupid men for 20 f*cking years who didn't know anything about sex to the point of hurting me.
I'm still "in" it but I moved away from all of my clients, so I've essentially retired. I keep a few clients here and there and I pick up the odd good client, but I can't do it anymore. I'm so repulsed by bad sex and these cringe men I just can't and I feel bad for the women that have to do it. I genuinely feel terrible that someone else has to go through what I went through.
I find most people are ditsy nowadays. Could be from smoking and eating too much junk. I'm sure all those chemicals eventually do affect the brain and it's a known fact the more you even consume alcohol leads to early dementia.
