I think the best approach is to be humble and respectful.
Jenesis
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Generally, this blacklisting makes sense for safety reasons and avoid shady folks. However, its a double edge sword where even genuine and harmless hobbyists are being blacklisted. I for instance, a longstanding terb member, got blacklisted just because of a misunderstanding with a Durham SP (I never met but wanted to meet) and she was not having a good day. Now I can't get any appt with Durham SPs. Sucks!
That sucks Sunshine but I get the double edge sword thing.Generally, this blacklisting makes sense for safety reasons and avoid shady folks. However, its a double edge sword where even genuine and harmless hobbyists are being blacklisted. I for instance, a longstanding terb member, got blacklisted just because of a misunderstanding with a Durham SP (I never met but wanted to meet) and she was not having a good day. Now I can't get any appt with Durham SPs. Sucks!
can you PM me about the SP, just curious on who it is , there is one that has been doing it and other terbs reached out.. just wondering if its trend with her lolGenerally, this blacklisting makes sense for safety reasons and avoid shady folks. However, its a double edge sword where even genuine and harmless hobbyists are being blacklisted. I for instance, a longstanding terb member, got blacklisted just because of a misunderstanding with a Durham SP (I never met but wanted to meet) and she was not having a good day. Now I can't get any appt with Durham SPs. Sucks!
Please don’t turn my review into a fight. It has gone off track enough ....
Just so you know - we know the ones who blacklist for no reason as well and we don’t usually follow suit. I mean I don’t anyways. If a girl tells me he lied during screening or when he showed up, that is one thing but if she says he asked too many questions, I often reply with “put the answers in your ad, then you won’t be asked the questions”.
