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Mr.Gr33k

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The responses in this thread prove my original point...

All clients have individual preferences.

Half in this thread prefer no scented products and half enjoy scented products.

There are so many threads here made by clients telling us what we should and should not be doing, even going as far to say we should be offering different snack platters for every client and offering shower for two so that we can wash you to our standards.

There are simple solutions:

-ask if you want a scent free environment
-bring a snack or request one
-wash yourself properly, you are a grown adult and we shouldn't have to do it for you so that it is done right

The request and demand list goes on and beyond the few I mentioned.

As a provider, all I can do is try to make the majority happy within reason and hope that grown men can take some responsibility and request any specifics that they may require.
In all my years of hobbying, not once did any one of my requests has been honored.

SPs talk big game, but very seldom live up to big talk.

This is not even a put down or a critique. Just a plain old observation, years in the making.

It is quite surprising though that most SPs replying to this thread lean towards having perfume and scented products as a default and John's having to reach out to have a no scent environment. A bit of an eye opener.
 
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In all my years of hobbying, not once did any one of my requests has been honored.

SPs talk big game, but very seldom live up to big talk.

This is not even a put down or a critique. Just a plain old observation, years in the making.

It is quite surprising though that most SPs replying to this thread lean towards having perfume and scented products as a default and John's having to reach out to have a no scent environment. A bit of an eye opener.
I've had two clients who have a no scented product request, one even requests no lip products including unscented lip chap.

They are now regulars.

This to me means I am following their requests properly. It isn't difficult.
 
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In all my years of hobbying, not once did any one of my requests has been honored.

SPs talk big game, but very seldom live up to big talk.

This is not even a put down or a critique. Just a plain old observation, years in the making.

It is quite surprising though that most SPs replying to this thread lean towards having perfume and scented products as a default and John's having to reach out to have a no scent environment. A bit of an eye opener.
In all my years of hobbying, not once did any one of my requests has been honored.

SPs talk big game, but very seldom live up to big talk.

This is not even a put down or a critique. Just a plain old observation, years in the making.

It is quite surprising though that most SPs replying to this thread lean towards having perfume and scented products as a default and John's having to reach out to have a no scent environment. A bit of an eye opener.
Why is your preference more important than the preference of the other half of commenters in this thread?

So you are saying that the other half should have to reach out instead?

In my years and years of sexwork, I've only had two requests for scent free dates.

This to me means that the majority of my regulars enjoy the light scents I use and many compliment me.

I would rather stick with the majority and have the minority make a specific request.

I will even put scent free as an option on my Website.

I will report back with analytics.
 

Mr.Gr33k

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Why is your preference more important than the preference of the other half of commenters in this thread?

- I never said my preference is more important than anyone else's. I stated that discretion is paramount and scented products isn't it.

So you are saying that the other half should have to reach out instead?

- Making ANY requests before a date feels a little weird. In my experience most requests are either ignored or misconstrued as a negative

In my years and years of sexwork, I've only had two requests for scent free dates.

- Perhaps it's a somewhat evidence that majority see it as an awkward moment and perhaps even silly

This to me means that the majority of my regulars enjoy the light scents I use and many compliment me.

- If that's what you wish to think...

I would rather stick with the majority and have the minority make a specific request.

I will even put scent free as an option on my Website.

I will report back with analytics.
 

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If discretion being paramount is your reason are you not worried about makeup? long hairs? natural pussy smells? latex scent?

Do you partake in BBBJ? DATY? DFK?
Most things you listed above get washed away during a shower.

Perfumes, lotions, glitter, scented candles and some other products are designed to withstand everyday conditions and will stay/linger as long as possible. Thus, the risk/reward ratio is negative.

If I could walk out of a session without talking some of those scents with me, this thread wouldn't exist.
 

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I think SP’s should just keep a can of gasoline near the door so that if guys are concerned about scents they can just splash themselves down on the way out without having to visit the gas station on the way home. I’m not saying it should be expected but I just think it’s a courtesy that a lot of guys might appreciate.

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Agree 100%. (Well, unless you are running on 1/8 of a tank).
 

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if that's not met when you arrive for your appointment, mention it and walk away and call the agency as your walking away and tell them why.
By all means put a request in with the booker or provider,. If that request isn't honoured my suggestion would be to request a shower for two, and to politely explain why... That should solve most perfume, makeup, and glitter situations, and some fun might break out while the problem is getting fixed...
 

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The responses in this thread prove my original point...

All clients have individual preferences.

Half in this thread prefer no scented products and half enjoy scented products.

There are so many threads here made by clients telling us what we should and should not be doing, even going as far to say we should be offering different snack platters for every client and offering shower for two so that we can wash you to our standards.

There are simple solutions:

-ask if you want a scent free environment
-bring a snack or request one
-wash yourself properly, you are a grown adult and we shouldn't have to do it for you so that it is done right

The request and demand list goes on and beyond the few I mentioned.

As a provider, all I can do is try to make the majority happy within reason and hope that grown men can take some responsibility and request any specifics that they may require.
I missed the snack platter thread! Lol.

If you have a beer or a glass of wine or a nice whisky to offer, it’s a nice touch. But TBH, at least for me , these are nice, but at the same time will not be missed. I’ve never booked an appointment and thought to myself “oh I hope there is some brie, and pepper jelly and some fancy Ritz crackers!” lol.

like I said above, fancy scents are not important to me in terms of my enjoyment (I’m the kind of guy who gets a semi when a nice GND type passes by me on the street smelling of fresh shampoo and shower gel, lol.) My biased opinion is that women think perfume etc is much more important to us than we do, again tho, that is my own point of view. I’d prefer the default be discretion (ie no smells no glitter and no self tanner lol). But if it’s really critically important to me I should mention it when booking.
 
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I missed the snack platter thread! Lol.

If you have a beer or a glass of wine or a nice whisky to offer, it’s a nice touch. But TBH, at least for me , these are nice, but at the same time will not be missed. I’ve never booked an appointment and thought to myself “oh I hope there is some brie, and pepper jelly and some fancy Ritz crackers!” lol.

like I said above, fancy scents are not important to me in terms of my enjoyment (I’m the kind of guy who gets a semi when a nice GND type passes by me on the street smelling of fresh shampoo and shower gel, lol.) My biased opinion is that women think perfume etc is much more important to us than we do, again tho, that is my own point of view. I’d prefer the default be discretion (ie no smells no glitter and no self tanner lol). But if it’s really critically important to me I should mention it when booking.
Agreed.

The OP is requesting NO scents though.

No candles, no scented shampoo, no scented bodywash, nothing.

I completely understand why someone may not want strong scents, self-tanner and especially glitter, I don't use any of those.

BUT, if it is a hard-core ZERO scent requirement, it should be a request because there are so many scented products such as candles, home scents, shampoo, conditioner, hair products, bodywash, body lotion, deodorant, powder, lip gloss, lube, baby wipes, hand soap, etc...

Most people use at least a couple of scented products and don't really think about it.

This is why it is just easier to request ahead of time that zero ZERO scented products be used and say you are allergic if you have to so that your request is taken seriously.
 
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No not at all. Some gentlemen tell me I smell like cotton candy down there. However they comment that some ladies have fishy hygeine.
Ah OK.

My clients are actual gentlemen and don't put other providers down in my presence in order to compliment me. If they did, I wouldn't entertain it.

But you do you.

If you enjoy being told you smell like "cotton candy" and so and so smells like fish, all the power to you.

I just don't find my confidence and ego boosts in my peers being insulted like you do.
 
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Ah OK.

My clients are actual gentlemen and don't put other providers down in my presence in order to compliment me. If they did, I wouldn't entertain it.

But you do you.

If you enjoy being told you smell like "cotton candy" and so and so smells like fish, all the power to you.

I just don't find my confidence and ego boosts in my peers being insulted like you do.
Fish isn't always bad 🙃

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It'd give a whole new meaning to "Dining at the Y"
 

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Fish isn't always bad 🙃

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It'd give a whole new meaning to "Dining at the Y"
I prefer Cheez-Its LOL.

Good idea for a snack platter though!

Goldfish and tuna, they wanted a snack platter and they got it!

Although I'd prefer to be the snack...
 

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If discretion being paramount is your reason are you not worried about makeup? long hairs? natural pussy smells? latex scent?

Do you partake in BBBJ? DATY? DFK?

These are all risks in discretion.
Long hairs can be an issue. Once got back to my room after a great time with one of my favourite girls, hopped in the shower and found a blonde hair tied around my dick like a bow. I texted her about it and we laughed our asses off. 😂
 
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I can’t be the only one who enjoys the scent of woman. Natural scent + a tasteful perfume is a wonderful cocktail to bask in after a romp.

Us single guys shouldn’t have to suffer because some of you attached fellas aren’t careful enough. Hobby smart or face the consequences. Not my problem.
I agree. If I'm gonna pay $300 plus, I want to enjoy a girl wearing perfume. For me it's part of the whole sensual experience having all five senses stimulated. I love drinking in the scent of a beautiful woman when kissing her neck or abs. Some of my best experiences have been with SPs who used amazing perfume.

Married guys should make their own arrangements and not hoist their problems on the rest of us.
 

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I love drinking in the scent of a beautiful woman when kissing her neck or abs.
Never mind scents!!!
Please do tell which providers you're seeing. I haven't seen to many abs lately, but it's 100% sexy.
 

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I've had two clients who have a no scented product request, one even requests no lip products including unscented lip chap.

They are now regulars.

This to me means I am following their requests properly. It isn't difficult.
I am the no lip products client Kitty is talking about. And I appreciate and thank all of my SPs who refrain from using lipstick, gloss, chapstick etc. In fact, in the 20+ years of hobbying, pretty much all of SPs I requested happily obliged.
 
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