Etiquette with SP on digits

If someone wanted to use a condom I would be more than happy to accommodate. Most of the men I have to deal with I have to explicitly show them why they can't do digits and they still look at me like they're confused.

They want to touch their cock and then my pussy. Smoke a cigarette and not wash their hand. Not wash their hands in general. They have cuts, lumps and bumps and nicotine stains and dirty finger nails and I have to explain like I'm talking to a toddler that im not letting them near my pussy.

You...wanting to use gloves or a condom would be a breath of fresh air. It's a good day if everyone i meet washed their ass with soap before we met. It's always been like that even when I worked at a rub an tug. People straight up lie like you can't smell them.

Anyway no one will be offended. In fact, it's a relief when a person comes to me and wants to use safe practices and thinks about hygiene and safety. Most people don't care. They do not care.

I had to be with someone who was so f****** gross.I wouldn't even let them touch me with gloves on. They weren't dirty they were just unsanitary. They cross contaminated everything. I felt absolutely disgusting after and I had to sanitize everything and shower. It was in my fucking hair, on my clothes. Every part of me needed to be washed.

So it's great if you wanna use protection but you also have to think about cross contamination. The gloves don't mean anything if you cross contaminate everything.

I f****** hate cross contaminators. HATE them!

I have a background infection control and medical sterilization and it fills me with anxiety watching people do this. I have to keep mental note of everything that's been cross contaminated, and then when they do it too much, i'm f****** overwhelmed and I want to just burn my clothes and shower with bleach.

First of all ask them if they are ok.

Sparky69 said:

It has been some time since I’ve had the opportunity to Hobby. With many changes in culture and etiquette since COVID, I’m curious about digits with an SP, and if they are receptive to using a condom over fingers, for their protection and comfort, or would this freak them out or spoil the mood?
Thoughts? Opinions? Experiences?

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Every person has different restrictions and requirements.

It is best to ask the individual you plan on seeing what their preference is.

I offer a large variety of services including BBBJ, DATY, full sex and DFK, yet I recently decided to take digits off of my service list because too often I find that hands have rough skin, nails aren't trimmed and some clients can be a little too enthusiastic with fingers or put them in dry before I've had a chance to get wet which leads to me feeling pain or having issues down there.

The tissues inside our vagina are very delicate and rough skin or a sharp nail mixed with being dry or just going to hard and bending and crooking your finger every which way can do damage.

Even with a condom or latex glove, I still won't be offering it personally.

But again, these are my personal preferences and not the preferences of everyone.

When in doubt, ask. I’ve also very gently and slowly tested the waters so to speak in the heat of the moment and judged body language, and confirmed that they are cool with this in the moment. Some girls will gently move your hand away when you touch them on the outside, some are cool with outside touching, and others are cool with digital penetration. Some will grab your hand and push fingers in. But everyone is different. Should go without saying but these are critical points re fingers and pussies.
1. Cut your fucking nails, you caveman. And make sure you done leave any sharp edges.
2. make sure your hands are CLEAN. If you have a manual job that makes your hands regularly dirty looking, use the best cleanup wash you have. Sometimes working with your hands leaves them rough and gnarly. That may be too much for some girls alone. Good plan to moisturize your hands regularly.
3. Forget the term “finger banging”. It should be banished from the lexicon. You should never “bang” a girl’s vagina with fingers. This is a porn invention. Gentle is best and if she wants more intense stimulation she will let you know.

While “petting” is taught to us as “less” than intercourse, fingers can be harsher on vaginas and asses than a penis. Just go slow, ask, make sure she is cool, and don’t be a dick if she’s not at all into FIV, or asks you to stop/ back off. There are tons of other fun things to do with cocks, pussies, mouths , boobs, hands and asses to keep everyone happy. Just imagine if your cock had long dirty nails growing out of the end of it, or looked like it had bathed for a year in used 10w30.

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