SP - Please stop doing this!

travelguy said:

Got a text last night saying "Hi". I text back saying who`s this as I did not recognize the number. They text back "Michelle".
I had visited her a couple of weeks ago and she texted me out of the blue last night......NOT COOL when i am at home with the family! Could have been very bad for me!
Hopefully she hears about this and stops randomly texting customers.

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I block all numbers of any sps after I've seen them (or shortly after texting them and they don't txt back).
If you have an android phone if you block them the txts will still come through in an hidden block folder with no notifications popping up. This way you can still check periodically to see if they did txt you but it's hidden and no one can find it unless they're really searching for it or know where to look

travelguy said:

Got a text last night saying "Hi". I text back saying who`s this as I did not recognize the number. They text back "Michelle".
I had visited her a couple of weeks ago and she texted me out of the blue last night......NOT COOL when i am at home with the family! Could have been very bad for me!
Hopefully she hears about this and stops randomly texting customers.

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This is so unprofessional and not only pisses me off for you but for escorts like me that require real phone numbers and are professional enough to not fucking message.

We are here to be contacted. Not the other way around. We are here because we are suppose to leave you alone after.

Sorry this happened to you.

Tiny_royal3 said:

I don’t know about this because I have clients who asked me to text him when I’m available or update and then I have gentleman who I put notes on not to message. This is why I tell everyone just use Snapchat to avoid problems and headaches. I think note on are ad to ask this tbh would you like to be contacted after our meet up or not? Should be a good question to ask gentleman before they leave tbh

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That's fine if HE says it's OK to text me when you're in town
Or if you got some availability...
But HE didn't ask for that...
It was a bush league move
IMO it shows desperation on her part to try and drum up business that way!

Tiny_royal3 said:

I don’t know about this because I have clients who asked me to text him when I’m available or update and then I have gentleman who I put notes on not to message. This is why I tell everyone just use Snapchat to avoid problems and headaches. I think note on are ad to ask this tbh would you like to be contacted after our meet up or not? Should be a good question to ask gentleman before they leave tbh

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I think it's assumed that they will wait to be contacted not the other way around. Especially if there is a SO involved. I always tell the sp I'm visiting that I'm attached. No one has ever reached out to me weeks later "trying to drum up business " thankfully however I still block all numbers of SPs after I've seen them as a precaution. Luckily, as I mentioned at top, my android phone still allows me to see texts from "blocked" numbers in case I wish to view them. They're hidden, and no notification goes off when they come in.

Tiny_royal3 said:

I don’t know about this because I have clients who asked me to text him when I’m available or update and then I have gentleman who I put notes on not to message. This is why I tell everyone just use Snapchat to avoid problems and headaches. I think note on are ad to ask this tbh would you like to be contacted after our meet up or not? Should be a good question to ask gentleman before they leave tbh

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My rule is no contact after about 1 hr. For anyone who texts me. If I have seen you before I don’t text until you want to see me again and text me.

When I was touring, I did have a list of guys who wanted me to contact them when I arrived in their city but it was all arranged before hand that I can contact. And a few times, by the time I got back to their town, they were in a new relationship and asked to be taken off the list. My texts would always be something general and non-escort specific even when I had permission. Something like “Hi, i saw your kijiji ad, still available?” Or something like that and they would know.

Tiny_royal3 said:

I like that rule 1hr or bye bye

but it’s hard to keep up with everyone via text at time for me and I have a translators on my keyboards so sometimes I have to sit fight with my phone before I send a text message before i send it next in next languages, I think pre booked appointments would be easier on laptop that way ,I think phones are too much trouble at this point, but I text you in private ask you about few more things

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However I can help, I am happy too.

travelguy said:

I would assume that a SP would not randomly send out texts. Not sure what you mean by "it`s a big flag"?

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but.. the handler would, someone that responds to inquiries
but not days later instant block for me

thumper18474 said:

That's fine if HE says it's OK to text me when you're in town
Or if you got some availability...
But HE didn't ask for that...
It was a bush league move
IMO it shows desperation on her part to try and drum up business that way!

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i m not a racist person, but one needs to understand who his txt came from

thumper18474 said:

That's fine if HE says it's OK to text me when you're in town
Or if you got some availability...
But HE didn't ask for that...
It was a bush league move
IMO it shows desperation on her part to try and drum up business that way!

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exactly!!!

This is why I use a text app, sorry ladies but my safety is just as important as yours. Delete the app when finished and reinstall with a new number when ready to hobby. You may not book me because of the app but I personally could care less, no offense.

Also for the person that said snapchat, most grown men don't play with snapchat and their SO may wonder wtf.

Tiny_royal3 said:

For lady who text client if client ask who is this clearly show he not interested or really lost

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???

luvcowgrl said:

This is why I use a text app, sorry ladies but my safety is just as important as yours. Delete the app when finished and reinstall with a new number when ready to hobby. You may not book me because of the app but I personally could care less, no offense.

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That is perfectly acceptable. As someone who wouldn’t see you, no offence is taken at all. I equally don’t care that you guys won’t see me. I don’t mean that mean or harsh at all. I’m just saying it works because we both agree and feel the same so we can understand how the other feels without taking offence to each other.

This is the one good thing about the industry. There is enough for all. You can find women who work with text apps and I have no problem with getting clients who give a real number. In this regard, it is a win win for both sides.

cs1977 said:

???

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lol right??

Jenesis said:

That is perfectly acceptable. As someone who wouldn’t see you, no offence is taken at all. I equally don’t care that you guys won’t see me. I don’t mean that mean or harsh at all. I’m just saying it works because we both agree and feel the same so we can understand how the other feels without taking offence to each other.

This is the one good thing about the industry. There is enough for all. You can find women who work with text apps and I have no problem with getting clients who give a real number. In this regard, it is a win win for both sides.

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Totally get it, just not worth the risk for both, no harm, no foul.

Ibeefat said:

lol right??

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English is not her first language. She has to use a translator. It doesn’t always come out right.

Tiny_royal3 said:

A lot of grown men, I know use Snapchat and book with out problem considering I have international clients it makes it easier which is why I suggest Snapchat because messages are deleted automatically

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I would just think a SO would question the use of an app like this by an adult, just my 2 cents

Tiny_royal3 said:

I don’t know about this because I have clients who asked me to text him when I’m available or update and then I have gentleman who I put notes on not to message. This is why I tell everyone just use Snapchat to avoid problems and headaches. I think note on are ad to ask this tbh would you like to be contacted after our meet up or not? Should be a good question to ask gentleman before they leave tbh

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People pay sp to leave not to show up. They should know not to contact someone unless asked to. If I wanted some chick to text me to come see her every week...I would get a girl friend.

I use sp's to not have to deal with girls calling and bugging me.