I'd like to offer an opinion on this which is based on recent experiences.
There are still a lot of great girls in Ottawa, I find it just requires a bit of research and some common sense. What I am seeing now though is that a lot of women are happy to get your money just once, and have no interest in a return client. This shows in the form of pictures that are way old and heavily altered, or promising things and not delivering. Attitudes and good vibes through text or initial contact, change dramatically once the money is exchanged. It seems a lot of providers no longer see clients as human beings, but simply as a "donation" to the cause.
In the last month, I have walked away from 3 experiences and been ghosted once. 2 SP's I went to see, whose pictures drew me to them, did not look anything like that in person. Not even close. I have no issues with leaving and did so on both occasions. The third was a spa visit and it was the same thing. The girl that entered the room had me standing there clueless as she looked nothing like the pictures online. Here recent photos were so heavily photoshopped, body wise, that I was confused. I left after about 5 minutes after having paid already, so I took that loss but I was not happy. I have not been back there and have no plans to return.
The ghosting, was my making an appointment with a girl in Gatineau, driving from Kanata to there at rush hour (almost an hour both ways), and she never answered my text when I got there. Tried calling and no answer. Got a text the next day saying "something came up". She had bad reviews so I should have known better. But she was nice over text and I thought I'd give it a go.
There are a lot, and I mean a lot, of new girls in the industry. Younger ones that seem to be changing the landscape of things, and not for the better, IMO. I hasten to reference this but Pre Covid, like 2017 -2020, seemed to be such a great time for this industry, from a client perspective. You saw a girl and left feeling good about the experience. And you didn't mind tipping her or bringing her something nice on the return visit, that she mentioned she liked on the initial visit. Now it seems that if you don't tip, or offer something beyond the agreed upon amount, you're a bad client. It feels like one giant "ask". all the time. Wishtender's with gift amounts that are crazy high, (saw one 2 days ago and the first item is $10,000 to pay off HER debt), and every girl asking you to send them Uber Eats, just "because".
Unfortunately, just like the world we now live in, I don't think things aren't going to get any better. My recommendation would be to do your homework, find a girl(s) you like spending time with, and stick to that. Bad experiences are soul sucking, and costly. Clients are by no means ideal, all the time, but $300 - $500 for an hour of time, isn't cheap, and is a stretch for a lot of clients. Every experience is different and can be what you make it, but it needs to start with providers who actually give a fuck about providing the experience that guys are investing in. We are not prefect by any means, and I can only imagine the shit you girls deal with, but we will respond well to feeling that we actually matter, even if it is only for an hour.
That's my take, feel free to tell me how wrong I am
Oh, and Leolist is a dumpster fire
