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    Endurance Research Project #3 — After All That Homework, Did We Get It Right?

    Everything else being fine, I'd say reduce frequency if you start to feel like you're "chasing it". I think that's generally good advice for a lot of things. Or if you're compromising on your criteria for a booking just to have a session. I book in the pool of available providers at the...
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    Very Important!!! This is not Junk Mail!!!

    Your health card is not supposed to be used as valid ID. Banks and Canada Post tend to be strict on that. To the OP: Get an provincial photo card. It will save a lot of hassle if you don't have a driver's license and live in Ontario. (Purple card.) Given that the bank wants you to go in in...
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    Cancellation Conundrum

    That seems like a good idea. My additional suggestion should be to mention that at the end of the text chain. That way any booker glancing at a convo should see it.
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    Endurance Research Project #4 — Homework or Gut Instinct?

    I will typically do research / due diligence for a classifieds only provider (typically in a small city), and oddly enough, for reputable independents. For classified providers it's to mitigate risk, though I'm fine with no reviews but no red flags. For reputable independents it's more to find a...
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    When did Connection become a requirement for paid intimacy?

    Yes. To me this thread just seems like a crypto lamentation that not every provider is going to be down with taking the money and being an enthusiastic fuck doll for all of a client's whims with no investment in initial or ongoing communication. The OP used a lot of words but the crux of it is...
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    Trouble with dating in the city? Am I an “Incel”

    Go out and do things, with mixed groups of people, that you enjoy, or are curious about. Join a club. Volunteer. Learn how to canoe, or dance. Check out some event sites. Whatever. Don't do those things to expressly meet women, but go, be friendly, be open, and learn how to say 'yes' (to that...
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    Sexless marriage

    Yeah, my too young, too serious, relationship collapsed before marriage and kids, and I kind of view that one as dodging a bullet. I've often advised people here not to, "blow up their lives." I mean that in a, "Don't blow up your life some ill-conceived fit of whatever." sort of way. However...
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    Sweet Heather

    Her body would put many much younger people to shame, she delivers a hell of a session, and she's a legitimately interesting person to talk to... I only met her the once for 90 minutes, but it was an excellent session. Her fans aren't blowing smoke. She's a really damn good provider.
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    Sexless marriage

    No disagreement from me.
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    suggestions please

    Enjoy. It is indeed kitschy as hell, and a diner. But it's cheap and it puts a smile on my face.
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    suggestions please

    Nope. But, 1) Durham section, and 2) Call / ask them. (Ask Durham members for the number, or last 4 digits of the number, and find the AD.)
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    suggestions please

    You could take a look in the Durham sections here. The East end of the GTA has some great / legendary (often mature) providers, and rates are often more reasonable. Some post and / or advertise here. After that you're skimming classifieds and reading reviews. Without dunking on Oshawa, I'm...
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    Sexless marriage

    I've got a few of those too, and sometimes I feel like giving them a seminar in how to safely and successfully see escorts in the GTA. I don't for similar reasons. I suspect a fair number of the married / long term relationship guys won't admit it because they don't want to risk it in one...
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    How do you deal with your regular flying 10+ hours back home?

    To add to what @Hybrid7 said, it's Ok to be a little sad when a friendly transactional relationship runs it course. That's fine. Give yourself a minute. Have a pint. Whatever. But at the end of the day try to get to a place where you can take the memories off the shelf and savour them, while...
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    How do you deal with your regular flying 10+ hours back home?

    Change "escort" to "dog walker" and you have your answer.