Recent content by GreedyBoy

I am open to being wrong, it is why I am reaching out. But where do you get your news? What outlets have you found to be the most reliable?

There is an old saying: "The first casualty of war is the truth". We have seen a lot of misinformation in the current "Game of Thrones" taking place in the Middle East and in Ukraine. Mainstream media like CNN and BBC are hit and miss - some events are reported quickly and accurately, while...

Sometimes I mishear the lyrics of a song, and what I "hear" resonates with me. In Kenny Loggins' song "I'm Free", for years the words "Heaven helps the man who fights his fears", I heard as "Heaven help the man who finds his needs". For me it served as a warning that you should be cautious...

Older white guy here. When I used to go to spas it seemed that the patrons were mostly older whites. The rest were mostly younger Asians, and East Indians/Parkistanis of all ages.

The best reasons to have good manners are to prevent unnecessary discord and to save time. We judge ourselves by what we think, but we judge others by what they say and do. Thank god we cannot read each others minds! Here are some examples with some downsides. Here in North America many...

You buy time with an SP and it is all about you. With a GF you make an investment, and it is about both of you. You just need money to be with an SP. With a GF you also need to make an effort - you make mistakes but you learn. With SPs you pay for a service. It is all about your immediate...

You always roll the dice when you have sex with someone new. Just wear condoms. So young! Sex on demand can screw you up if you have no experience. But sometimes an SP can help you over the hump, so to speak, break you in. Real relationships are so much more rewarding. If possible it is...

Actually I have never heard other men talk about female finger nails. Perhaps women do not pay a lot of money on manicures to appeal to men, they just like them or they are competing with or keeping up with other women? Getting an elaborate manicure may also be about being pampered for a...

I never did find long finger nails attractive, and I find very long finger nails a little silly and impractical. I am curious to know what others think.

You can buy sex and you can rent intimacy. But you cannot buy love. That said, if you journey through the hobby without expectations once in while you might form friendships that you both truly value - at least for a period of time. If you cannot get and maintain a loving relationship outside...

I think it is better to treat the hobby as an adventure instead of a quest. You get different feelings and experiences with different people, and often you really do not know what you like until you find it. Put another way, if you want good or interesting experiences do not dictate outcomes...

I am by nature lazy. But if motivated I work hard. And if successful, I enjoy the fruits of achievement much more than if they came my way via good fortune. This is not a profound insight, but something to keep in mind in many different parts of life. We dream of winning the lottery or...

Whether you are a client or an SP, the hobby is the Wild West. Good, bad and sometimes crazy experiences. We attempt to have the mental discipline to treat paid sex like a business, but real human beings with their feelings, selfishness, damage, immaturity and biases are involved. I treat...

Only two times have I shared real names, and other personal details with an SP. The first was playing me, the second turned into a real friend. The first got close to me real quick - a warning sign. She pretended to be what I was looking for. The second I liked immediately, but I slowly got...

What is the biggest drawback in Africa? An elephant's foreskin! My late doctor liked that joke. He was about 70, went on vacation, got sick and died soon after coming back. So, it was time to get a new doctor. The new guy is from England (as am I), so he is more familiar with foreskins than...