Recent content by Elv

Try not to stir things up too much but one needs to find fulfillment. We can’t live our life for someone else and put ourselves in a deficit. I’m there and have been in a deep dark hole for nearly 30 years. Then I realize the most precious thing I have left is time. For 30 years I live in...

In general, everything in absolute terms is more expensive. Doesn’t matter whether it is girlfriend, wife or hobbying. The sad part is, at least, my income is not keeping up. Providers went from 300, 450, 500 to 600/hr over a span of 4 years. So many rates have climbed 50%. I feel like I...

Very much so and once you found love, you can fall out of love as well. I’ve walked the path where I clicked well with a provider, helped her transition out of the business, dated her for 4 years, marched myself to the gate of divorce and then one day I am no longer the right person for a...

Wish I’ve known some of this earlier. Live and learn.

While I share similar experiences where I’ve had long term relationships (measured in years) after the SP has exited the business, the circumstances vary a lot on how their lives progress. One I know has become a successful real estate investor and I helped her transition into a stable...

There are no absolutes in life other than death and taxes which I’m sure you have heard before. Yes, it can happen and I carry the fond memories and baggage of such relationships. The key is communication in a respectful and open manner such that you both can manage your expectations.