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For some reason I was under the impression that Tryst was just for the very highest end providers. Maybe it’s worth another look.

This. The nature of spa services has changed quite a bit.

If L-theanine isn't enough, both ashwagandha and phosphatidylserine (usually sold as "PS" in supplement stores) also fight the cortisol boost from coffee. Try them all! Nicotine does the opposite.

I’m also interested in this. Are there apps that handle large images well, in addition to texts? The last one I used to use would either reject or convert images to postage stamp size.

It roughly makes sense once you've flipped between the pages, but whether/when you need to join the VIP club is a mystery, and although one page says "Visit my duo page", I gave up trying to find the duo page.

That hasn’t been my experience at 21. You say how long, you get quoted a price.

That's pretty close to how my first experience went too, though I wasn't brave enough to pay for the extras on the first go. Stumbled across the now closed AMP on Lewis St, was surprised to see an Asian girl in her late 20s with one of the best bodies I've ever seen whisper that for a certain...

You’re probably not going to enjoy this hobby, but in the off chance it’s up your alley, there are plenty of dommes who will indulge your willingness to never get close enough to you in a skin-to-skin sense for any of this to matter. This type of service wouldn't involve any penetration, unless...

The answer isn’t exactly no, but you’re in dangerous territory and should treat it as a no.

When you've been in this hobby long enough, you see the occasional one retire after finding a long term partner as a client. But you're in for a world of hurt if you approach the hobby thinking that's going to be you, especially if you're older.

I’m sympathetic, but keeping clothes or underwear on during an erotic massage session is not a communication or language proficiency issue. (At least at a spa like Alpha, obviously an old school Asian massage place with clothes-off upcharges is different.)

Kimono condoms aren't polyurethane, they're just thin natural rubber latex. But yeah I find they're prone to breaking if any oil has been used vaginally during the session. That's the downside of very thin latex and polyisoprene.

+1 for Raven at Hush. Such a calming, grounded presence, very unusual in this industry. That doesn't mean unexciting. Pro-level massage skills.

Yeah, I’ve come to accept I radiate something that makes me a bit of a mark. These girls are good at reading people.

The same scenario has played out for me four times. Some of us guys are just magnets for this. Genuine isn’t really the right word to look for, but eventually you spot discrepancies in their stories, the asks get bigger over time, you find a portion of your help is going up their nose, or...