I've seen her a couple times and been ghosted by her a few times as well. I know she works odd hours and maybe falls asleep? She's very friendly so I doubt it's on purpose.
Definitely a few thousand over the past two years and it makes me depressed to think about. Gotta learn to be social again so I can get laid without paying for it.
Not a spa girl but for a year there was an Asian lady I had insane chemistry with, probably saw her 15 times. Sadly she went off to Toronto and I'm still trying to catch that high again.