Recent content by Clement950

Ghost, no. I respect their feelings and their time. I do end up telling them plainly I do not see anything going further romantically. I did have a FWB and out of all the girls I had come to know, that was oddly the most healthy relationship because it was just simple expectation of fun.

A bit of an update since I made this thread and realizing some things with limerence in mind, I have come to value respecting both my own time and the other person's. If I do not feel genuine romantic interest, I no longer continue pursuing the relationship. It is not because attraction cannot...

I know what you're referring to. It just makes sense now. Things sort themselves out and I strongly believe whatever situation I was in gave me something to think about. I do appreciate it S.T. Even back when I had my other account you were always helpful. 🙂

Was supposed to meet with someone this week. Last week I was ignoring some health complications. It got the best of me and went to the hospital. Got admitted out just this morning and rested. Lots of thought circulated in my head. To the harsh talkers, I agree with you. This is my sign to hang...

I never gone that far. All I have had were just thoughts. Not a bad idea. Thank you! What I read up on limerence I was associating it with grief. It was an eye opener once I was told what it was. Taught me a lot about my motivations towards relationships. I have been very intense with a few...

You guys are right. Did some thinking while at work. It is definitely limerence. I appreciate all of your inputs on this and truthfully I appreciate the harshness. Apologies on if there was multiple threads on the topic.

I do not frequent the hobby. I stopped due to illnesses. Relationships, I've had a few. Age, I won't disclose. There are urges to do the hobby however with very select individuals. I'm picky. I guess for context would be that she saw through me and when she inquired about said things she kept...

I have never heard of limerence before. Thanks for that. I just quickly looked it up. I guess I need to really think about if it is love or limerence. I guess this happens often. Having said that there is genuine care for these people aside from sex and wanting to be with them. Heck, I would...

First, I'd like to just open this with, apologies if this is the wrong place to talk about it. Not a clue where to post this. Second, this isn't just a normal horny feeling thing, but literally based on compatibility for a future with said people. I will start off by saying I have met and been...