You have dick heads like Celerystick & friends trying to deflect and spin as well as guys like, eric blair, studs and krayjee constantly pumping up their SP exploits for their own agenda. It's to garner favours and "extras" from girls in exchange for all the business generated. All these guys use exactly the same lines and rebuttals when challenged. I remember one well known veteran hobbyist who wrote many eloquent reviews and who I use to exchange info with. I later learned he forced bbfs on an asian sp which I knew very well.