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When there’s actually some vibe between you two the sex just feels better. Not some deep connection or anything, just both of you being into it. It’s not like it suddenly became a hard requirement. More people doing this now so you’ve got more choices. You can go for the ones who bring that...

Yeah, I’ve had an SP randomly text me late at night out of nowhere. Put me in a really awkward spot and was a pain to deal with — no idea how I was supposed to explain that. Still don’t get why some of them do this. It’s not even a reply, just a random night text. Ridiculous. From that moment on...

Good read. The problem is enforcement.

This quote says it all. The sexless part is just a symptom. The real issue is getting locked into a lifelong contract before you even know who you are. You grow up, you change, and suddenly you're 39 and your 28-year-old spouse feels like a stranger. Don't blow up your life over minor...