The joy of revenge
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Let it go, get on with things and get busy living for you. We`ve all seen the Shawshank.
In these situations it’s best to move on. Thinking of / exacting revenge/ retribution only maintains negative thoughts and energy and will keep you suffering. Move on and take pride in the fact that you have cut yourself free of this person and that things in your life will now be better going forward.
You should consider rewording that. It sounds like a euphemism for 'greek'.
Taking revenge will not make it feel any better.
Perhaps worse.
Best is to cut him off completely now that you have realized that he is an asshole.
Perhaps worse.
Best is to cut him off completely now that you have realized that he is an asshole.
So you are still letting him affect you by living rent-free in your head….. why? Just find a way to move on.
Don't involve yourself in more problems. The best revenge is moving on and thriving
The best solution is to move on with your life and forget revenge.
If you insist on some sort of revenge hacking shouldn't be it - it is a criminal offence. In the spirit of George Costanza, is having sex with his wife an option?
If you insist on some sort of revenge hacking shouldn't be it - it is a criminal offence. In the spirit of George Costanza, is having sex with his wife an option?
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Take the advice other people have given. Let it go and move on with your life. Revenge is never worth it in the end, you always end up a lesser man after achieving it
In my younger years I slashed a guys tires. He was an ass and deserved it. But immediately afterwards I felt like a loser. I let him get the best of me and make me do something that was not in my character. That was the first and last time I ever thought of "getting even".
There is some joy in revenge and its intoxicating, yet ultimately hollow. It promises satisfaction, whispers justice, and tempts one with power.
But beneath its surface lies a trap: the past consuming the present, it chains one to the very wounds they sought to heal. Triumph is not in vengeance but in breaking free and leaving the ashes behind.
Letting go is easier said than done...
if it continues to be irresistible, go after his woman or man.
But beneath its surface lies a trap: the past consuming the present, it chains one to the very wounds they sought to heal. Triumph is not in vengeance but in breaking free and leaving the ashes behind.
Letting go is easier said than done...
if it continues to be irresistible, go after his woman or man.
I got revenge a couple times. One guy I took to court over a failed business venture around 2015. I recently reported him to cra snitch line on his tax evasion. I waited almost 10 years thinking he was scott free. They never expose the outcome but hopefully he has a hefty repayment bill along with some interest.
Secondly, I got fired years ago. I found the guy's resume online and a few years ago I made a fake email and made him a lucrative job offer. He fell for it and I got him to drive 6 hours round trip for a fake meet and greet as I told him he was already hired and this was a meet up to meet the other hires. All done through email. Lol.
Don't listen to the above, revenge can be sweet.
Secondly, I got fired years ago. I found the guy's resume online and a few years ago I made a fake email and made him a lucrative job offer. He fell for it and I got him to drive 6 hours round trip for a fake meet and greet as I told him he was already hired and this was a meet up to meet the other hires. All done through email. Lol.
Don't listen to the above, revenge can be sweet.
I think you should go for it. Whatever it takes to get even. Sounds like you have nothing else in your life to worry about.
I had access to someone's icloud storage years ago. I permanently deleted everything they had including what was on their phone. Didn't make me feel any better, in retrospect it was stupid.
Move on.
Move on.
Revenge, in its purest form, can bring a sense of balance to the soul, especially when an injustice has been done. There is a unique kind of peace that comes from seeing those who have caused pain be forced to face the consequences of their actions. Is the best revenge to live well? Sometimes, but even better is divine justice, especially when the harm done has had little effect on you or when the wrongdoer ultimately suffers far more than they inflicted. In the end, revenge is not just about retribution; it is about restoring order to a world that has been wronged.
Divine retribution.
I knew a guy who was less fortunate in life than most, often coming to me for advice and favors. I helped where I could but never invested in his get-rich-quick schemes. His usual pitch was simple: I would fund the business, he would run it while taking a salary, and any leftover profits we would split. I doubted there would ever be profits to share, so I kept my distance financially. Then one day, he came into an inheritance. Overnight, his attitude changed he became arrogant, making comments that suggested he no longer needed me. He tried to give me the impression that he had millions, though in reality, he had only received around $200,000–$300,000. Around the same time, he learned about a business deal I was considering and pushed his way into it. I had already lost interest in the opportunity but didn’t tell him. He ended up sinking his entire inheritance into a failing business that lost money for over a decade before he finally shut it down. Ironically, had he not let arrogance get the best of him, I could have pointed him toward a deal that would have given him a steady salary and tripled his money. Many people around him are aware of bitter just desserts served on him, I’m not even sure if he fully realizes it, since I never told him directly.
Divine retribution.
I knew a guy who was less fortunate in life than most, often coming to me for advice and favors. I helped where I could but never invested in his get-rich-quick schemes. His usual pitch was simple: I would fund the business, he would run it while taking a salary, and any leftover profits we would split. I doubted there would ever be profits to share, so I kept my distance financially. Then one day, he came into an inheritance. Overnight, his attitude changed he became arrogant, making comments that suggested he no longer needed me. He tried to give me the impression that he had millions, though in reality, he had only received around $200,000–$300,000. Around the same time, he learned about a business deal I was considering and pushed his way into it. I had already lost interest in the opportunity but didn’t tell him. He ended up sinking his entire inheritance into a failing business that lost money for over a decade before he finally shut it down. Ironically, had he not let arrogance get the best of him, I could have pointed him toward a deal that would have given him a steady salary and tripled his money. Many people around him are aware of bitter just desserts served on him, I’m not even sure if he fully realizes it, since I never told him directly.
