A long overdue DR review from a very experienced longtime lurker

Davowavo

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Brethren, my sincere apologies for this very tardy review.

Durham is not a wasteland, instead it’s a treasure chest. We have at least 10-15 super high quality SPs, not including any of the asians who have also been great providers (except they turn over more frequently and require more TOFTT). I have yellow fever and really love the asians and frequent them just as often as non asians, maybe more.

My list:

1. Heather - best GFE experience I ever had
2. Ashlee - hottest SP who can cum multiple times, can be GFE or PSE, offers anal and loves it
3. Charlotte - very pretty and sexy, does GFE and PSE very well, haven’t seen in ages and am overdue
4. Heidi - very sexy and orgasms very easily, very fun
5. Jenesis - very high if not the highest on my bbbj list, if you like a squirter she will paint you in squirt
6. Chantel - lots of crazy rules but she’s nice and normal when you get there, cheapest anal around
7. Jessica James - my session with her I blew too fast and didn’t get to enjoy her and I found her too PSE, I should have guided her to GFE and to slow down but I wouldn’t discourage you from seeing her.
8. Nikki - not seen, Pickering is a hike and I don’t do deposits full stop just for paper trail
9. Xina - missed her in Oshawa in the red door days due to scheduling and then she moved to Pickering and it’s a hike
10. Amber - not seen, too expensive, I’m sure she is amazing, but my SO monitors the bank account and that would not be hidable, and besides, there’s lots of great pussy cheaper
11. Kaydence - not seen due to cbj but I think I’m gonna go anyways because her reviews are too good
12. I’ve seen a lot of the Asians but they are so hit and miss and they change so often that it takes lots of work to figure out the good from the bad. I’ve been going to the wee house since Kitty moved there and used to see Kitty at the Woodycrest and Canadiana when she was there. Best ones were Amy, Candy, Kitty, Nancy, Jenny, Maggie. I haven’t seen Cherry or Mimi. Cherry too many weird packages and charges extra for cim. Mimi just doesn’t look attractive at all so have avoided to divert to the other go to’s.

I’ve had so many TOFTT over the years but I haven’t done one of those in a long time now except with the Asians. With the Asians I like to start with a bbbjcim to test the location, looks, and service of the provider and go from there. Best to throw away minimum money if it doesn’t work out.

Notables who have good reviews but didn’t do it for me:

1. Candi - I’ve had some great sessions with her FS, she was one my first and I even saw her at her place in Oshawa. But when she went bbbj only I could never get comfortable for a bbbj sitting up at the edge of the bed or standing up and she had no flexibility to meet my needs so I stopped seeing her. I think I went to see her like 3 times in a row and couldn’t even get hard between her aggressive PSE style and the discomfort she required me to be in and she never gave me even partial money back or offered to accommodate my needs.
2. Michelle Durhams Best Mouth - I saw her a lot when in Whitby way back when because it was a decent bbbjcimsw for really cheap. But her prices have gone up and frankly her bbbj is just ok.
 
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HoneyBadger

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Brethren, my sincere apologies for this very tardy review.

Durham is not a wasteland, instead it’s a treasure chest. We have at least 10-15 super high quality SPs, not including any of the asians who have also been great providers (except they turn over more frequently and require more TOFTT). I have yellow fever and really love the asians and frequent them just as often as non asians, maybe more.

My list:

1. Heather - best GFE experience I ever had
2. Ashlee - hottest SP who can cum multiple times, can be GFE or PSE, offers anal and loves it
3. Charlotte - very pretty and sexy, does GFE and PSE very well, haven’t seen in ages and am overdue
4. Heidi - very sexy and orgasms very easily, very fun
5. Jenesis - very high if not the highest on my bbbj list, if you like a squirter she will paint you in squirt
6. Chantel - lots of crazy rules but she’s nice and normal when you get there, cheapest anal around
7. Jessica James - my session with her I blew too fast and didn’t get to enjoy her and I found her too PSE, I should have guided her to GFE and to slow down but I wouldn’t discourage you from seeing her.
8. Nikki - not seen, Pickering is a hike and I don’t do deposits full stop just for paper trail
9. Xina - missed her in Oshawa in the red door days due to scheduling and then she moved to Pickering and it’s a hike
10. Amber - not seen, too expensive, I’m sure she is amazing, but my SO monitors the bank account and that would not be hidable, and besides, there’s lots of great pussy cheaper
11. Kaydence - not seen due to cbj but I think I’m gonna go anyways because her reviews are too good
12. I’ve seen a lot of the Asians but they are so hit and miss and they change so often that it takes lots of work to figure out the good from the bad. I’ve been going to the wee house since Kitty moved there and used to see Kitty at the Woodycrest and Canadiana when she was there. Best ones were Amy, Candy, Kitty, Nancy, Jenny, Maggie. I haven’t seen Cherry or Mimi. Cherry too many weird packages and no cim. Mimi just doesn’t look attractive at all so have avoided to divert to the other go to’s.

I’ve had so many TOFTT over the years but I haven’t done one of those in a long time now except with the Asians. With the Asians I like to start with a bbbjcim to test the location, looks, and service of the provider and go from there. Best to throw away minimum money if it doesn’t work out.

Notables who have good reviews but didn’t do it for me:

1. Candi - I’ve had some great sessions with her FS, she was one my first and I even saw her at her place in Oshawa. But when she went bbbj only I could never get comfortable for a bbbj sitting up at the edge of the bed or standing up and she had no flexibility to meet my needs so I stopped seeing her. I think I went to see her like 3 times in a row and couldn’t even get hard between her aggressive PSE style and the discomfort she required me to be in and she never gave me even partial money back or offered to accommodate my needs.
2. Michelle Durhams Best Mouth - I saw her a lot when in Whitby way back when because it was a decent bbbjcimsw for really cheap. But her prices have gone up and frankly her bbbj is just ok.
Thanks for the comprehensive list. I'm in Durham tomorrow (Saturday)and have struck out with Nikki and Heidi who don't do weekends. I've seen Xina who was fun and Kaydence who was crazy wild and hilarious too. I'd see Amber in a heartbeat but agree her rates are a little steep. So I'm torn between Jenesis who you give best the BBBJ CIMSW award to (which I value very much) and Jessica James, if available, but I don't know who Heather and Ashlee are. Links?
 
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Davowavo

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Thanks for the comprehensive list. I'm in Durham tomorrow (Saturday)and have struck out with Nikki and Heidi who don't do weekends. I've seen Xina who was fun and Kaydence who was crazy wild and hilarious too. I'd see Amber in a heartbeat but agree her rates are a little steep. So I'm torn between Jenesis who you give best the BBBJ CIMSW award to (which I value very much) and Jessica James, if available, but I don't know who Heather and Ashlee are. Links?
All three of these women will do that so it really depends on what all else you want. Ashlee provides anal for no up charge and loves it. The other two don’t provide anal at all. The hottest one by far is Ashlee. The best GFE is Heather (at least for me, others may argue Ashlee). The one most likely to spray you down with squirt is Jenesis. Plus both Ashlee and Heather won’t likely be available because they both generally don’t work on the weekend (and even if they did they’d likely be fully booked the day before). You need to book Heather several days ahead and Ashlee often over a week or two ahead. Even Jenesis can be booked but you are most likely to be able to get an appointment with her. Also, If you are just looking for a bbbjcimsw Jenesis’ bbbjcimsw is to die for. It’s very hot to watch. But if you aren’t into BBWs (which Jenesis is) you can just go for a bbbjcimsw and she charges $100 for that as a donation for her time. I think even Charlotte offers bbbjcimsw and provides excellent GFE and excellent bbbj. She is very sexy and pretty.
 
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Davowavo

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All three of these women will do that so it really depends on what all else you want. Ashlee provides anal for no up charge and loves it. The other two don’t provide anal at all. The hottest one by far is Ashlee. The best GFE is Heather (at least for me, others may argue Ashlee). The one most likely to spray you down with squirt is Jenesis. Plus both Ashlee and Heather won’t likely be available because they both generally don’t work on the weekend (and even if they did they’d likely be fully booked the day before). You need to book Heather several days ahead and Ashlee often over a week or two ahead. Even Jenesis can be booked but you are most likely to be able to get an appointment with her. Also, If you are just looking for a bbbjcimsw Jenesis’ bbbjcimsw is to die for. It’s very hot to watch.
Heather doesn’t advertise but her number is in my post titled Sweet Heather about four posts down. Ashlee advertises and posts her updated schedule here on the terb website. She has a website www.ashlee.fun I believe but it is posted in her ad. Just google terb Durham ads. And Jenesis also has her own website www.jenesis.ch. All her details can be found there.
 
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Ashlee told me that she quite often gets cancelations, I have had several last minute appointments because of this
Ashlee is so well reviewed its none of my business of course but she certainly can be trusted with a deposit . I don't know her but know of her and she is not the type who would streal a deposit. Its not easy to schedule your day when people do this no show crap and can certainly relate so that why deposits are important these days even if its just a gift card ( no paper trail) unless its a regular that has gained trust. I hope I am not going to get slammed for my opinion but I understand the frustration and would not wish it on anyone. 💞. I reached out to Ashley because I do have someone who wants a duo with us but I understand that she doesn't want to its hard to trust people in the industry these days you say onee thing and then it trickles down the line and ends up some big fabricated story. I know you guys are afraid of losing a deposit but I can guarantee Ashlee has to much class for that type of B.S. Many escorts ask for photo ID for screening as well, you are fortunate its not the case here in Durham. Hope you all are having a great weekend 💋
 

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where did anyone mention Ashlee stealing a deposit?

why would you post this?
I think she just meant to say that Ashlee should maybe think about deposits to avoid cancellations and that because she is so reputable that guys shouldn’t worry about having to give them to her.

The main argument against men giving deposits is about scammers and women stealing them or not giving them back if something happens on the provider side. I think Amber was just trying to make the suggestion while nipping that argument in the butt right away.

It just came out wrong. She meant well.
 

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Ashlee told me that she quite often gets cancelations, I have had several last minute appointments because of this
Yes there is often a cancellation appt available but luckily for the most part I get a lot of notice if someone wakes up sick, sick kids etc. it’s always nice for someone else to get lucky and catch a last minute appointment too, so I get to see the guys who can’t plan ahead. No shows suck but are usually rare, although it seems to be cyclical.
 

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Yes there is often a cancellation appt available but luckily for the most part I get a lot of notice if someone wakes up sick, sick kids etc. it’s always nice for someone else to get lucky and catch a last minute appointment too, so I get to see the guys who can’t plan ahead. No shows suck but are usually rare, although it seems to be cyclical.
I’ve benefitted from your cancellations and I’m pretty sure the 2x I’ve had to bail (with ample notice) has created opportunities for others to spend time with you. Based on your stellar reputation I’d imagine you won’t need to require deposits for appointments anytime soon!
 

Davowavo

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Ashlee is so well reviewed its none of my business of course but she certainly can be trusted with a deposit . I don't know her but know of her and she is not the type who would streal a deposit. Its not easy to schedule your day when people do this no show crap and can certainly relate so that why deposits are important these days even if its just a gift card ( no paper trail) unless its a regular that has gained trust. I hope I am not going to get slammed for my opinion but I understand the frustration and would not wish it on anyone. 💞. I reached out to Ashley because I do have someone who wants a duo with us but I understand that she doesn't want to its hard to trust people in the industry these days you say onee thing and then it trickles down the line and ends up some big fabricated story. I know you guys are afraid of losing a deposit but I can guarantee Ashlee has to much class for that type of B.S. Many escorts ask for photo ID for screening as well, you are fortunate its not the case here in Durham. Hope you all are having a great weekend 💋
I’m sure Ashlee could demand a deposit but she’s just very cool and she understands shit happens sometimes and you need to cancel. And as such, I’m willing to bet her most of her cancellations are with reasonable notice and guys like me who have a hard time planning ahead will text her repeatedly to inquire about cancellations to fill in those rare cancellations. Two weeks ago when I saw Jenesis and Heather I was checking with Ashlee all week about cancellations and I just missed one on Monday I think and then there wasn’t another one the rest of week so most of her clients I think are pretty respectful of her time.

For me the deposit is just a non starter or I would have seen Nikki ages ago. No matter what you do there is always a paper trail either in the bank account, the Amazon account or in an email. And in today’s world if you own an iPhone then that email is everywhere (ie Iwatch. iPad, MacBook).
 

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I’m sure Ashlee could demand a deposit but she’s just very cool and she understands shit happens sometimes and you need to cancel. And as such, I’m willing to bet her most of her cancellations are with reasonable notice and guys like me who have a hard time planning ahead will text her repeatedly to inquire about cancellations to fill in those rare cancellations. Two weeks ago when I saw Jenesis and Heather I was checking with Ashlee all week about cancellations and I just missed one on Monday I think and then there wasn’t another one the rest of week so most of her clients I think are pretty respectful of her time.

For me the deposit is just a non starter or I would have seen Nikki ages ago. No matter what you do there is always a paper trail either in the bank account, the Amazon account or in an email. And in today’s world if you own an iPhone then that email is everywhere (ie Iwatch. iPad, MacBook).
I dont think I am uncool for asking for a depisit it would be great if I didn't deal with people flat out fake booking for months until i decided to take deposits. I am happy she does not have those types of issues. Personally I would be fake booked all day if I didnt. Sometime a terb handle is ok too. I dont ask for too much really , a girl told me she was raped for 4 hours straight and had her face slashed so I just like a little bit of safty measures and understand why some girls ask for photo.I.D I don't think I ask for much but if you don't want to see someone because of deposits thats ok some girls dont need them I guess and I am happy ashley Jenesis And heather don't get all the fake bookings I have had nor would I wish that on anyone. I have clients that know I dont steal deposits and if someone has to reschdule I dont mind thats different. If they do it 5 ir six times its a game. I just read the post wrong , as someone said she gets cancellations and I assumed it was because of other reasons . Sorry I guess I was wrong and I was just trying to be helpfull. Girls have been getting deposits for years that are trustworthy. But of course you dont have to give one if you dont want to. Take care babe 😘
 
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For me the deposit is just a non starter or I would have seen Nikki ages ago. No matter what you do there is always a paper trail either in the bank account, the Amazon account or in an email. And in today’s world if you own an iPhone then that email is everywhere (ie Iwatch. iPad, MacBook).
How do you accumulate your play money to see ladies?
That cash comes from somewhere..No?
Isnt a Vanilla Gift card untraceable?
Go to a gas station..buy the card with cash
Take a pic..front and back and that's it..then delete the email.
You got the cash for your lady friend already ..No?
So you give the Card info with amount and balance when you arrive.
 
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Yes there is often a cancellation appt available but luckily for the most part I get a lot of notice if someone wakes up sick, sick kids etc. it’s always nice for someone else to get lucky and catch a last minute appointment too, so I get to see the guys who can’t plan ahead. No shows suck but are usually rare, although it seems to be cyclical.
I’ve been the beneficiary of a couple of these last minute cancellations so thanks fellas! lol
 
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Davowavo

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Ashlee is so well reviewed its none of my business of course but she certainly can be trusted with a deposit . I don't know her but know of her and she is not the type who would streal a deposit. Its not easy to schedule your day when people do this no show crap and can certainly relate so that why deposits are important these days even if its just a gift card ( no paper trail) unless its a regular that has gained trust. I hope I am not going to get slammed for my opinion but I understand the frustration and would not wish it on anyone. 💞. I reached out to Ashley because I do have someone who wants a duo with us but I understand that she doesn't want to its hard to trust people in the industry these days you say onee thing and then it trickles down the line and ends up some big fabricated story. I know you guys are afraid of losing a deposit but I can guarantee Ashlee has to much class for that type of B.S. Many escorts ask for photo ID for screening as well, you are fortunate its not the case here in Durham. Hope you all are having a great weekend 💋
Very sorry to hear that people do that to you Amber. That’s a really shitty thing to do and I don’t blame you for wanting some form of verification. And all good no need to apologize.
 
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Davowavo

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How do you accumulate your play money to see ladies?
That cash comes from somewhere..No?
Isnt a Vanilla Gift card untraceable?
Go to a gas station..buy the card with cash
Take a pic..front and back and that's it..then delete the email.
You got the cash for your lady friend already ..No?
So you give the Card info with amount and balance when you arrive.
Hey Thumper, big fan of your reviews. Ya technically you are correct I could do what you said but it’s still a pain and it eats into my available time so I just don’t.
 
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I’ve benefitted from your cancellations and I’m pretty sure the 2x I’ve had to bail (with ample notice) has created opportunities for others to spend time with you. Based on your stellar reputation I’d imagine you won’t need to require deposits for appointments anytime soon!
MIkediamond , you are one lucky guy!!! xoxo last min cancelations work well for you ;)
 

Davowavo

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Thanks for the comprehensive list. I'm in Durham tomorrow (Saturday)and have struck out with Nikki and Heidi who don't do weekends. I've seen Xina who was fun and Kaydence who was crazy wild and hilarious too. I'd see Amber in a heartbeat but agree her rates are a little steep. So I'm torn between Jenesis who you give best the BBBJ CIMSW award to (which I value very much) and Jessica James, if available, but I don't know who Heather and Ashlee are. Links?
So @HoneyBadger, I’m new to the reviewing thing but since you asked me for extra detail on my reco’s who did you end up seeing and how did that work out?
 

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So @HoneyBadger, I’m new to the reviewing thing but since you asked me for extra detail on my reco’s who did you end up seeing and how did that work out?
I visited Jessica James. She took proper care of me. Very chill personality, nice looking milf-type body, discreet, good conversation, open-minded, unrushed, and she came pretty hard in the CG position. We finished with CIM and I'm still smiling. Thanks for asking. I was intending to follow up and thank you for the list. Pure gold. I'll refer to it whenever I'm in the area. I'm planning to see Jenesis for this epic BBBJ cimsw next time. Amber is on the TDL when I cash in my swear-jar because she's a little steep but I'm sure well worth it. Jessica J promised she'd be in touch when she's doing duos with Jackie. I'm considering moving to the area now that I have this list filed. Lol. Cheers mate.
 
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