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[MarianneC]

This has always been a favorite but I found it difficult to discuss. I usually found that if I took the initiative then the possibility of reciprocation was offered and I was more open to discuss it. This was obviously an issue with me bringing it up as I didn't know that quite a few of the people listed by CY provided this. A missed opportunity for me.

Thanks for all the feedback and I will definitely be more open in this area moving forward.

To be honest, I don't think there's any way to discuss this verbally without it being awkward. It's always been something that happened naturally as part of foreplay, without any discussion ahead of time. Either they don't like it and tell you to stop, or they like it and just moan a lot.

 

[CraftyOttawa]

I recently had my first rumjob with a provider i have seen a few times. It just sort of happened during some foreplay and it rocked me that i am now searching for more on the subject. I wasn't sure it was something i was intetested in until it happened and now i need to rethink what i want and what works. That really worked for me! Thank you to the provider, who was on the list of great providers. She does not advertise anymore and ony takes regulars as she is semi-retired.

 

[BeastBoy613]

To be honest, I don't think there's any way to discuss this verbally without it being awkward. It's always been something that happened naturally as part of foreplay, without any discussion ahead of time. Either they don't like it and tell you to stop, or they like it and just moan a lot.

Can't argue this point. Some of the best experiences I've had happend organically, kind of a surprise to both parties that it was so enjoyable. Of course boundaries are pre acknowledged.. I bet you have great stories! And, I am a bit envious its post 2014. As reading these snippets has me interested in the Marianne experience Happy to hear you started the next chapter on a good note. Today is a good day. So many marvelous people to meet in so many renowned cities. Happy chatting!

 

[MarianneC]

Can't argue this point. Some of the best experiences I've had happend organically, kind of a surprise to both parties that it was so enjoyable. Of course boundaries are pre acknowledged.. I bet you have great stories! And, I am a bit envious its post 2014. As reading these snippets has me interested in the Marianne experience Happy to hear you started the next chapter on a good note. Today is a good day. So many marvelous people to meet in so many renowned cities. Happy chatting!

Yeah, I know "the girls just aren't like they used to be", right? The guys who were around when I was new used to say exactly the same thing as you. Every generation says the same thing. The truth of the matter is, the girls are exactly the same in this generation, as they were in my generation, and previous generations. And the problem is guys just don't know how to get what they want out of the girls, because most of them don't know how to push the right buttons. A small group of guys knew the techniques, most didn't.
You can either treat this entirely like a business transaction and try to get what you want by throwing money at it. That really doesn't work very well, nobody is going to do a good job if they feel obligated to do it because they're being paid for it. Or you can acknowledge that this is also quite often an emotional business albeit temporarily, and try to woo the woman you're with. Things happen much more organically and are much more fun that way.

 

[escortsxxx]

Yeah, I know "the girls just aren't like they used to be", right? The guys who were around when I was new used to say exactly the same thing as you. Every generation says the same thing. The truth of the matter is, the girls are exactly the same in this generation, as they were in my generation, and previous generations. And the problem is guys just don't know how to get what they want out of the girls, because most of them don't know how to push the right buttons. A small group of guys knew the techniques, most didn't.
You can either treat this entirely like a business transaction and try to get what you want by throwing money at it. That really doesn't work very well, nobody is going to do a good job if they feel obligated to do it because they're being paid for it. Or you can acknowledge that this is also quite often an emotional business albeit temporarily, and try to woo the woman you're with. Things happen much more organically and are much more fun that way.

Why I agree with you overall "the girls are the same each generation" is not true at all - since 1950 each decade has had more and more rapid changes especially in the before and after pill sexual revolution, then again after the net no net time, and then Phone no smart phone period.

On dating alone, I have found some younger women seek older gentleman such as myself because we can not imagine not courting a girl for a least a little while - hook up culture of today is far far different than bar one night stand culture of yesteryear or free love parties before that.
There was a time when it was not rare to find a virgin 19 year old girl and I have not heard of one for years except in sub cultures (Mormons , Amish etc.)
Since main culture affects this sub culture the girls are different - as are the men. What was wild is now common, but also, what was common is now rare.

 

[MaverickHunter]

Why I agree with you overall "the girls are the same each generation" is not true at all - since 1950 each decade has had more and more rapid changes especially in the before and after pill sexual revolution, then again after the net no net time, and then Phone no smart phone period.

On dating alone, I have found some younger women seek older gentleman such as myself because we can not imagine not courting a girl for a least a little while - hook up culture of today is far far different than bar one night stand culture of yesteryear or free love parties before that.
There was a time when it was not rare to find a virgin 19 year old girl and I have not heard of one for years except in sub cultures (Mormons , Amish etc.)
Since main culture affects this sub culture the girls are different - as are the men. What was wild is now common, but also, what was common is now rare.

The only thing that has changed is your point of view.

 

[MarianneC]

Why I agree with you overall "the girls are the same each generation" is not true at all - since 1950 each decade has had more and more rapid changes especially in the before and after pill sexual revolution, then again after the net no net time, and then Phone no smart phone period.

Well, I don't know if there was a difference between the 1960's and 1950's, those were both before my time. But I suspect your grandma or great-grandma was a lot wilder than she ever let on.

I actually used to work for a lady who had set up her spa way back in the 60's! She was operating out of the same location that she first setup back then, never got busted once, despite the ornery laws back in the early days. She herself used to work in the field back the early days, and nothing that happened in later decades surprised her or shocked her. Because she pretty much did all of the same things back when she was young. She'd seen it all.

 

[benover]

Well, I don't know if there was a difference between the 1960's and 1950's, those were both before my time. But I suspect your grandma or great-grandma was a lot wilder than she ever let on.

I actually used to work for a lady who had set up her spa way back in the 60's! She was operating out of the same location that she first setup back then, never got busted once, despite the ornery laws back in the early days. She herself used to work in the field back the early days, and nothing that happened in later decades surprised her or shocked her. Because she pretty much did all of the same things back when she was young. She'd seen it all.

I thought this was about LOOKING for rimjob

 

[haplessinquiry]

I thought this was about LOOKING for rimjob

I wonder if rimjobs were around in the 50's and 60's?

 

[telus]

Nah, I think I'm probably too old for most of you guys, I retired back in 2014. I know my best-before date.

I did the standard thing after retiring. Got kinda married (not really, just started living with my boyfriend, but for a really long time, so I call him hubby anyways). Yes, he was actually a former client, and so was completely okay with what I did. He doesn't get jealous.

But this was actually one of my most fun periods of life. But I ran into another old client of mine at a shopping mall one day, and he suggested that I could get in contact with former colleagues and clients on this website, so I decided to give it a try, and here I am.

You are not too old for me lol you sound Devine. I can't believe I missed my chance with you lol

 

[Shantiex6969x]

Thanks for the reference

 

[Dztuner]

Well obviously, if you have some physical limitations, then just do what you can. I know it's hard for guys to be seen as anything but tough guys with steel jaws, chiselled chins, etc. It's hard to show vulnerability, but if you do be honest with your provider, you'll find that they mostly want to help you with your problem, and they won't think any less of you. If you're having a back problem, you got some kind of knee injury, etc., etc. Just be upfront about those things. Even if you're having some problems with getting hard, and certain things make it difficult for you, then don't be shy about being honest about those.

Congrats on finding someone that accepted what you did. As a 20 year SP studying in the art of spiritual domination, I have many woman in my life. But finding the one has never been close.
Again, congrats. We SP's do t usually find love but great at giving it.

 

[William St]

There, I said it! Along with bbbj/ cof or cim, straightforward question but very rare service, been looking since a few of my favourite SPs retired pre-pandemic? Any leads in Ottawa would be appreciated.

Any ladies up to tangle with nasty flora of the digestive tract, sti's, an intestinal parasite perhaps?...No? I thought as much. And if you are, don't be offering dfk to your next client!

 

[MyBigToe?]

Any ladies up to tangle with nasty flora of the digestive tract, sti's, an intestinal parasite perhaps?...No? I thought as much. And if you are, don't be offering dfk to your next client!

You must be a hoot at parties.

 

[GaryMarcus]

Rimming is as big of a red flag as bbfs. Might be worse tbh.

 

[Nesbot]

Rimming is as big of a red flag as bbfs. Might be worse tbh.

Sexual health education has either gone downhill over the years or some people are a bit too old and never got any. How on earth can you compare these 2 things as equivalent?

 

[Big Mull]

I just licked a woman's ass. I feel fine.

 

[oldfart1]

Sexual health education has either gone downhill over the years or some people are a bit too old and never got any. How on earth can you compare these 2 things as equivalent?

actually only HIV is not transmissible via oral. the rest including herpes are. medical facts matter

 

[William St]

You must be a hoot at parties.

I try to avoid them at all costs Usually, drunk or stoned people end up rimming each other...

 

[MyBigToe?]

I try to avoid them at all costs Usually, drunk or stoned people end up rimming each other...

A perfect retort, sir. A slow clap for you.