TERB Guys don't like BBW's?

[csmitting]

Once got blind dated (back in the 80s) with "a cute girl with a nice personality." OK. Get to know her on the phone, let's go on a date...bbw. oh well. Would not have been attracted. However, enjoy her company, she makes first move....I'm weak and horny...and I must admit I so much enjoyed the soft pleasures from her body (she was cute too!). We dated for a while. Ever since then, I've NEVER written off a bbw.

I once dated this awesome lady for a brief time. We got along perfectly, she had a dirty mind, like to fuck, was fun to hang out with. Only she was overweight and facially let say lacking.

I had met her online. And when I met her in person for the first time I was was turned off by her physical appearance. But i thought to myself, she’s awesome, am I really this swallow. Let me give this a try, I’m not really this superficial.

Turns out I am that superficial. We spent the night together (she was really good, 5stars I mentioned she like to fuck) but afterwards as she lay asleep beside me, the only thing i was thinking “how can I get this snoring fat girl out of my house fastest”.

Although she was a super great lady, I couldn’t get over not being visually attracted to her.

 

[Adriel]

But i thought to myself, she’s awesome, am I really this swallow.

I think you are

 

[Vera.Reis]

I think you are

You mean: should have been*

 

[csmitting]

I challenged the scope of his argument, not the argument itself. Most people settle vs men settle for women bigger than they prefer.

No, you didn’t. You further argued his point.

 

[csmitting]

I think you are

I wrote that I’m my post. “Turns out I am that superficial”

did you not read the whole thing?

 

[Adriel]

I wrote that I’m my post. “Turns out I am that superficial”

did you not read the whole thing?

I did. I was just joking.

 

[Vera.Reis]

No, you didn’t. You further argued his point.

Do you know what scope means? "Most people settle" and "men settle for women bigger than they prefer" are two different arguments even if one is a subset of the other. Men who settle for larger women are a subset of people who settle, but arguing that most people settle (without qualifying what they settled for) is a very different argument from saying a specific group settles for a specific thing. This isn't a difficult concept.

 

[Mandalorian]

I once dated this awesome lady for a brief time. We got along perfectly, she had a dirty mind, like to fuck, was fun to hang out with. Only she was overweight and facially let say lacking.

I had met her online. And when I met her in person for the first time I was was turned off by her physical appearance. But i thought to myself, she’s awesome, am I really this swallow. Let me give this a try, I’m not really this superficial.

Turns out I am that superficial. We spent the night together (she was really good, 5stars I mentioned she like to fuck) but afterwards as she lay asleep beside me, the only thing i was thinking “how can I get this snoring fat girl out of my house fastest”.

Although she was a super great lady, I couldn’t get over not being visually attracted to her.

I had a similar experience back in my college years (when the internet was in its infancy). Met a girl online in a Usenet group (I’m dating myself here), flirted for weeks until meeting in person and was really disappointed with her looks. Body was great but face was totally not my type. I wanted to not be so shallow so went through with it and we dated for a few weeks. Sex was off the charts but I couldn’t introduce her to my friends. Eventually we parted ways.

 

[Vera.Reis]

I'd be really interested to know which men in here meet the 6,6,6 requirement - minimum 6ft, 6", 6 figure that some of you think are womens requirements. Despite me not being what you weirdos seem to think is an ideal weight for a partner, my man meets these basic requirements that many women have, AND he's conventionally attractive. I'm sure most of you don't measure up, so to speak, but are here talking about women's bodies. Pathetic honestly.

 

[John Wick]

I'd be really interested to know which men in here meet the 6,6,6 requirement - minimum 6ft, 6", 6 figure that some of you think are womens requirements. Despite me not being what you weirdos seem to think is an ideal weight for a partner, my man meets these basic requirements that many women have, AND he's conventionally attractive. I'm sure most of you don't measure up, so to speak, but are here talking about women's bodies. Pathetic honestly.

So we're all 'weirdos' because we have size/shape/weight preferences for the partners we're expected to pay top dollar to engage with, or enter into a longer term personal relationship with? OK then...

 

[Adriel]

So we're all 'weirdos' because we have size/shape/weight preferences for the partners we're expected to pay top dollar to engage with, or enter into a longer term personal relationship with? OK then...

It is when people start bragging about how they have this and that, and call other people pathetic you know that they actually dont.

 

[Vera.Reis]

So we're all 'weirdos' because we have size/shape/weight preferences for the partners we're expected to pay top dollar to engage with, or enter into a longer term personal relationship with? OK then...

Weirdos because most of you probably don't meet the equivalent standards some women say they look for in a man, and yet yall are on here acting like dating within your league is settling lol

 

[Vera.Reis]

It is when people start bragging about how they have this and that, and call other people pathetic you know that they actually dont.

There's a reason I'm going into semi-retirement when I get back from Europe in August while still having 2 years of law school to complete ;-)

 

[Jenesis]

There's a reason I'm going into semi-retirement when I get back from Europe in August while still having 2 years of law school to complete ;-)

Part time work is amazing. All the benefits, none of the hassles. Pick and choose your clientele, work when you want, tons of downtime to mentally and physically recoup. It is awesome. You will love it.

 

[John Wick]

Weirdos because most of you probably don't meet the equivalent standards some women say they look for in a man, and yet yall are on here acting like dating within your league is settling lol

You're trying to shift the narrative to redirect the focus of the conversation. This thread is not about how many men meet a min. female standard that women look for in a man. Doesn't matter if that comment appeared as an outlier in the discussion. Doesn't matter if you want to instead argue the practical application of the concept of settling. The thread is about whether or not TERB members (i.e. this forum's participants who are paying customers in the sex industry) do/do not seek to book BBWs in any meaningful way.

I have not as yet heard any compelling evidence that points to any reality that they do, and the vast majority of the comments posted in this thread, when taken in concert with each the global body of reviews posted here over 22years and the specifications provided day over day by advertisers who would appear to know what the market here and elsewhere is demanding would appear to confirm TERB members don't prefer BBWs, nor is there really any meaningful demand as a subset. Those are the facts, and that is the truth, whether you like it or not.

 

[Adriel]

You're trying to shift the narrative to redirect the focus of the conversation. This thread is not about how many men meet a min. female standard that women look for in a man. Doesn't matter if that comment appeared as an outlier in the discussion. Doesn't matter if you want to instead argue the practical application of the concept of settling. The thread is about whether or not TERB members (i.e. this forum's participants who are paying customers in the sex industry) do/do not seek to book BBWs in any meaningful way.

I have not as yet heard any compelling evidence that points to any reality that they do, and the vast majority of the comments posted in this thread, when taken in concert with each the global body of reviews posted here over 22years and the specifications provided day over day by advertisers who would appear to know what the market here and elsewhere is demanding would appear to confirm TERB members don't prefer BBWs, nor is there really any meaningful demand as a subset. Those are the facts, and that is the truth, whether you like it or not.

This and the very real fact that people in general prefer thin partners. Even fat people dont prefer fat partners, they want thin ones. Fat people can be attractive depending on how their body is composed or other attributes but generally speaking fat is not really considered beautiful or attractive, conventionally speaking. This shouldn't be controversial to accept.

 

[Vera.Reis]

You're trying to shift the narrative to redirect the focus of the conversation. This thread is not about how many men meet a min. female standard that women look for in a man. Doesn't matter if that comment appeared as an outlier in the discussion. Doesn't matter if you want to instead argue the practical application of the concept of settling. The thread is about whether or not TERB members (i.e. this forum's participants who are paying customers in the sex industry) do/do not seek to book BBWs in any meaningful way.

I have not as yet heard any compelling evidence that points to any reality that they do, and the vast majority of the comments posted in this thread, when taken in concert with each the global body of reviews posted here over 22years and the specifications provided day over day by advertisers who would appear to know what the market here and elsewhere is demanding would appear to confirm TERB members don't prefer BBWs, nor is there really any meaningful demand as a subset. Those are the facts, and that is the truth, whether you like it or not.

If you read the thread, you would know it expanded beyond what OP created it for, so your point is moot, my replies are in context of the discussion that evolved.

Only a small set of terb users actually engage with the board. As someone who was a bbw, I can tell you there's a market, as can other bbws who advertise here. I wouldn't have paid for advertising if there wasn't. In fact, many of my clients say they don't post on here because most of you are bullies and they don't want to be bullied for their preference as often occurs on reviews of people who don't fit the cis, white and thin categories.

 

[Pleasure Hound]

This and the very real fact that people in general prefer thin partners. Even fat people dont prefer fat partners, they want thin ones. Fat people can be attractive depending on how their body is composed or other attributes but generally speaking fat is not really considered beautiful or attractive, conventionally speaking. This shouldn't be controversial to accept.

Your statement is a gross oversimplification of the truth.

In general, people prefer healthy (not necessarily thin) partners. As an example, I am not too enamoured with many oriental women because they are just too thin for me. I prefer curvy and BBW women, who are not "thin" but look very healthy, in my opinion.

I am not into obese women because obesity is generally unhealthy. However, a woman who has curves and the "right proportions" are preferred because they appear the healthiest. Thin women do not always appear healthy and therefore are not the most desired.

With respect to women's preferences, they would not necessarily prefer a thin man, especially one without some muscle tone. It is overall health that is prefered and not necessarily weight.....

 

[Pleasure Hound]

I am a TERB member who absolutely loves curvy and BBW women.....

There, I said it....

 

[Pleasure Hound]

For others who love curvy/BBW women, have a look at my Curvy and BBW images thread!

https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/i-love-thick-legs-the-curvy-and-bbw-thread.809644/page-25