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How old is too old for this hobby?

justincase

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I have been a TERB member since 2005 but have not been SP active for the past 12 years.
I recently celebrated my 60th and was considering seeing a SP. I am fit, healthy and everything still works great. My only hesitation is thinking about my age and making the SP uncomfortable.
So I ask TERB members if age matters and am I over thinking things?
 

MuffDiver

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I'm 55 and look younger. My philosophy is that as long as I can perform to my satisfaction and can spare the ~$300 for an hour of fun, I am golden. I do see less ladies these days, but it is more because of the 75 to 90 minute drive each way and the hoops that almost all independent ladies and a handful of agencies make a man hop through. Compromising my privacy is always a deal breaker, as are deposits, so anyone who requires one of those things is automatically off my list and ignored.

As long as you feel good, you have the means and are having fun, I say enjoy!

I should also add that I much prefer to travel and meet ladies in other countries. Can be more expensive, but much more enjoyable in my opinion.
 
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Fun For All

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I have been a TERB member since 2005 but have not been SP active for the past 12 years.
I recently celebrated my 60th and was considering seeing a SP. I am fit, healthy and everything still works great. My only hesitation is thinking about my age and making the SP uncomfortable.
So I ask TERB members if age matters and am I over thinking things?
I have a feeling that SPs have a lot of uncomfortable moments and know how to deal with them…I wouldn’t let that hold you back.
 

Kurt

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Somewhere between here and there
I have been a TERB member since 2005 but have not been SP active for the past 12 years.
I recently celebrated my 60th and was considering seeing a SP. I am fit, healthy and everything still works great. My only hesitation is thinking about my age and making the SP uncomfortable.
So I ask TERB members if age matters and am I over thinking things?
Be upfront with the SP and give them the option - some are very accommodating - I alway let the SP know a bit about me and have had a couple tell me they don't like facial hair so I don't see them. I have a goatee sometime beard and I am mid 50's
 
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xmontrealer

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I have been a TERB member since 2005 but have not been SP active for the past 12 years.
I recently celebrated my 60th and was considering seeing a SP. I am fit, healthy and everything still works great. My only hesitation is thinking about my age and making the SP uncomfortable.
So I ask TERB members if age matters and am I over thinking things?
I'm way older than you, and parts of me don't work well at all. I only do oral sessions for that reason.

Generally, but not always, the sp's and mpa's I see have no problem with that, and for the most part seem happy to see me if I repeat.

There should be no problem regarding your age, as long as you are clean and respectful. A good tongue and a good sense of humour counts for quite a bit as well... :geek:
 

Hipjdog

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A lot of the time the ladies are RELIEVED to see a more mature guy book rather than a 20 year old.
Some young guys don't treat the girls well, expect crazy PSE services, etc. Generally, older guys have
calmed down and can treat the lady better. Some ladies don't even let you book unless you're 30.

If you still enjoy it and are respectful to the girls just go for it. Life is to be lived.
 

eddie kerr

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I know I have said this before, I will turn 82 in June. I have been going to mps for the last 8 years or so mainly to semi legits such as Greenway, ShangriLa and others and have never been refused service. In fact I have even been complimented on my looks and body. Thankfully the lights are always low, LOL. I owe this to the fact that I look much younger than my age, even my female doctor has told me. This is because of my genetic history. Been married for over 50 years but my wife and I are basically good friends. Being able to see young MPAs is what is keeping me going in my retired life these days. So my philosophy is that if you enjoy getting a massage with a beautiful young girl go for it. You never know when your time is up
 

boomboom

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Generally I look for SPs over 30, as I'm that age as well
I find myself more comfortable using that as a start. Not that I see many, as I only partake maybe 6-8 times a year, as I live 2-4 hrs away from regulars I see. They also see no one under 30. I also only connect with a few, as I prefer a connection, not just a release.
have fun
stay safe
Boom
 

Jenesis

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I have been a TERB member since 2005 but have not been SP active for the past 12 years.
I recently celebrated my 60th and was considering seeing a SP. I am fit, healthy and everything still works great. My only hesitation is thinking about my age and making the SP uncomfortable.
So I ask TERB members if age matters and am I over thinking things?
I have had a 80 year old client who looked like 90 years old. Equipment didn’t work and yet their pussy eating was the tops!!!!!! I actually miss him. LOL.

Age is just a number sweetie. Go for it. Just do your research like you would have 12 years ago.

Good luck.

PS - my issue is with younger guys. I won’t see anyone under 30 like Boomboom said. And since he has reviewed before I can say I have seen him. Age is really really not an issue for us older ladies.

If a younger SP - just mention your age at booking like suggested but I doubt you need to.
 

kherg007

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Wondered that myself...when do I shut it down? Past 60 now, but can still get 100% without chemical intervention. In decent shape, adore my faves, keep a somewhat healthy lifestyle not counting job/travel stressors. Hmm...I suppose I'll have some incident that will say righty-o, yer done...
 

massman

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As others have said, there are plenty of SPs who are not only comfortable with, but prefer older dudes. The time to quit is at the time you no longer enjoy it. Otherwise have fun, and do t worry about things like age.
 

Oistins

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Similar age group. Regular check ups. Thirty minutes of exercise 5 days a week. Viagra, Cialis or Levitra. There are guys over 80 still going to orgies, I hear. I saw 8 gals in 8 days the last time I was in TO and I’m not planning to stop any time soon. I had friends in their 40’s that I’ve lost. Make the most of it while you can. Girls of all age groups will be happy to see you if you say the magic words….multiple hours and or duo, sometimes kink, too.
 
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