Hello there, as someone who's young and have quite an experience with hobbying, how do you this affects relationships later down the line? Any guys here who used to hobby but settled down after? I guess they wouldn't be lurking here. Just a thought. It's just so damn easy to see these wonderful girls
Effects of hobbying
- Thread starter Ray_wf
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Well, it would be 3.5-4 yrs ago when I started hobbying. I haven't gotten into another relationship because my last relationship really broke my heart. Ever since I enter the hobbying world, I haven't look back.
In all honestly, it would be hard to go dating a civi lady just for sex et cetera. Cause there are many things you cannot do with your girlfriend compare to an escort. Especially when you have kids with her et cetera.
Personally, I don't think it won't be hard for me to go back to normal life because I know what I want if I were to get back into a relationship.
So, it depends on what you want in life. A family? Freedom? Endless fun? It's really depends on you, Ray.
The hobby will fuck up your life! Take my advice and get out now, before it's too late!
(I'm typing this, knowing full well that the OP will ignore my advice and fuck up his life, anyway, LOL!)
(I'm typing this, knowing full well that the OP will ignore my advice and fuck up his life, anyway, LOL!)
Being in a relationship at least for me is a different world because the women will be different but this may not be the case with some guys out there who are more open. For me, there are some qualities in a civi woman that would make me want to be around her even after sex whereas with SPs, I don't really want to be around after the fun. Also as already said, there are things I might do with a SP that might freak out a civi woman. So different worlds and each has a time in life. But this also differs depending on where in the world you are. Here in the western world, if you are hobbying and in a relationship with a civi, there's a cheating aspect. In many parts of the world this type of thing is almost normal as the guys there have both since it's normal in their culture for a man. Kind of envy them for that!
You make love to your partner and you fuck escort's. Get it out of you system and have fun. The money will run out and you'll have to settle down sooner or later. Hobbying not sustainable for life. Now if you can find a angel of a lady that's a demon in bed, you won't even think about your past hobbying ways.
Take advantage of the opportunities available to you. Everyone wants the perfect relationship, but it rarely happens.
Take it to the grave. It's a bad idea to share your hobbying world with you future-girlfriend/wife.
It is similar to asking your gf/wife about her previous relationship. It is always bad idea to ask. What is in the past, stays in the past. Just move on forward.
To the OP, I wouldnt bother. I started hobbying when I was younger and it was fun, but one day the novelty is going to wear off and you'll look at yourself in the mirror and realize you're just a middle age (or older) loser who has to pay for sex. And this describes 95% of the users here. No matter how much they would like to think otherwise. My worst nightmare is becoming that one old guy that posts here. You know exactly who I'm talking about.
Take it to the grave. You see all this pro sex work support from civies all the time until it affects their personal life. People aren't as open minded at they think they are.
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I have a girlfriend now but it’s not the same. I love the intimacy but nothing beats the pros when it comes to the nasty nasty. 
trying to figure out a way to make passive income to supplement my splurges. You will ruin your finances.
trying to figure out a way to make passive income to supplement my splurges. You will ruin your finances.
That's the thing. I want fun but eventually want to settle down with a family but not sure how everything will turn out and stuff
Thing is I run a successful business so finance isn't that big of a problem. If it was, I wouldn't be here. That's also one of the downside, having too much on hand feel like I book anyone whenever I get hornyI have a girlfriend now but it’s not the same. I love the intimacy but nothing beats the pros when it comes to the nasty nasty.
trying to figure out a way to make passive income to supplement my splurges. You will ruin your finances.
Definitely taking it to the grave, if anyone even in my family finds out, I'm good as dead to them
Trouble is that once you’re in this world you know it’s always an option. Men crave variety no matter how hot or smart your girlfriend or wife is. Hard to stay faithful having that in the back of your mind.
Do it for the fantasy. Do it to learn how to fuck. Do it for the fact that these amazing girls are willing to provide you fantasy and learn how to fuck.
But do not do it for anything else. These girls do not really give a shit about you.
You are just dollars to them.
Does not mean these girl are not awesome. Fuck they are!!!
Yet it's not real. It's like a good meal at a restaurant. It was pricier then a home meal but really satisfying. Yet you can't eat at restaurant everyday.
But do not do it for anything else. These girls do not really give a shit about you.
You are just dollars to them.
Does not mean these girl are not awesome. Fuck they are!!!
Yet it's not real. It's like a good meal at a restaurant. It was pricier then a home meal but really satisfying. Yet you can't eat at restaurant everyday.
On the other hand, this little world did wonders for my confidence and its existence means I'll never get desperate. No more putting women, especially mediocre and entitled American women, on a pedestal.
Cheaters are cheaters. I don't think this little world has any extra pull on men. If a guy is going to cheat, he'll cheat, and if he's not the type to cheat, he won't. At most, prostitution makes cheating a little easier.
Haha you would be surprised how many civie women are actually secretly SPs. So the chances of you unknowingly dating one are pretty high!!! Have fun!
Not with me though since for the civi women I like, they have certain characteristics that SPs don't have including being extremely active in the same passions (non-sexual) as me. The demographics for me are completely different. I've never met a SP I would want to date although this is not being negative towards them. They just don't fit into my civi life.
