I thought BBW means Big Breasted Women like this:
She has big breasts but she is not fat. I like slim women with big breasts. I don't why BBW has to relate to fat women. Yes, fat women
may have big breasts, old women may have big breasts ... sadly some fat guys have big breasts also.
I don't agree with it but BBW has become (in some minds) a delicate way to say a woman is fat .... a short form of - 'Yes, she is fat
but she has Big Breasts' leading to 'she's a BBW'.
I'm not going to look up the link to fatphobia, it would be a lost effort on me. It is an opinion - you shouldn't have to make excuses for your sexual preferences. Women enjoy men who are young, rich and handsome. I don't fit any of these categories and it excludes me from the type of women I would prefer. I don't blame a conspiracy in society of warping these women's minds - I understand and I live with it. If you are sensitive about your weight you can do something about it - there is no similar option for me. Don't get me wrong, the positives in my life far outweigh the negatives. I am envious of young, rich handsome guys not upset at the women attracted to them.