Approaching 500 woman in 1 year

[oakvilleguy]

I am not an expert but I have never had a problem introducing myself to women. From my vantage point " ARE YOU DONE LOOKING AT YOURSELF ?" is about the dumbest, rude opening line I have ever heard. Maybe the females will chip in with a deeper insight but I think "hello" is highly underrated. Follow with a harmless question or comment that doesn't relate to sex. Start with a non-threatening dialog instead of a magic one liner that effectively points at your dick and asks if she wants it.

I hope I don't dissuade from setting a pace to meet women - just realize that there are a lot of women looking for boyfriends (not Don Juan).

Ever see a hot looking girl with the ugliest loser or badass biker dude?

I’ve heard that one approach is to make the ladies feel inferior and treat them like shit as opposed to putting them on a pedestal and their insecurities will have them eating out the palm of your hand sooner or later. Not that I’ve tried this.

Maybe that’s what the op is going for here.

 

[Ceiling Cat]

Women want many things, among these things are status, exclusivity and attention. Other then men that can provide for them they may be attracted to looks, power and notoriety. That is why famous criminals in prison get marriage proposals.

 

[basketcase]

I guess everyone needs a hobby (though journaling it seems extra to me). As long as you're good with being rejected.

 

[NotADcotor]

If you were approached by an attractive or even decent looking girl, how would you react.
Now how would you react if some chick who looked like Susan Boyle or Kathy Bates made moves on you.

Yeah, it applies the other way around also

If you are reasonably attractive you can get away with approaching women and generally speaking at best it will work, at worse she will get validation and move on with her day, once in a blue moon you are going to get a reaction.

If you are a soggoth, sure 500 approaches might get you laid, maybe once or twice, but you are also going to get a lot of bad reactions, you are going to creep a lot of girls out [many of whom will hide their revoltion as their skin crawls till you are out of sight, and if you do it on the job or at the gym or whatever, you will probably get banned.

The post above is disturbing, sure I get slapped a lot but I also get laid. So basically bother and annoy the fuck out of girls to the point where they resort of assault as long as you get your dick wet. I hope the females you are attached to get the same treatment. Because according to you, if you get your dick wet, nothing else matters at all apparently.

"I walk up to her she is checking herself out in the mirror and I said ARE YOU DONE LOOKING AT YOURSELF? Then I immediately say YOU AGGRIVATE ME BECAUSE YOUR MORE RIPPED THEN ME and TWO YOUR STRONGER THEN ME. She wanted to keep talking at the end I said THANKS FOR PISSING ME OFF. Walked away. Walked back up to her shoved my phone in her face and said LOOK YOURSELF UP."

I doubt any chick would actually want to talk to some rando who goes up to her and starts screaming weird ass shit at her.

How to tell people that you are socially retarded and or on the Autism spectrum without actually saying it. What the fuck is wrong with you.

 

[NotADcotor]

Ever see a hot looking girl with the ugliest loser or badass biker dude?

I’ve heard that one approach is to make the ladies feel inferior and treat them like shit as opposed to putting them on a pedestal and their insecurities will have them eating out the palm of your hand sooner or later. Not that I’ve tried this.

Maybe that’s what the op is going for here.

Sure that does work, with stupid women who have no self respect of which there are apparently many of them. Natch you have to keep up the act.
A woman who is attracted to negging and jerks and badboys is for the streets as they say.
There is a happy middle ground where you respect others and also yourself.

A lot of game comes across as really desperate and pathetic. Totally changing who you are, pretending to be some cunt just to get laid. Yeah, no. I have a hand and porn. Then you have the peacucking nerds, those who learn scripts but remember a woman can tell if you are desperate... whatevers brah.

 

[Jenesis]

Or she thought you were a jackass and made up an excuse. I'm going with the latter.

Me too.

Except it may lead to awkward situations at the gym for her if you see her again.

Yup because she is probably uncomfortable now. Women HATE men trying to pick them up at the gym. HATE it. The amount of threads(not here) that I read about a woman true feeling about guys in the gym is crazy.

Not to mention how he did it. I get he was trying to be funny but this idea that you insult a woman to try and pick her up is one of the worst ideas. She will look at you as a douche bag narcissist or it will work and the man you won’t want the woman who would respond to insults with “gimmie more”. You are looking for a world of trouble.

I get men say it is a game of numbers but this idea just grosses me out. And if the women you are trying to pick up, knew it too they would equally be grossed out.

 

[Jenesis]

Sure that does work, with stupid women who have no self respect of which there are apparently many of them. Natch you have to keep up the act.
A woman who is attracted to negging and jerks and badboys is for the streets as they say.
There is a happy middle ground where you respect others and also yourself.

A lot of game comes across as really desperate and pathetic. Totally changing who you are, pretending to be some cunt just to get laid. Yeah, no. I have a hand and porn. Then you have the peacucking nerds, those who learn scripts but remember a woman can tell if you are desperate... whatevers brah.

This is why it is so gross. It reeks of desperation. Not confidence or anything like that. Just desperate.

 

[squeezer]

If you were approached by an attractive or even decent looking girl, how would you react.
Now how would you react if some chick who looked like Susan Boyle or Kathy Bates made moves on you.

Yeah, it applies the other way around also

If you are reasonably attractive you can get away with approaching women and generally speaking at best it will work, at worse she will get validation and move on with her day, once in a blue moon you are going to get a reaction.

This is so true! I get upset in the gym because the Susan Boyle's are always trying to chat me up and the young hotties look the other way GOD DAMMIT FUCKKKKKK!!!!!!!

Thank God, I could afford to pay!!!!

 

[xix]

This is so true! I get upset in the gym because the Susan Boyle's are always trying to chat me up and the young hotties look the other way GOD DAMMIT FUCKKKKKK!!!!!!!

Thank God, I could afford to pay!!!!

You should go out with the Big lady. It will make the hot one jealous or curious.
I would say to the big lady " if you don't mind we can go out for $mall dinner and pay our own, but you must understand that it is not a date for romance".
Let us know .

 

[jsanchez]

...
I get men say it is a game of numbers but this idea just grosses me out. And if the women you are trying to pick up, knew it too they would equally be grossed out.

For that "game of numbers" to work, you have to bat in your own league, and the girls have to signal
and make themselves "approachable" in the first place. Only a PUA bullshit artist will tell you otherwise.

A guy I know (around the same age as OP) tries a cold approach with a cutie much younger than him,
it was a friendly approach, no stupid in your face phone shove, but her bro wasn't far behind,
next thing you know he was eyeball to eyeball with her brother and had to walk away with his tail between his legs.
That's the game of numbers OP's playing.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Used to be more acceptable to approach strangers. I think society has changed. Everything you see on Youtube on the subject of women is telling you not to chase them. Let them come to you. Which is the opposite of how guys were supposed to act when I was young. I was in the grocery store last week and a quite attractive milf in spandex asked me directions to some other department in the store. I politely told her and she was beaming. I kind of thought she made the approach because she liked the look of me more than she was lost. I got the idea she just wanted to say hello and she was pleased with herself for being so forward.
And that's all folks.

 

[NotADcotor]

This is so true! I get upset in the gym because the Susan Boyle's are always trying to chat me up and the young hotties look the other way GOD DAMMIT FUCKKKKKK!!!!!!!

Thank God, I could afford to pay!!!!

Once an older [and I'm old] Susan Boyle/Bates type went on about my bald head and then made it ultra creepy.

You would think being the first time anyone remotely female approached me out of the blue would be affirming but alas, shudder... no.

 

[S416905]

I have always wanted to keep a journal like this my plan is to approach 500 woman in 1 years time. Rules will need to be in place I need to at least ask if they are single or attempt to get a number or social media info. You never know who has a boyfriend or husband now wont a few months from approach.

A little about myself. I am an average looking guy/ introvert/ with a good personality. I stay in great shape and hit 40 this July yes I am a Cancer. I have had fun times with some 10's in my day. The thing is the sex with no emotion is getting old. I can have it tonight but I just dont want it. Tinder and Bumble are a joke. I want to see what I want in the field and go after it.

Always in life my goal has been to help others so hopefully someone who reads this will gain steam and approach.

1. First approach was last night in the gym. I usually never shit where I eat but I said f it. I walk up to her she is checking herself out in the mirror and I said ARE YOU DONE LOOKING AT YOURSELF? Then I immediately say YOU AGGRIVATE ME BECAUSE YOUR MORE RIPPED THEN ME and TWO YOUR STRONGER THEN ME. She wanted to keep talking at the end I said THANKS FOR PISSING ME OFF. Walked away. Walked back up to her shoved my phone in her face and said LOOK YOURSELF UP. She was a solid 8 very sexy but had a boyfriend.

I think you’ve been watching too man Andrew Tate videos

 

[JohnHenry]

I find grocery stores is where women tend to have their guard down.

Plus you can learn a lot about their lifestyle from what's in their cart.

 

[Ryan4life]

Me too.

Yup because she is probably uncomfortable now. Women HATE men trying to pick them up at the gym. HATE it. The amount of threads(not here) that I read about a woman true feeling about guys in the gym is crazy.

I remember watching this tiktok(wish I could still find it) of this guy in his car that just finished at the gym and was talking about how was about to go talk to his gym crush but got shy about it. This dude looked like a complete doppelganger for Henry Cavil (ie tall with chiseled muscles ), there was literally hundreds of women in his comments saying he should go up and talk to her and how they wished there gym crush would go up and approach them.

 

[VIPhunter]

So I have a question.

Nobody is entitled to 'sex'?

Is having sex, not like clean water or a safe place to live?

Is it not even more like 'health care'? Most Canadians are convinced that every citizen is 'entitled' to health care, provided by professionals at no cost to them.....but paid by taxes of everybody else.

I'm not sure why we've made sex difficult to attain. It seems if we all relaxed a bit, maybe we'd all be happier and satisfied.

 

[anonemouse]

So I have a question.

Nobody is entitled to 'sex'?

Is having sex, not like clean water or a safe place to live?

Correct, you're not "entitled" to sex. Sex is not some sort of "right", and the only people I've seen that think that way are incels who crawl out from under their rock to shove their cell phone in the face of random women at the gym, apparently.

 

[Goodoer]

I got hit on in a LCBO parking spot. The lady was late 30s and we had the same car. She was cute and in shape. The banter was great. What a high!

I elegantly alluded that I was married which allowed for a smooth exit to the conversation. I did my best to indicate that I was appreciative of her effort an overture without looking for a date.

Man, did I feel good.

 

[Steinlow]

She probably didn’t want to get stalked thinking you’re a bit special in the bead, and/or felt bad because you’re disabled... it’s ok champ. You’re in a democracy.

 

[Jenesis]

So I have a question.

Nobody is entitled to 'sex'?

Is having sex, not like clean water or a safe place to live?

Is it not even more like 'health care'? Most Canadians are convinced that every citizen is 'entitled' to health care, provided by professionals at no cost to them.....but paid by taxes of everybody else.

I'm not sure why we've made sex difficult to attain. It seems if we all relaxed a bit, maybe we'd all be happier and satisfied.

“Entitled” to sex.

You think you have some legal right to sex? Sorry was it written in the Charter of Rights? LOL.

No. You are not entitled to sex. No women are not obligated to give you sex. Just no.

What are you? And incel?