Got into a fight with a woman today.

[redvixen]

Money is not issue. What would you like me to pay for?

if its not an issue... then we don't have to talk shop... 1 hr interview... how much is that worth to you?

double that & I'll consider it : )

 

[Josephine Grey]

Babe I understand that you were hurt and for whatever reason your relationship with the Sp ended I understand your comment now however the way some of the guys on here talk about escorts is more what I was disappointed in reading, I hope you find someone new and I am glad you are not an ecort bashing, mind game playing psychopath. I am going to stay out 8f the lounge and concentrate on the guys who I enjoy seeing. It really was not my business but the comments I quoted in my post were mind opening to me that this board has some very misinformed attitudes about sexworkers and women period.. I don't have time for gaslighters . You may not be one but clearly I can see the ignorance if some fools on here.

Why are you quoting me?

 

[Jenesis]

Why are you quoting me?

I think it was an accident since there was two posts quoted. Maybe. Maybe not but that was my impression

 

[Beagle_]

if its not an issue... then we don't have to talk shop... 1 hr interview... how much is that worth to you?

double that & I'll consider it : )

Ma’am, I have experience many relationships and still enjoying life. I have no need to interview you and i did not inquire lol.

 

[foxxxy lady]

I think it was an accident since there was two posts quoted. Maybe. Maybe not but that was my impression

Truth thank you

 

[redvixen]

Ma’am, I have experience many relationships and still enjoying life. I have no need to interview you and i did not inquire lol.

I appreciate your reserve & thank you for not even asking my name.

i would not ask working class.. to exceed their means to justify any ends.

& I am grateful that you do : )

 

[Beagle_]

I feel like I am at strip club lol.

 

[Beagle_]

& I am grateful that you do : )

Can you please clarify?

 

[redvixen]

Can you please clarify?

not taking interviews @ this time... you can try asking siri to "rephraise" for you : )

 

[Beagle_]

not taking interviews @ this time... you can try asking siri to "rephraise" for you : )

I believe you have a misunderstanding on many levels, also when I mentioned I have experience with many relationships.

I know you can’t calculate my numbers, I can calculate yours though with addition to your behaviour. You have a long way to go still, you‘ll be on a good path when your able to start a new business adventure that is successful.

Sincerely, all the best to you.

 

[tonnyandreti]

Lost. One of my 3 regulars. I got a little sanctimonious and reproachful with her. Along the lines of complaining about her tardiness responding to my texts and the general "law of diminishing returns," service wise. Just thought I was exercising my right to clear the air. Boy was I wrong. Now I am down to 2. Some of life's lessons never change. Keep your friggin mouth shut. You might think you are entitled to voice your opinion. You aren't. As she admonished me I once again started to feel like a total cunt. Left with my tail between my legs. Rarely won an argument with anyone. Never won an argument with a woman.

Are we talking about our Wives?

 

[rhuarc29]

I always win arguments with providers. Why? Because I let my actions speak rather than my words. If she's tardy with me, or giving lesser service, I stop seeing her. Full stop.
This isn't a romantic relationship where you should be communicating your frustrations in the hopes of an amicable resolution. You can, but I'm not surprised at the result.
I understand wanting to keep a regular and returning to the days when she actually didn't half-ass it with you, but instead of that, you still lost her, and now you feel like a dick, even though she was the one giving you lackluster service.

 

[barnacler]

I agree, although I have found that if I MUST say something, to someone who I think has merely had a bit of a bad day and let things slip a bit hopefully temporarily, by way of complaint, I will wait awhile, then email or text something like,

"Hey, I'd like to see you again sometime, but I am not a big fan of what happened last time when (this happened). That's not something i can put up with. Let me know one way or the other your thoughts. I'm good either way. I just like to be clear on these things. Cheers."

 

[Jenesis]

I always win arguments with providers. Why? Because I let my actions speak rather than my words. If she's tardy with me, or giving lesser service, I stop seeing her. Full stop.

That is kind of a false sense of “winning” (since to win, she would need to feel the loss and trust me - she won’t. She won’t care at all. There is another 10 of you waiting down the line) but I agree with the concept. If you are not getting what you want in a paid transactional relationship, finding a new provider is probably the best.

 

[John Wick]

I always win arguments with providers. Why? Because I let my actions speak rather than my words. If she's tardy with me, or giving lesser service, I stop seeing her. Full stop.
This isn't a romantic relationship where you should be communicating your frustrations in the hopes of an amicable resolution. You can, but I'm not surprised at the result.
I understand wanting to keep a regular and returning to the days when she actually didn't half-ass it with you, but instead of that, you still lost her, and now you feel like a dick, even though she was the one giving you lackluster service.

Totally agree. From a 'winning the argument' perspective, you've got it 100% correct. Winning means you ensure that you as the Customer get maximum value for your money, or you simply don't make the spend.

 

[Daddy2021]

I have done that in the past and she forgets. I would have thought 6.30 am gives ample notice for a 9.30 appointment. Worked for the two other guys she booked ahead of me. Anyway that wasn't really the whole problem. The religious shit, no offense, was getting out of control.

Maybe she was tired of seeing you and found a couple other guys she preferred to see over you. That’s the beauty of the hobby. Other than you getting the service you pay for and you making sure you pay the required amount , neither if you owes the other an explaination about anything outside of that. Even a text back within 2 hours. She doesn’t OWE you the appointment. You may have spent money but she provided services so she no longer owes you a damn thing.

 

[rhuarc29]

That is kind of a false sense of “winning” (since to win, she would need to feel the loss and trust me - she won’t. She won’t care at all. There is another 10 of you waiting down the line) but I agree with the concept. If you are not getting what you want in a paid transactional relationship, finding a new provider is probably the best.

Yeah, the "winning" is in not seeing it as an argument that can or should be won. I mean, if you want her to feel the loss, then you've already lost because why would you get satisfaction from that at all? Tells me the guy is too invested. Should just be thinking that it was good while it lasted, but I'm out!

 

[johnd5050]

And all this discussion and drama over an SP.
The poster should find a replacement and move on.
He is whining like he lost a wife or a girlfriend.

 

[Jenesis]

Yeah, the "winning" is in not seeing it as an argument that can or should be won. I mean, if you want her to feel the loss, then you've already lost because why would you get satisfaction from that at all? Tells me the guy is too invested. Should just be thinking that it was good while it lasted, but I'm out!

I get you.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

And all this discussion and drama over an SP.
The poster should find a replacement and move on.
He is whining like he lost a wife or a girlfriend.

I get hooked. That's why they call them hookers.