SPs, What % of clients are under 30
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Some people are too lazy to look for free. I was curious who else on this board matched my record, that's why I asked. Maybe I'll start a poll to see.
I think this is were multiple conversations started lol
Yes, you‘re goal wasn’t how to get free sex. Yeah that‘s simple, just look at the numbers.
I've met a lot of women off there and had sex with them throughout my 20s, it's not that hard, but obviously there are things that will impact your success at it. Back in Vancouver I actually matched with an SP I had visited once, which was pretty funny because I couldn't remeber her clearly at first and she had to tell me her 'name', and not her actual name until I figured it out.
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There is no such thing as free fun/sex even outside of the adult industry. If a guy puts gas in his car to drive to his booty call he just paid for sex. If he takes her out to dinner and pays the bill and they fuck later, then he just paid for sex. If he buys her any gifts and somewhere down the road she’s warmed up to him enough to have sex because of his thoughtful and generous gestures over time then he just paid for sex. If a guy marries a woman and now she owns half of everything then guess what? LolCovid has caused an uptick for sure. Being isolated for so long without human contact is detrimental to everyone regardless of age. And I’m amazed anyone who’s been in any kind of relationship casual or otherwise would honestly believe there is such a thing as “free fun”
You don’t have to put money directly in a womans hand to pay for sex/fun lol that’s just the way of the world. Seeing an escort allows a man to cut to the chase and get exactly what he wants up front without all the extra frills and hurdles and courting it usually takes to see a non-escort.
if you want to be technical about it, You are correct but we obviously know what he mean’t by “free sex” which translates to non transactional sex.
There’s a big difference between sex by genuine desire and transactional sex and that’s the distinction he’s talking about.
In the past I’ve had sex with guys that at first I didn’t find physically attractive until they opened their mouth and had a conversation which quickly changed my mind about my attraction to them. They gave me a chance and the time to DEVELOP a genuine desire. Many guys are impatient and want it NOW and so their advances get rejected. If he took his time to get her warmed up to him then often times he can score because nothing worth having comes easy.
What I’m trying to say here is it’s only difficult if you make it difficult. If hes Talked to 100 women and all 100 women do not genuinely desire him at all then you have to look at the common denominator and wonder why that is.
I've seen women I didn't wanna have sex with but they opened their mouth, and I'm like I like that voice, I'll give her a chance so we had sex.
This is why men become players. They don't have enough time in life to have one woman 'warm up' or 'develop' desire for them. So they have a dozen or more females on the go... putting in a little time for each so that every now and then one comes around with 'desire'. This creates a steady flow of what he wanted in the first place - sex. When 11 females are not having it, 1 is, keeping them in rotation.
The difference between genders.
Men require sex and don't need to warm up to it.
Well if a man feels like he has to become a player then he’s thinking more about his own pleasure than any woman’s. So yes you’re absolutely right we are not the same lol Let’s face it, most women are not as easy to get into bed as men are.
Why? Because we like a challenge and sadly not enough men are able to make it challenging enough for us when they are constantly throwing their dick at us lol. If a man is too lazy to take the time to seduce us then he’s probably lazy in bed too. We like guys that put in WORK! That’s attractive to us because it makes us feel like he will put in that work once he’s inside us. Many of us like to be mentally and emotionally stimulated first before we can get wet. Men are not wired like that. Women are emotional creatures. Men are physical creatures. We are different as we should be.
However, there are 2 quick ways to get a girl into bed faster.
1.You have to be really fucking funny. Any guy that can make a girl laugh her ass off is going to win and get her panties around her ankles in no time.
2. Use reverse psychology. Do not show any sexual interest. I know, weird right? If she doesn’t have the slightest clue that you’re sexually interested then 9x out of 10 she will automatically think you’re not like most men and start wondering why. You will be constantly flooding her thoughts because now she’s trying to figure you out. The more we think about you the more we want you. Often times we want what we think we can’t have and we are more likely to want to fuck a guy that can show us that we are more than just a piece of ass.
Bonus if you can pull off both 1 and 2 together then you’ll probably have her squirting by the end of the night.
Why? Because we like a challenge and sadly not enough men are able to make it challenging enough for us when they are constantly throwing their dick at us lol. If a man is too lazy to take the time to seduce us then he’s probably lazy in bed too. We like guys that put in WORK! That’s attractive to us because it makes us feel like he will put in that work once he’s inside us. Many of us like to be mentally and emotionally stimulated first before we can get wet. Men are not wired like that. Women are emotional creatures. Men are physical creatures. We are different as we should be.
However, there are 2 quick ways to get a girl into bed faster.
1.You have to be really fucking funny. Any guy that can make a girl laugh her ass off is going to win and get her panties around her ankles in no time.
2. Use reverse psychology. Do not show any sexual interest. I know, weird right? If she doesn’t have the slightest clue that you’re sexually interested then 9x out of 10 she will automatically think you’re not like most men and start wondering why. You will be constantly flooding her thoughts because now she’s trying to figure you out. The more we think about you the more we want you. Often times we want what we think we can’t have and we are more likely to want to fuck a guy that can show us that we are more than just a piece of ass.
Bonus if you can pull off both 1 and 2 together then you’ll probably have her squirting by the end of the night.
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I understand this, so I‘ll speak for the majority.
You might notice that girls are coming around to you now. See if you revert back to what Melissa mentioned, the turn off is the now approach.
Fortunately, I experience girls starting the initiative. It might be because I was just doing own my thing, I usually just like to have fun, of course other variables contribute.
See people do things because it makes them feel good.
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@springbloom I’m wondering your reason to look at the numbers, are you insecure of your behaviour?
I don’t think you should, sounds like your present goal is only sex. Just to be clear, I am not advising you to be loud about it, obviously you probably like to keep that under a low profile lol.
I don’t think you should, sounds like your present goal is only sex. Just to be clear, I am not advising you to be loud about it, obviously you probably like to keep that under a low profile lol.
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All very true.
Granted, under the right circumstances (such as a nightclub), being a physically attractive man is virtually all that is required for a quick one night stand. Hot girl summers.
True. A tipsy/drunk girl is a lot easier to get into bed. Being physically attractive helps a lot too. Though not everyone is blessed with model good looks which is where personality comes in. Actually personally is important regardless of looks but generally speaking yes I agree it can help.
I am 42 and will be 43 this year. I get way more attention from ladies in their 20's now that I am in my early 40's and look like Iam in my early 30's!! Its absolutely fantastic!
on a side note - When i was in my 20's I really wish I had the chance to read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi!
20% of men are having sex with 80% of the women.
An average woman can get sex anytime she wants but an average man cannot.
