Are Single Moms Worth Your Time?

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If you allow a woman to make the rules she will resent you with a seething contempt even a rapist cannot inspire.
Wow. Just wow.

Pretty sure a woman will resent the man that rapes her more.

I get trying to be a word smith but maybe try a different approach next time.

Not you personally but the wannabe writer.
 
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Date casually yes. But always remember you come second. Forever. Be the fun one but if the talk turns to relationship, unless you want a kid, and to play second banana, as well as deal with the Ex drama, walk away.

Also there can be legal issues and financial obligations imposed on you if you move in or start paying for shit.
Completely untrue, everything will be just fucking fantastic.

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Completely different calculation that women do. They know that 80% of men don't have sole custody. So women aren't worried about competing for the guy's attention [over his kids]. They aren't worried about financial responsibilities for his kids. The calculation that these women are thinking is, "how much money does he have left for me and how much of it do it get to influence."

If the guy is up to his eyeballs in alimony and child support, he will be as attractive as a high school dropout on CERB. A guy needs to bring money and resources to the table. She just needs to be slim with big tits.
I'm a highschool dropout and am in the 95% group, oh and I prefer slim with tiny tits.

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There is a phenomenon, particularly in large metropolitan cities, where women who earn more money and have acquired advanced education believe they deserve a higher value man because of it. Many 35-40+ women fall in this camp. Their education and earnings go up with age (these women have masters, law degrees, probably earning at or near the 95th percentile+), while their fertility and beauty deteriorates. For men, the upper echelons (lets say the 1% top earners) have their pick of women, and they generally want younger women, as they don't care about the women's earnings. So it's difficult for these women to find suitable partners where they can feel that they are marrying "up". It's a big thing in the black community in the US, where black women are becoming highly educated and high earners, but only 1 in 4 black women will marry in their lifetimes. I suspect that whites and other races are starting to follow this trend. One thing I have learned is that if you are ever dating a woman and she feels she could do better than you, the relationship is doomed.
Yupp.. that has led to more living alone more than ever, and huge demand for frozen eggs because they want to preserve their special eggs for the 'High' value male. Because in their mind, at 33, the men they know are still boys and they're going to be patient because they know they deserve 'better'.

Little do they realize, even if you don't have mind right by 32, the probability of meeting the right person goes 'down' bigly, and having a child naturally goes down with it even more.

In the mean time, every year, a whole new crop of younger women enter the field. By the time a women really sees and feels it, she's in her late 30s usually. Well, a really successful guy at around that age, is going to go for low 30s. But they'll have their pickins really because as noted, that same low 30s woman is extremely discriminatory against the last of the regular suitable mates in her age range as she wants that older super successful type guy. So 1 out of some big number his the jackpot. Then a bunch of women in that low 30s hold out because that 1 person they know did it, why can't they.

And as a guy just over 40, I can say, not matter what, just from raw nature, a women once she hits that late 30s, somehow, that natural appeal for goes down. And yes, men are physical and there is this 'deflated' feel, even to girls a guy thought was hot and wanted to get with even up until mid/early 30s. I'm sure inherently, men can feel the lowered quality of eggs in a women near 40 and just generally, fundamentally less attracted, especially against an early 30s woman.
 

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Has anyone here been in a serious relationship (ie common law, marriage, etc) with a single mother? What was your experience?
Exclusively dated a hot af EE single mother. She was a work of art, God’s art. 5’10” with hourglass figure and fit. Sex was great. We had similar interests. I just found her discussions about her kid and custody challenges with the ex-husband nauseating.

Her ex-husband was an asshat. It appeared as if he enjoyed toying with her. (Some guys just can’t let go and move on.) Even though she had full custody, he enjoyed torturing her with legal drama. It was a sport for him. After a while her hotness couldn’t compensate for the drama. I actually preferred it when I couldn’t hear her voice. Because a relationship isn’t supposed to make your life worse, I broke up with her.

Thus, another problem with single mothers is the baby-dad. Remember, the relationship ended for a reason. In the best case, either she was a bitch or he was an asshat. But no matter how you slice it, you will still be dealing with a problem. In other words, even if she is an angel, you will still have to deal with the fall-out of her asshat ex.

Bottomline: single mothers aren’t worth your time, unless you are a glutton for punishment.
 
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Has anyone here been in a serious relationship (ie common law, marriage, etc) with a single mother? What was your experience?
Yes on two occasions.
First was a disaster, she had gone through a lot of men and gotten pregnant by two. First pregnancy she terminated the second she gave birth, got married to the dude had a big production ceremony and broke up with the guy on her honeymoon. Not making that up. So WTF was I thinking? Well clearly I was not, my dick was thinking for me. Stupid. Stupid. Then I got her pregnant, which effectively ended all my fun. No regrets on the offspring but the hell started soon and once it ended it was a nightmare in court proceedings, completely in her favour.
Second single mother had an older child who lived away and it was better, she loved the cock and sex was pretty good. But she wanted financial security and made long-term demands so I ended it. Funny that during Covid she contacted me just to be her fuck buddy, clearly I had something she wanted. I turned her down.
 

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Has anyone here been in a serious relationship (ie common law, marriage, etc) with a single mother? What was your experience?
Sorry. I hit like when I meant to hit reply. Heard it or read it somewhere, but single mothers have an agenda. Quite understandably. I thought the movie with Hugh Grant summed up a situation I got myself into once, very well. ( movie.... "About a boy")
Couldn't find the clip but the movie shows him bored as shit at her place when he really just wants to go home to his place, because he has all kinds of interesting shit and fun distractions at his place, while her place sucks.
Had a single mom with two kids who wouldn't let me leave Saturday mornings. I said I had to go home. Take a shower and get changed and do my own shit. She said, " you could sit by yourself here for an hour or so and sit in the sun room by yourself and strum the guitar"
Shoot me now.
So no. They are not worth your time. Trouble is when you become fond of the kids and worry about them.
 
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Wow. Just wow.

Pretty sure a woman will resent the man that rapes her more.

I get trying to be a word smith but maybe try a different approach next time.

Not you personally but the wannabe writer.
It works. If you have the balls big enough to walk away from her bullshit and Not call the next day. She can stew and be mad but honestly, women’s emotions are an inch deep and a mile wide. It will
pass, always does.
 

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Single moms for the most part are nice to play with., but just for a short time. If you get hooked, it is you who will get fucked . Her kid(s), her ex, her family, there might be a very good reason why she is “single mom” and if you persist, her problems will become your problems. The story can have a happy ending, but rarely.
 

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It works. If you have the balls big enough to walk away from her bullshit and Not call the next day. She can stew and be mad but honestly, women’s emotions are an inch deep and a mile wide. It will
pass, always does.
"It will pass, always does"
In what world do you think that happens? Okay maybe 30 % but for the rest It never does unless you can prove that she is at fault or the problem as a person. I know 66-80 yr old women (1-10) who are still pissed at their first crush, boyfriend, date, devirginized, husband, and baby supplier - the guy who got her pregnant. She will only forget the other after the ex-husband.
BTW I go to 12 steps programs and I hear the same excuse from recently divorce people, men the majority try to let it go, but women have not idea how, and most don't want to, they like the drama.
 

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I'm not sure why this thread is 10 pages long.
The very, very simple answer is: NO!
 
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Wow. Just wow.

Pretty sure a woman will resent the man that rapes her more.

I get trying to be a word smith but maybe try a different approach next time.

Not you personally but the wannabe writer.
The "rules" quoted seem to be more about mysogony than about pooning. As for knowing what a woman thinks, good luck with that :LOL: ...
 

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It works. If you have the balls big enough to walk away from her bullshit and Not call the next day. She can stew and be mad but honestly, women’s emotions are an inch deep and a mile wide. It will
pass, always does.
Don’t know what that has to do with Mr word smiths comments or mine but ok.
 
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