Found out that a retired SP is a lesbian

[Smallcock]

Recently came across the social media profile of a retired SP (her real life profile) where she states clearly that she's a proud lesbian and displays many of the stereotypical accoutrements. It's a fascinating discovery since she spent years giving the best blowjobs to myself and many others. She knew how to please a cock better than every straight female (civie and SP) I've ever known.

Not sure what the takeaway is but if you think that lesbians are off limits to you, that's just not always true. You might have been sucked off or fucked by one for years. But I'm pretty sure she's bisexual because I recall her having a BF and an outright lesbian would be disgusted by cock, right? It's a wonderful world.

 

[JackBurton]

After any long career as a SP, servicing cock all day, I’m surprised more aren’t.

 

[GameBoy27]

Recently came across the social media profile of a retired SP (her real life profile) where she states clearly that she's a proud lesbian and displays many of the stereotypical accoutrements. It's a fascinating discovery since she spent years giving the best blowjobs to myself and many others. She knew how to please a cock better than every straight female (civie and SP) I've ever known.

Not sure what the takeaway is but if you think that lesbians are off limits to you, that's just not always true. You might have been sucked off or fucked by one for years. But I'm pretty sure she's bisexual because I recall her having a BF and an outright lesbian would be disgusted by cock, right? It's a wonderful world.

It's actually not that surprising. She's been with both men and woman and I assume enjoyed the sex with both. Now that she's older and presumably found a compatible partner, she's declared herself a lesbian. I don't know if it's just me, but the majority of the women I've dated have had at least one same-sex encounter.

I also know several men and women who were married and have kids, who are now in same-sex relationships later in life.

I dated one bi girl who was a lot of fun. She used to pick up women at bars and bring them over to my place for threesomes. She hooked up with a woman and moved to the US about 20 years ago. We still keep in touch and she told me I was the last guy she had sex with.

 

[taratender]

Many SPs are queer in their personal lives! Including me. It makes sense--we're often very sexual people with a broad interest in sex and sexuality. The thing for me is that I'm attracted to men and masculine people, but my heart doesn't usually do well with men. Patriarchy and the way our culture is with gender roles has I found made its way into my relationships with men in a way that is often shitty for me. Escorting is perfect for this--I get to enjoy sexual relationships with men, but we don't have to end up in arguments about who is doing the laundry or why he can't cry!

 

[Cardinal Fang]

Not sure what the takeaway is but if you think that lesbians are off limits to you, that's just not always true. You might have been sucked off or fucked by one for years. But I'm pretty sure she's bisexual because I recall her having a BF and an outright lesbian would be disgusted by cock, right? It's a wonderful world.

Ah yes the memories this brings back for me.

When I was first arrived on TERB many moons ago there was a very well known escort that was quite popular on this board with her posts. She was charming, smart and incredibly sure of herself sexually. Many of the guys on here and including myself spent some wonderful "moments" with her and all had the same opinion of her and her services. After she retired I managed to bump into her accidentally at a social function and she recognized me immediately. My sexual exploits with her obviously left an indelible mark on her.

After some awkward chit chat she introduced me to her "long time partner" who was also a female. After my shock wore off she let me know that she was in fact and always had been a lesbian and her seeing "clients" as a SW never affected her relationship with her partner. We had a good laugh and joked about whether or not she should have said anything to the guys she was with. She always thought if she did reveal it that some guys would have gotten weird about it and took it as a challenge to try and "change her." When her partner asked her how we knew each other she didn't hesitate to introduce me as a past "client" and the reason why she prefers to sleep only with women. Oh yeah and she had a wicked sense of humor to boot.

 

[Cardinal Fang]

Escorting is perfect for this--I get to enjoy sexual relationships with men, but we don't have to end up in arguments about who is doing the laundry or why he can't cry!

We're allowed to cry? SINCE WHEN?

Why wasn't I told!

 

[wonkyknee]

why can't we here who the SP is? its not like it was her real name?

 

[GameBoy27]

Many SPs are queer in their personal lives! Including me. It makes sense--we're often very sexual people with a broad interest in sex and sexuality. The thing for me is that I'm attracted to men and masculine people, but my heart doesn't usually do well with men. Patriarchy and the way our culture is with gender roles has I found made its way into my relationships with men in a way that is often shitty for me. Escorting is perfect for this--I get to enjoy sexual relationships with men, but we don't have to end up in arguments about who is doing the laundry or why he can't cry!

There's also the fact that if you're in the sex trade to make money, you aren't going to make much licking pussy.

 

[Phil C. McNasty]

We're allowed to cry? SINCE WHEN?

Why wasn't I told!

Everyone is allowed to cry, except for Goober

 

[Desire Evaline]

There's also the fact that if you're in the sex trade to make money, you aren't going to make much licking pussy.

I certainly do... I have a lot of Duo partners!

Teasing aside:

A lot of providers have a broader outlook on whom they would have a relationship with. Some are able to maintain a relationship while in this industry, and others like myself are unable to do so.

My last long term thing which was "monogamish" with a female crushed me... She literally threw me under the bus after 5 years or so.
My last mid-length with a male was a farce... The long term one was an even bigger farce. Both demanded monogamy, and even though it chafed at my soul I did it... They did not.

Kudos to anyone who figures out how to have their cake and eat it too... Even if it's a peach pie they are eating.

P.S. Protocol on finding providers PERSONAL social media and information is to move on, and forget anything you saw. Especially if they are retired.

 

[GameBoy27]

I certainly do... I have a lot of Duo partners!

When you say "duo partners" I assume there is a male footing the bill. I'm just saying you're not going to make a lot of money servicing female only clients. Which is why lesbian SPs will service men to pay the bills.

 

[Smallcock]

why can't we here who the SP is? its not like it was her real name?

She went by "Becky Goldmine" for years and was legendary at her oral skills.

Many SPs are queer in their personal lives! Including me. It makes sense--we're often very sexual people with a broad interest in sex and sexuality.

I had no idea, thanks for the insight. Before you chimed in, my working theory was that she developed an aversion to cock after servicing so many cocks and over time we genetically altered her sexual orientation.

 

[GameBoy27]

She went by "Becky Goldmine" for years and was legendary at her oral skills.

I had no idea, thanks for the insight. Before you chimed in, my working theory was that she developed an aversion to cock after servicing so many cocks and over time we genetically altered her sexual orientation.

What??? You actually believe that can happen? LOL

That's like saying you (as a straight male) have banged so many chicks and licked so much pussy that you're tired of it. Now you only like sucking cock and taking it up the ass.

 

[harwell1690]

Recently came across the social media profile of a retired SP (her real life profile) where she states clearly that she's a proud lesbian and displays many of the stereotypical accoutrements. It's a fascinating discovery since she spent years giving the best blowjobs to myself and many others. She knew how to please a cock better than every straight female (civie and SP) I've ever known.

Not sure what the takeaway is but if you think that lesbians are off limits to you, that's just not always true. You might have been sucked off or fucked by one for years. But I'm pretty sure she's bisexual because I recall her having a BF and an outright lesbian would be disgusted by cock, right? It's a wonderful world.

It's a wonderful world!!! Let the good times roll.

A couple of further comments.

I have been "servicing" (as a guy with a hand) my cock for a long time. I like it more and more. I appreciate its handsomeness more these days. And how it looks kinda funny in other states.
I feel much the same way about pussy...or all the different varieties that a pussy can come in. I do NOT like every pussy. But, if I like the woman AND I like her pussy....I'll just say: I LOVE it.

"When I fall in love, it will be forever...."

Falling in love can do something to you. What you find wonderful and beautiful can change. It has for me. A lot sub-conscious.
So, a possibility: She was bi. (Which I kinda think everyone is deep down. The body wants to have lots of sexual pleasure with anyone or anything. And then there is other stuff.... society, love, personhood, etc.)
OK, she was bi. And then she fell in love. It happened to be a woman, that day. She wants to be in love with just one person. This woman. So, she declares "I am a lesbian".
For practical purposes, she is.
Does it mean she hates all men? No.
Does it mean she thinks or thought every penis was disgusting? No.
Does it mean she will only ever have sex with women the rest of her life? Who knows, but I'd guess not.
But she might marry the woman and stay married too.
And she might "cheat" only with men, because in her head, that's not really cheating.

I made all that up. But some of you know, it might fit this real situation.

And that's how some people can be. Kinda understandable, when you think about it.

 

[jackal2006]

Thinking out loud if someone is gay it must be tough for some of them to be intimate with the opposite sex. For example, I wouldn't feel comfortable being intimate with another man.

 

[harwell1690]

Hi Jackal. Maybe.
But maybe not.
Example: In general, for many men, there is a strong inhibition to be intimate with a man. But I think many women do not feel the same way. For many women, a woman could kiss, caress, get naked with another woman, enjoy some sexual pleasure....and not feel she is gay. Or even really bi-sexual. A lot is in what you think and how you feel about it, not in the action (touching skin to skin) itself.

I think for some women, it's who do you want to fall in love with, who do you want as a "real" partner. If it's a man, you're still straight (but you like to play on the other side some).

I do feel, that for some women who are gay, showing their body to a man is easy. Letting a man use their body is easy. Using a man's body like a dildo is easy. But, really feeling or imagining the pleasure for a man is not so easy.
Or, that's my guess this moment for a certain group.

People can be quite different.
...

 

[Smallcock]

What??? You actually believe that can happen? LOL

That's like saying you (as a straight male) have banged so many chicks and licked so much pussy that you're tired of it. Now you only like sucking cock and taking it up the ass.

I don't know, it seemed the most plausible explanation at the time.

 

[Terminator2000]

Ah yes the memories this brings back for me.

When I was first arrived on TERB many moons ago there was a very well known escort that was quite popular on this board with her posts. She was charming, smart and incredibly sure of herself sexually. Many of the guys on here and including myself spent some wonderful "moments" with her and all had the same opinion of her and her services. After she retired I managed to bump into her accidentally at a social function and she recognized me immediately. My sexual exploits with her obviously left an indelible mark on her.

After some awkward chit chat she introduced me to her "long time partner" who was also a female. After my shock wore off she let me know that she was in fact and always had been a lesbian and her seeing "clients" as a SW never affected her relationship with her partner. We had a good laugh and joked about whether or not she should have said anything to the guys she was with. She always thought if she did reveal it that some guys would have gotten weird about it and took it as a challenge to try and "change her." When her partner asked her how we knew each other she didn't hesitate to introduce me as a past "client" and the reason why she prefers to sleep only with women. Oh yeah and she had a wicked sense of humor to boot.

did it occur to you that she joined the industry precisely because she was a lesbian? so that her partner would never have to be jealous or compete or worry about the guys she would 'fuck'? considering she can never actually be attracted or turned on by them. and thats its all strictly for money?

now, if she started servicing women, then it would suddenly become an issue for her partner.

 

[Cardinal Fang]

did it occur to you that she joined the industry precisely because she was a lesbian? so that her partner would never have to be jealous or compete or worry about the guys she would 'fuck'? considering she can never actually be attracted or turned on by them. and thats its all strictly for money?

Oh absolutely! That is exactly what I thought. But then.....see comment below.

now, if she started servicing women, then it would suddenly become an issue for her partner.

She did service women because she offered interactive duos with other escorts and guys loved to post about them.

By the way, I've gotten several emails requesting WHO this escort was. I will only say this. It wasn't Goober's mom.

 

[Terminator2000]

Oh absolutely! That is exactly what I thought. But then.....see comment below.



She did service women because she offered interactive duos with other escorts and guys loved to post about them.

By the way, I've gotten several emails requesting WHO this escort was. I will only say this. It wasn't Goober's mom.

i meant female clients.