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Samranchoi

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You can safely assume it's over for all intents and purposes when she says "So what are you going to do for the rest of the day (evening)?"
...............well, to put another spin on it, such is not always the case based upon numerous times with various providers, including MPA's and SP's. Having been asked that question, there have been times where we have ended out going for dinner, on the road to do something she wanted to do, being asked to wait around until her last appt was done, etc.....

But in terms of being notified that the session is over, the most common line I hear from many of the women I see is "would you like to take a shower".
 

Samranchoi

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NOBODY said the onus was on the client..atleast I didnt
Its my call whether I stay or go..before my fime is up
Why is that so hard for you to comprehend...pushing the time right until the last minute...is a douche move..IMO
What do you think shes gonna do..say baby you were so good i want you to stay longer andtotally fuck my schedule?
Dude the point i was making was that i dont like rushing out the door cus my time is up....the lady should never have to say its time you left(however veiled/subtle it is)
Exactly. My internal clock is quite good estimating how much time has expired and the majority of times my actual sex time ends well before the session time has expired. One very well reviewed woman is someone who ALWAYS provides an excellent session whether I book for a shorter period or longer time. Mostly I book shorter sessions because I don't need a lot of time with her but when I want to see her for a longer session, I always know I will be out the door anywhere from 5 to 15 minutes before the session was to end based "upon time". But she is also someone who has never been reluctant to provide an extra 5 or 10 minutes when needed. In the end, everything evens out which is why I mostly see regulars.
 

JaimeWolf

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Aside from two SPs in all the years - every other SP has kicked me out as soon as I cum (+ shower if she allows), not that I agree with that since I paid for a certain amount of time.
This is straight up bad service. Don't repeat with SPs that do this.
 

The "Bone" Ranger

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Who are you seeing and what city? I don’t have an assembly line going everyone gets their full paid amount of time. But I have had some Toronto guys try and go over time by laying on the bed well past the hour or 90 min or take 20 min chatting and getting dressed. Some may leave in less than an hour if they are late getting back to work but I’ve never kicked someone out as soon as they orgasmed. I’m sure professional ladies wouldn’t do this but that’s why I don’t do short appts or lower rates so I don’t have to see as many clients or worry about timing.
You come across as very professional and in fact it seems like you are very accommodating reading your posts. To answer your question I am a Toronto hobbyist and have primarily seen independents with only a few agency girls.
 

JaimeWolf

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I am probably too gullible that some of these girls I had seen north of ten times.
The type of SP is a factor too. The ones charging $80 hh need high volume to make a living, so you will be rushed. The ones charging $200 hh are usually more accommodating, even MSOG in hh if you are up for it.
 

sempel

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I'll bet some of those ladies may be saying to themselves afterwards - 'I thought he was never going to leave'.
Not necessarily in your case but for anyone staying well beyond the time unless she initiated that 'there was no hurry to leave'
In my case, I don't feel that's the case. When I stayed long it was at the initiation of the lady. The exception was one time and I've mentioned this example before and people shit on me after I explained so no point in inviting the same garbage from the usual boobs. But I leave when I'm asked to leave and take a reasonable amount of time to do so. I'm sure the ladies would confirm that they initiated it and were totally fine with me staying but I'm not going to ask them to do that. That's when guys start booking them expecting more than they paid for citing my experience.

It's over when the time you've booked is done!!! That includes your shower time at the beginning and at the end. It's all rolled in. But not every gent cares to have the full time. For some, the session is done when they've cum. That usually only happens with hh sessions. If that's what they want that is fine but I'm more than happy to keep your company til the end!!!
Conversely there are some SPs that end the session after the guy cums regardless of the time left on the clock. Quite a few stories from clients on here describing this.

P.S. Pace sempel, I do indeed find that as the client I am also aware of the passing clock in every sp situation, incall or outcall. I am paying a high fee - several dollars a minute - for an escort's time, and she deserves all of it, and I don't want to cheat her or make her feel uncomfortable. I think both the client and escort sort of jointly monitor the paid time, or at least they should.
Some guys can certainly choose to monitor the clock. I don't and there's nothing wrong with that because IMO it's not my responsibility. It's not my responsibility to provide soap or condoms at an appointment. I COULD if I wanted but I don't have to. Same logic applies to the clock.

I had one throw an alarm clock at me. hard to ignore that hint.
lol

Some ladies use as reminders:
setup music to play for a certain time. When it finishes, there is say 10 minutes left.
sets a portable timer or use cell phone. I remember one had some kind of egg timer that u set
Sounds like the Oscars where they play the music to let the speaker know they need to finish and get off the stage

How about a big clock that counts down like at the Leaf game ? With the announcement - "Last minute of play in your appointment" :)

If I've cum early in a 1hr appointment, I want my date snuggled next to me in bed. Not wandering around getting ready to leave or for the next guy.
First, that would be hilarious if the hockey announcer voice came on and said that. Second, I'm the same - I'll snuggle or lightly kiss or lightly rub/massage if there's time left on the clock. Makes the appointment more sensual and connected.

NOBODY said the onus was on the client..atleast I didnt
Its my call whether I stay or go..before my fime is up
Why is that so hard for you to comprehend...pushing the time right until the last minute...is a douche move..IMO
What do you think shes gonna do..say baby you were so good i want you to stay longer andtotally fuck my schedule?
Dude the point i was making was that i dont like rushing out the door cus my time is up....the lady should never have to say its time you left(however veiled/subtle it is)
Dude, why are you getting worked up - this is a conversation/debate, don't take it so personal. You are just another Terbite that sees your name and something you said quoted and presumes I'm talking directly to you or about you. I am simply quoting you so my comment has a point of reference and makes sense and I don't have to repeat something somebody else said - that's called plagiarism...lol

I didn't say you said that. Others have said that in previous threads or implied such, including some ladies. If a guy wants to be aware of time, he can - I might be wary if I have a subsequent appointment. But a client CHOOSING to keep track of time is different from people saying it's partly the client's responsibility.

I'm also unsure how you've made this stretch from me saying it's the SP's responsibility to keep track of time to me being a douche who's trying to stay right up until the last minute if not longer. To me the douche move is fucking the dog when the SP has indicated time's up and that's not something I do. Getting your full time more/less is simply fair.

And while I don't expect a lady to say that, I won't say it hasn't happened where the lady was having a good time, either physically or mentally being stimulated, and asked me to stay. You also presume every lady has a client waiting at the door so guys staying mess up her schedule. In one case, I was the only appointment of the day. In the other case the lady said her next client wasn't coming until much later. So me staying longer didn't fuck up anything.

The only statement you've made that I agree with is the last one. But some people need a direct message, not BS subtle hints. No need to be rude about it but there's plenty of ways of saying you need to leave that are polite but clear.
 

thumper18474

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In my case, I don't feel that's the case. When I stayed long it was at the initiation of the lady. The exception was one time and I've mentioned this example before and people shit on me after I explained so no point in inviting the same garbage from the usual boobs. But I leave when I'm asked to leave and take a reasonable amount of time to do so. I'm sure the ladies would confirm that they initiated it and were totally fine with me staying but I'm not going to ask them to do that. That's when guys start booking them expecting more than they paid for citing my experience.



Conversely there are some SPs that end the session after the guy cums regardless of the time left on the clock. Quite a few stories from clients on here describing this.



Some guys can certainly choose to monitor the clock. I don't and there's nothing wrong with that because IMO it's not my responsibility. It's not my responsibility to provide soap or condoms at an appointment. I COULD if I wanted but I don't have to. Same logic applies to the clock.



lol



Sounds like the Oscars where they play the music to let the speaker know they need to finish and get off the stage



First, that would be hilarious if the hockey announcer voice came on and said that. Second, I'm the same - I'll snuggle or lightly kiss or lightly rub/massage if there's time left on the clock. Makes the appointment more sensual and connected.



Dude, why are you getting worked up - this is a conversation/debate, don't take it so personal. You are just another Terbite that sees your name and something you said quoted and presumes I'm talking directly to you or about you. I am simply quoting you so my comment has a point of reference and makes sense and I don't have to repeat something somebody else said - that's called plagiarism...lol

I didn't say you said that. Others have said that in previous threads or implied such, including some ladies. If a guy wants to be aware of time, he can - I might be wary if I have a subsequent appointment. But a client CHOOSING to keep track of time is different from people saying it's partly the client's responsibility.

I'm also unsure how you've made this stretch from me saying it's the SP's responsibility to keep track of time to me being a douche who's trying to stay right up until the last minute if not longer. To me the douche move is fucking the dog when the SP has indicated time's up and that's not something I do. Getting your full time more/less is simply fair.

And while I don't expect a lady to say that, I won't say it hasn't happened where the lady was having a good time, either physically or mentally being stimulated, and asked me to stay. You also presume every lady has a client waiting at the door so guys staying mess up her schedule. In one case, I was the only appointment of the day. In the other case the lady said her next client wasn't coming until much later. So me staying longer didn't fuck up anything.

The only statement you've made that I agree with is the last one. But some people need a direct message, not BS subtle hints. No need to be rude about it but there's plenty of ways of saying you need to leave that are polite but clear.
When you call BS on a my quote...I'll respond...period
Not getting worked up about anything but youseem to be when you get quoted and dont like the response
Chillout...you do what you feel is right for you....as will I..
 

Jasmine Raine

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Im actually the clock watcher in our time together...i read all the time about ...he didnf get the hint...didn't pay to extend..so on and so forth that i make it a point of always leaving before my time was up..unless she is the asking me to stay (off the clock..)
It is appreciated by ladies when clients are aware of their time. We don't like having to say that times up. At least I don't. I am usually an overtime girl anyway partly because of this. That and I chat, chat, chat as you know. Lol.

So it is nice when the client ensures they are taking some responsibility for the session and themselves. It just adds what feels like an extra level of respect for us and our job.

Don't mind Some of the haters, especially when ladies have already stated they don't appreciate their way of doing things.


Thanks, I had fun too! I am not kidding, as soon as I cum it is like get your shit and leave...at the most some will let me shower but then after that they want me to dress as quickly as possible and leave. Most of them start using their phone and make no effort at making small talk or chit chat and discourage if it try.
They don't know what they are missing. We never would have had the second shot if there was no small talk. LOL.
 

The "Bone" Ranger

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Totally true!!!

Just really sucks to hear things like that these things happened to you when you are such a great guy.

PS - Parker is awesome, ain't she??? LOL
It's an adventure!!!

Yes, she is a total sweetheart and a lot of fun!

btw, just saw your new recent selfie, your tits are still looking nice and heavy (and very suckable I might add)!!!
 

Jasmine Raine

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It's an adventure!!!

Yes, she is a total sweetheart and a lot of fun!

btw, just saw your new recent selfie, your tits are still looking nice and heavy (and very suckable I might add)!!!
Hahahaha - ya, my tits are mine. Nothing to do with weight gain so when then weight left my body my boobs actually looked bigger in some ways. LOL
 

sempel

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When you call BS on a my quote...I'll respond...period
Not getting worked up about anything but youseem to be when you get quoted and dont like the response
Chillout...you do what you feel is right for you....as will I..
I have no problem with you responding, no problem with polite disagreement. I do have a problem if you misinterpret something then go off about it. If I was unclear I'm sorry about that.

This is what I said "I call BS on that - who the hell came up with the stupid idea that the client is ever responsible for time". I was simply referring to the second part of the sentence, not anything you said in particular. I also clarified later on that there's nothing wrong if a guy keeps track of time if that's his choice. I don't think providers should ever expect that though and they should always be responsible for that, just like condoms and soap as mentioned. I think many people here would think an lady was wrong if she came on and said she expected or relied on clients to provide these things. If you thought I was calling what you said in particular BS, that's not the case.

For me, it comes down to concentration and focus. I'm a little bit of a glass half empty type - when I go on vacation for a week, on day 2 I always have the thought "only 5 days left" cross my mind, not "I'm two days in to a great vacation and there's still 5 days left" which would be better. Just how I am. So if I glance at a clock, I'm going to get distracted figuring out how much time is left and thinking about that instead of what I should be thinking about.

Some guys say, you pay the lady to leave. I will say I pay the lady for a bunch of things and one of those is for her to keep track of time, not me. That's just how I feel and there's nothing wrong with it. Any lady who tries to push the line "it's disrespectful" is incorrect - it's disrespectful to stay on once she's indicated time's up. You can't say a client is disrespectful if he doesn't track the time. Let it be what it is - something nice if a guy does it but not a negative if he doesn't.

Lastly, in light of MeToo, the idea of subtle cues is crap. Some guys will get them, but some won't. There's nothing wrong with indicating time's up and using a variety of polite phrases to indicate the client has to leave. There are ways of saying something without being direct/callous i.e. Get the fuck out buddy. Can ladies really blame a client if they aren't direct or fairly obvious about this? I don't think clients can blame an SP if the client wasn't clear about what they like and are looking for.
 

Parker@TDL

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Totally true!!!

Just really sucks to hear things like that these things happened to you when you are such a great guy.

PS - Parker is awesome, ain't she??? LOL
You're such a sexy biatch!!! Just so much fun and I'm super looking forward to another lunch. And hopefully, one day, I get to shove my face between those luscious tatas!!!
 

Parker@TDL

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Thank you I'm just honestly surprised as there has to be another factor here. None of the colleauges I know operate this way maybe it's a price point thing some who are stacking clients back to back are in a hurry? I don't wish to treat any client like that.
Honestly, I have no idea what that factor would be!!!! Its confusing. He's got a great personality, is really nice to be around, has excellent hygiene and a very nice member. Really an all around delightful person!!!
 

Samranchoi

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I am thinking that maybe, just maybe, since he is well thought of, instead of trying to speculate what the reason could be, he should tell one of the women here who they are (i.e.; Parker via pm not publicly) and some other insight could be learned on why someone he visits so often does not treat him the way he "deserves" to be treated. I wonder if some of these women who "cheat" him out of his paid time think as highly of him as others do or if they are simply taking advantage of his good nature, which apparently happens.

In regards to the original theme of this thread, I am wondering though, I used the term "over" in quotes. The reason for this not only had to do with time but also with the either person's "state of mind". How often has a woman or man gone through with the appointment knowing the session was basically "over" before it started but only continued because he/did not want to cancel it. I was speaking with one woman I see regularly and she said that if she does not think the session will go well, she will tell the guy and the session is ended. Other times she has gone through with the session and her suspicions were bang on.
 
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