SPs jealous?

[The "Bone" Ranger]

Do SPs get jealous if they find out you have been seeing other SPs? I just experienced the cold shoulder from one because I admitted to. "cheating" on her.

 

[inaluki]

Yes sir...

 

[bazokajoe]

Do SPs get jealous if they find out you have been seeing other SPs? I just experienced the cold shoulder from one because I admitted to. "cheating" on her.

If she does get jealous,time to permanently replace her.

 

[yermama]

Tell her that you will stop cheating on her if she stops cheating on you.

 

[Occasionally]

Jealous of you seeing someone else?

Or jealous of your cash going to someone else?

 

[Luton]

Some do. The smart ones know better. Both the SPs and Clients should know that we are not seeing one another to develop a long term relationship.

 

[The "Bone" Ranger]

Exactly, after all I just thought it was a transaction...lol...I know it can't be for my good looks

 

[mclarkez1980]

As long as you're not describing your date with another in detail or going on about the other lady, because I could see how that would possibly be off-putting to hear that

 

[The "Bone" Ranger]

As long as you're not describing your date with another in detail or going on about the other lady, because I could see how that would possibly be off-putting to hear that

I would never do that (unless asked to)

 

[Smallcock]

Do SPs get jealous if they find out you have been seeing other SPs? I just experienced the cold shoulder from one because I admitted to. "cheating" on her.

When you say the "cold shoulder" does that mean she doesn't want to see you again, or was she just behaving like she was offended?

 

[The "Bone" Ranger]

Her texts started getting dramatic and then eventually stopped responding - this is an SP I have seen at least 20 times!

When you say the "cold shoulder" does that mean she doesn't want to see you again, or was she just behaving like she was offended?

 

[JaimeWolf]

Do SPs get jealous if they find out you have been seeing other SPs? I just experienced the cold shoulder from one because I admitted to. "cheating" on her.

Probably business-motivated, i.e. she found out you spent money elsewhere when you could've spent it on her, so she puts on an act to make you feel guilty. If the service level drops, then see her less often or stop altogether. Otherwise just proceed business as usual.

I find the SPs tend to be more chill about it if you book her friends or duo partners.

 

[mclarkez1980]

unless she pointedly asked, how does this even come up in conversation? I've never talked about another provider on a date

 

[thecuriousgeorge]

Some do get jeslous that you are spending cash elsewhere..though it has for a few, motivated them to make the session memorable.

Some dont care and some like to hear about others..

Gets awkward when they bad mouth another sp that you like or just told them about...

I avoid repeating with the negative ones..

 

[Luton]

unless she pointedly asked, how does this even come up in conversation? I've never talked about another provider on a date

If you see a provider often enough it will come up in conversation, especially if you both are very comfortable with one another. There are a few sps I see on a regular basis and we have no trouble talking about me seeing other sps.

 

[mitchell76]

100% she's jealous you're spending cash elsewhere. i had a person who i thought was my friend tell another client who booked me after she told him she didn't want to get too close to him that she was "jealous" he was seeing me. he actually developed feelings for her (his mistake) and this comment was designed to hook him, and it worked. meanwhile she's admitting to me that this guy was spending $1000/week on her and it was great because she didn't "need" to see anyone else and she was waiting for him to give her the tiffany jewellery he said he bought for her before she was just gonna "cut him off".

the kind of materialism i see from girls in this business is so unsettling.

another well-known SP on here who saw a mutual client we share apparently contacted his wife after she found out he was seeing other SPs. so there's also that.

the unfortunate thing is that the clients we see in this business tend not to have much experience with women in general, so they can't differentiate between when a girl only likes you for your money and when a girl actually likes you for you. hint: if you're paying to see her, it's for your money.

Dawn, thanks for always telling it like it is. I love your honesty!! Good for you!!

 

[Charlemagne]

Some do. They obviously want the money in their pockets lol.

 

[Tashki]

the unfortunate thing is that the clients we see in this business tend not to have much experience with women in general, so they can't differentiate between when a girl only likes you for your money and when a girl actually likes you for you. hint: if you're paying to see her, it's for your money.

This is exactly why I started going out and meeting civilians as much as I can and started seeing SP's less so I can see the difference.

 

[mitchell76]

Super unprofessional. But there's always 2 sides. If you only casually mentioned it or don't mention it at all she really has no right to be upset. If you however talk to her constantly but stop booking or rarely book and then post reviews of other SPs or talk about seeing other SPs that's rather classless as you could simply stop communicating regularly or altogether if you're not going to book. And of course if in session you're mentioning how often you're seeing someone else, or what you're doing for them etc that would be awkward and unpleasant. I see no problem with seeing whoever you want to see as long as you're not making false promises to any SP, stringing them along, or expecting constant attention for free if you're never booking. Not sure what happened in this case, but that's my two cents. Providers should be professional, clients should be considerate that yes this is a job and many do have bills to pay. Treat eachother decently and with respect and it's better for both parties. No one owns anyone, but don't be manipulative either for free attention. My 2 pet peeves are those guys who never book but message constantly for attention or those that only saw me 1-2 times and don't ever ask but throw my name around for a references for half a dozen or more SPs over a year after I've seen them. If you're not pulling crap like that, hopefully everyone can keep their feelings in check and be considerate.

Excellent post Charlotte. Especially the part about expecting constant attention for free, and never booking.

 

[Smallcock]

DL cuts right to the marrow. So refreshing. OP's question has been answered fully.