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Why do people keep thinking I am bbbjcimgreek?? That is a different user. But believe what you want.
Ya I am quoting to your reply. How's that a problem. Of course I moved on. Get over it.
I agree that no one has heard from Bliss and to clarify I am not trying at all to speak for her. However, this review has now gone past that. As I said, someone else brought this to my attention, and I know I am not the only lady who has looked at it and feels that what the OP did was wrong. So while Bliss's feelings on the matter are important for what she may or may not have felt at the time, I can say other people have feelings on the matter that are certainly being discussed offline. You may not be judging but many others already have. I just have no issues staying my opinions publiclly.
I do want to add as well, this should be lesson learning, not fighting the obvious error. But that is just me and my opinion. At a time when clients are already criminalized for consensual acts, do you guys really want to get into grey areas of what is not consensual or what maybe boundary pushing or an "oops" or whatever you want to call it?
Curious about this though. Was there a name change, and why I wonder? PM if need be. I am trying to get out of this thread now that my point was made.
Wow - does that really need to be explained? If you quote me, asking me questions, I am going to reply. That is the respectful thing to do. I don't just preach it, I practice it.
Want me to stop replying, stop quoting me. Easy Peasy.
Ya of course I'm gonna quote you, that's how I'm making a direct response to you. Common now.
Ok? So you want me to move on from this thread but you want to make direct responses to me???? Got to admit that one has me confused.
Unless of course, you are a cave man. Is this a "you are man, I am woman, you make rules, woman shuts up" type thing????
Anyway, I am moving on for tonight at least. Time to enjoy NYE - I suggest maybe you do the same. Maybe when we meet back here tomorrow or the next day, the conversation may go a little different with the time away.
Have a good night.
Saw her again. Bliss is a wonderful girl guys. I encourage everyone to give her a chance. She thanked me kindly. Go see her.
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You saw her again and she thanked you kindly? Than there might be some mistake, I think you may have posted the wrong screenshot in your link.
The tab to your link shows the correct date of 2017_12_31 but the time displayed below her last message, at the bottom of the screenshot, shows 12:56am. I might be wrong but I think that would make it a screenshot of a conversation that took place prior to your original review/OP. No biggie, just wanted to let you know.
It's very simple Blackpanther... We (76camaro, dm1985, me and probably a lot of other Terbies) believe that because you appeared on Terb just before bbbjcimgreek disappeared, early in Dec 2017, you seem to have a lot of knowledge for a newby and there is a lot of similarities with a number of things that bbbjcimgreek use to value and the way to write treats.
It's funny that this is coming up cause I was questioning myself, not even a week ago, about you and bbbjcimgreek, after reading something you posted. If you say "Why do people keep thinking I am bbbjcimgreek" it's probably because you had been call for that before... I didn't know but now it's obvious. Let's say,... in less than a month, you have 67 posts (as of now that I'm writing this post) which is very unusual for a total newby. It's clear that you are not a newby in this world, especially not on Terb. Just like bbbjcimgreek, you are in every posts, voice/opinion yourself everywhere and when attack (like in this treat), you overreact and go after the other person, you can't apologize properly and seems to want to have the final word on everything, every point, just like we saw in the "Alana threat", for example, the one where bbbjcimgreek attacked me and dm1985 and made him disappeared of Terb scene.
I wasn't going to comment on your initial post, but since I open up, I will just say that I agree with Jessica's intervention, what you did is wrong, you knew it, you shouldn't have done it. But you did it: Ok, maybe I can accept the idea that it was a honest mistake (I don't believe that it was but let say...), shit happen; BUT you shouldn't post it. That is flirting with disrespect "Hey guys, look what I've done to her!!!". We need the providers, they must be totally respected otherwise we will all loose their kindness and many thing. No need for this shit.
So, Blackpanther aka bbbjcimgreek, I hope the New Year will bring you wisdom. And NO...before you say it, Dbass34 is not dm1985, even if our respective name starts with a "D", finish with a number and agree on how to treat others.
This is an online world. People come and go. New and old, just because you had a hunch that I was another user doesn't mean so. Stop taking these forums so personally. I'm just here to review, comment and share my thoughts because I have been fucked over by many SPs so I decided to finally spend some time reviewing as it certainly helps avoid fakes. Should have done this awhile ago but whatever. Yes, I have joined recently and my very first post was on Kim busty brunette. Go read that if you want to see my introduction. I have nothing against you, and wish everyone well. Now, if you continue the infatuation of bbbjgreekcim, be my guest, but for however long I stay in this forum I will continue to provide my 2 cents and help guys as much as I can, just as I intended when I registered not too long ago.
i started going for a lady's butt once without first asking if it was ok with my finger. she politely stopped me (thankfully i didn't get very far). I felt bad about it and apoligized and from that point on i always ask before i do the following: digits, greek digits, dfk. it doesn't kill the mood if anything i find i have more fun (and hopefully she does as well). I don't do DATY so i don't ask for that but would aks if i did. Different ladies have different boundaries and i agree doing something on an SP thats already said no is sexual assault
all i can say from the OP is learn from this, move on and be thankful all you got from this is crap through a message board
all i can say from the OP is learn from this, move on and be thankful all you got from this is crap through a message board
I don't think he's bbbjcimgreek. He behaves and types entirely differently and it's really, really not feasible to do that constantly. I get that a lot of you were targeted by bbbj (so was I), but don't you sorta see the irony of calling this guy out like bbbj called you guys out?
Anyways...Happy New Years everyone.
Anyways...Happy New Years everyone.
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Your username is Respect, so I'm assuming it's important to you? I have to speak up and I rarely do.... A finger.... a dick.... it doesn't make a difference what you try to stick up a restricted area, neither are acceptable. I cant believe some of the attitudes about this. Ive heard everything from it was a finger not a penis so big deal, to anything can happen in the heat of the moment. Women are raped and mudered "in the heat of the moment", so yes im aware anything CAN happen but its not acceptable. Im shocked at how dismissive some of you are. Why ask our restrictions if you are going to "test the waters" anyways? He knew her restrictions and very obviously decided to test her limits anyways. IT ISNT OK NO MATTER HOW YOU PUT IT. Just because we are escorts does not make it any more acceptable than if it happened to a female family member of yours. IT IS NOT OK TO PUSH OR CROSS OUR BOUNDARIES AND THERE IS NO EXCUSE...
And labeling Jessica Rain as a man hating escort with an axe to grind is preposterous. Many of us share her opinion but are simply to afraid to speak up. Escorts tend to get chased away from this board by the male members. We aren't valued as human beings with thoughts and opinions... only as toys for sexual gratification. We create supply for YOUR demand and we deserve respect.
You are pretty much reiterating what Jessica keeps saying. And honestly were running in circles. Listen, no guy here is condoning it. It stopped being a a big deal as soon the act stopped and session was resumed. Who here is disagreeing with you?? People just move on, but I guess it really bothers you, doesn't it? You just have to come in and spill nonesense about the whole " girls aren't being treated with respect, girls aren't treated like human beings, only sexual toys" notion. While I absolutely condemn any rape, harassment behaviour, this is not the case. Nothing escalated further between me and Bliss. Also, guys are always the one to get the short end of the stick. Not to mention law enforcement is always gonna be harsher on us. Ever been to Afghanistan? I have. Women have it the worst there. From human trafficking prostitution to every day sharia law abuse. You're lucky to be escorting in Canada. And no one is stopping you from voicing your opinion. You've got the right to state your opinion, but all you're doing is dragging this matter into another category.
Also, Jessica does seem to have a grudge on me. Calling me disgusting, a cave man. And when she mentioned something like
Unless of course, you are a cave man. Is this a "you are man, I am woman, you make rules, woman shuts up" type thing????
I just found that ridiculous.. I mean with comments like that, you'd have to wonder if she really does have a axe to grind. I stopped taking her seriously after that. Feel sorry for her.
I think it's being reiterated because it needs to be. It sounds like in your review that your digits in her ass was brushed off and you both moved on. I suspect this is her being more tolerant of that maneuver than she should have been, and not that it wasn't a big deal. Maybe it was a big deal to her and she played along to get the session over with, or maybe she thinks it's expected since she's new? I wasn't there so I can only guess. If it was some uncommon restriction like she doesn't want her nipples sucked or not to touch her clit I might buy the "oops/heat of the moment" argument, but putting your digits in her ass I can't see as being at all common. Ass play seems to be important to you yet you saw an SP that said it wasn't in the menu, and then you did that anyway. I can't believe it wasn't premeditated or intentional. If you think she's into the session and you think she might bend on her restrictions and be up for it then asking first would have been a good idea.
I'm not very experienced but the point made that clients who do what you did ruins it for the rest of us makes sense. I like to see real people not sex robots so the personal connection is important to me. Even if I'm just another appointment to them I can't imagine SPs wouldn't prefer to see a guy where trust isn't an issue and they can be more relaxed and be themselves. This seems to me that you set guys like me back and I will be treated as untrustworthy until proven otherwise.
For the guys that don't know Jessica (being an out of region thread), I've seen her a few times now and will continue to. Saying she is one of the good ones is an understatement. She has a low tolerance for bullshit and so do I - probably why we get along so well. Yes she is vocal about subjects like this and rightfully so. You definitely crossed a line. SPs have any number of trust issues to deal with especially when you are in their home. I can't imagine the position you put Bliss in doing what you did, likely playing along seemed like the safest avenue for her. I'm sure you are larger than she is and pissing off a client could potentially elevate to a much more dangerous situation. I'm not saying that is a likely scenario with you in particular but she probably doesn't know that either.
I'm not very experienced but the point made that clients who do what you did ruins it for the rest of us makes sense. I like to see real people not sex robots so the personal connection is important to me. Even if I'm just another appointment to them I can't imagine SPs wouldn't prefer to see a guy where trust isn't an issue and they can be more relaxed and be themselves. This seems to me that you set guys like me back and I will be treated as untrustworthy until proven otherwise.
For the guys that don't know Jessica (being an out of region thread), I've seen her a few times now and will continue to. Saying she is one of the good ones is an understatement. She has a low tolerance for bullshit and so do I - probably why we get along so well. Yes she is vocal about subjects like this and rightfully so. You definitely crossed a line. SPs have any number of trust issues to deal with especially when you are in their home. I can't imagine the position you put Bliss in doing what you did, likely playing along seemed like the safest avenue for her. I'm sure you are larger than she is and pissing off a client could potentially elevate to a much more dangerous situation. I'm not saying that is a likely scenario with you in particular but she probably doesn't know that either.
The person who seems to “take these forums so personally” here is you, if we look at the amount of reply you had with anyone who voiced a different opinion than you in this treat.
Listen, I have nothing against you, Blackpanther; If we are talking about bbbjcimgreek it's a different story. I think a lot of Terbies came to a point to hate bbbjcimgreek. So the fact that some people believe that you are the same person brings the heat on you. I am saying that, but personally I got call out by that guy only once, I can imagine others. It was just the way he was going after people and insulting anybody who had a different opinion then him.
Don’t get me wrong, I value the contribution that you brought to the general discussion since you arrived on Terb, you meet a lot of new providers in a very short period of time (a lot more than me, cause I prefer to repeat and I have my 2-3 regular providers and spas), you TOFTT and your reviews are good, as far as I’m concern. But you need to learn when to let go. You started that treat, reviewed Bliss; that review is not bad. However, you wrote something that was out of line. I agree with Spartan7 that in the heat of the moment of sex, people do stuff they shouldn't sometimes and how they deal with it afterwards is the test of their character. You apologies, but when Jessica called you out, you should’ve end it just by agree that you made a mistake and that’s it, end of the story. But no, you went after her and argued every single point that she wrote. I agree that she went a bit hard on you; however, like I wrote in my comment on post #31, I agree with her intervention. In today’s social context of sexual harassment, rape, etc... you just could’ve been humble, shut up and let go cause you are the one who made the mistake. It is what it is, like it or not, we are now in 2018. Many Terbies did ask you to let go, but you didn’t, I think that’s where it did get annoyed.
Blackpanther or bbbjcimgreek, I don’t give a f*** if you are the same or not and this will be my final reference to the two of you. You are new to Terb, I am too (May 2017..., more use to Lyla). Like someone said to me when I join Terb, just be polite, respectful and things are going to be fine. Continue to review, I believe in what I wrote, your reviews are good, you review a lot and I can appreciate your TOFTT. If you have the time, the money and the energy to do all that, it’s great, go for it. But stay on the line; you are not doing any good by arguing like you did on this treat and, at the end, we all pay for that.
Cheers man
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