Best job for picking up women for average Joe?

261252

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Acting coach ?

Resort worker?

Weekend musician who "Does not mind if he does not make the scene, got a day time job and is doing all right?" - Dire Straights

Fashion photographer?

Singing coach?
 

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I'd take a guess and say a good looking bartender at a trendy restaurant or club should be able to score.
 

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I'd take a guess and say a good looking bartender at a trendy restaurant or club should be able to score.
That may get you fired. Same for resort worker. Anybody have experience in such fields ?

WTF are the rules for the workers on cruise ships and resorts ?? Hands off the tourists/customers would be my guess. What about affairs with co workers ? Affairs gone wrong can destroy the work environment.

Whereas photographer, singing/acting coach or weekend musician are their own bosses.
 

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That may get you fired

Same for resort worker

Anybody have experience in such fields ?

WTF are the rules for the workers on cruise ships and resorts ?? Hands off the tourists would be my guess
I don't know. Back in the day, I'd see my good looking buddies pick up servers all the time. Some chit chat, and then they'd quietly swap numbers (after a few times we'd been there). But who knows, maybe bartenders are held to a different standard.
 

wazup

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Pilot, I guess not average Joe really

Fitness, golf, tennis instructor.

Medical field.

I've been at earls a couple times, the bartenders were all guys in their early 20's and the hipster type, they seemed to get quite a bit of attention, although I did too when my glass was empty.

Any job around women, I've worked in the trade, rarely around women. :eek: (
 

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I'm a photographer and average guy. I'm neither handsome nor ugly.

If you hit on models, word spread fast and you're quickly without a job. All those models come in with their defenses up and trying to detect every hint of you hitting on them (even if they do, for the purpose of the shoot, everything that would drive a normal man crazy).

I've had better luck with girls working around the models (like make up or hair girl, designers, etc). They come in with defenses lower and often do not mind at all the flirting. They expect you'd hit on the model, who gets all the attention, and are flattered when you give them attention instead. And it's more fun because they have less of an attitude, don't have the "princess" syndrome.

That being said, are my scores better than in other professions? I have no idea...
 

freedom3

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Acting coach ?

Resort worker?

Weekend musician who "Does not mind if he does not make the scene, got a day time job and is doing all right?" - Dire Straights

Fashion photographer?

Singing coach?
Investment banker.

Look at this way: Where would an attractive woman get picked up? Everywhere. Where would an unattractive woman get picked up? Nowhere.
 

Celticman

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Being a decent guy with a real ability to make the lady laugh is more important than any job.
 

explorerzip

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I'm a photographer and average guy. I'm neither handsome nor ugly.

If you hit on models, word spread fast and you're quickly without a job. All those models come in with their defenses up and trying to detect every hint of you hitting on them (even if they do, for the purpose of the shoot, everything that would drive a normal man crazy).

I've had better luck with girls working around the models (like make up or hair girl, designers, etc). They come in with defenses lower and often do not mind at all the flirting. They expect you'd hit on the model, who gets all the attention, and are flattered when you give them attention instead. And it's more fun because they have less of an attitude, don't have the "princess" syndrome.

That being said, are my scores better than in other professions? I have no idea...
Ditto for escort photographers. The industry is very small so the smallest of transgressions will torpedo your career.
 

explorerzip

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Acting coach ?

Resort worker?

Weekend musician who "Does not mind if he does not make the scene, got a day time job and is doing all right?" - Dire Straights

Fashion photographer?

Singing coach?
If you're spending time on the job trying to pick up women, then you want have a job for very long.
 

Butler1000

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The OP thinks that a job will get you women. It won't.

Either money does(and there will only be loyalty as far as that runs)

Or game does. But if you want an easy job for get girls then restaurant manager. Long hours, alcohol involved, stress(where the manager can solve a problems instantly) tend to make them see you more positively. Hell some will bang you just for good scheduling.

Go work for a chain. Lots of young good looking ones.
 

frankcastle

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But seriously you should be looking for a career not a job and if you are serious about your career you won't shit in your pool trying to date coworkers, employees or clients.
 
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