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kirknewton

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A question for the guys and if any ladies would like to chime in please do but just reverse the genders.

Ok the question is would you rather have a super hot girlfriend or wife that wasn't good in bed, or would you rather have a average or below average woman that was great in bed?
 

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Average or below average woman who is good in bed. I've stated in other posts at SCs I go for dancers who are a bit older and less hot, but more fun to be with.
 

tml

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Super hot. I want good looking children with strong genes. You can find sex elsewhere.
I've always been amazed how many good looking couples have children who are not good looking, and vice versa.
 
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Super hot. I want good looking children with strong genes. You can find sex elsewhere.
I dunno...maybe if you're really good at sex you have a better chance of reproducing than if you're super-hot but shitty in the sack.

Basically...you want kids who will most effectively spread your genetic code. Being good at sex will likely produce more frequent and fruitful sex in either gender!
 

ExoticCharmer

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Having been with both types; super hot model star fish vs GND hot sex. I'd probably still pick the super hot star fish option.

There's another layer to this question though, willingness.

It's one thing to be bad at sex because of inexperience. Meaning super hot star fish will lay there for hours letting you pound her.

It's a completely different thing to be bad at sex because of not wanting it. Going for one round and hoping you call it quits.
 

Mr Bret

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Super hot will eventually grow older and likely lose her looks while someone who's good at sex will likely continue to be good and may be more adventurous, willing to try something new when asked.
 

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half the time a person isn't good in bed it's because their previous sex partners never told them about their crap performance. They fake the orgasm, tell them it was great and then probably never see them again. Sure they might do this to spare other persons feelings but it really doesn't help them in the long run.

With that being said I would pick the guy that was bad in bed because I've actually taught someone how to be good in bed once in the past. The sex wasn't great at first but by the time I was done we were having wild heated sex all the time. I believe it can be done again lol there's hope for those guys yet!
 

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I would like to think we enjoy the people we are with based on their personalities. Does it have to be based on appearance or sexual activity. Obviously everyone wants to be attracted to a partner but so much more is personality. Maybe I'm too much of an optimist.
 

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I would like to think we enjoy the people we are with based on their personalities. Does it have to be based on appearance or sexual activity. Obviously everyone wants to be attracted to a partner but so much more is personality. Maybe I'm too much of an optimist.
This is true. I took the question the way it was asked, but if it were "great sex" versus "fun to be with" I would spend a couple weeks with "great sex" and the rest of my life with "fun to be with".
 

Terminator2000

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Having been with both types; super hot model star fish vs GND hot sex. I'd probably still pick the super hot star fish option.

There's another layer to this question though, willingness.

It's one thing to be bad at sex because of inexperience. Meaning super hot star fish will lay there for hours letting you pound her.

It's a completely different thing to be bad at sex because of not wanting it. Going for one round and hoping you call it quits.
super hot starfish will lay there for hours letting u pound her and not throw in any kind of personality into the mix. the same also applies to a date, super hot starfish could lay there for hours not saying anything or not contributing to the conversation at all, just going with the flow. a very plain boring flat date with no personality or no sense of humor whatsoever. some girls think all they have to do is show up and be super good lookong and they did their part for the date. making the date predictable and super boring and linear. in effect, shes just a showgirl, no personality, no opinion, no passion, no sense of humor cos she never was required or forced to develop a personality or sense of humor cos all she needed was her looks. true story.

if a giirl is like nice face, skinny body, really good genetics, tall..she doesnt need a personality to get guys to approach her. Guys tend to do all the work.
 

IM469

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super hot starfish will lay there for hours letting u pound her and not throw in any kind of personality into the mix.
I have not had a super hot girl who performed 'starfish' (arms / legs extended and bored). It could be that money exchange could induce this behaviour but I haven't experienced it. I have had the good fortune to bed a number of beautiful women and they were all great in the sack. I think there is a perception (maybe a wish) that beautiful women are bad lovers but I have not found that to be true. It could be true if your attraction is purely financial but I have found more hang ups from shy cute girls than the hot ones. Maybe the hot girls are more comfortable and outgoing but I found them more willing with sex in non-traditional locations. I'm not a 'hound dog' but I take care of myself and I don't miss any opportunities that two of us happen to click.

As for the original question, I'll take the hottie because my little buddy is quite picky and he will not bother with a below average women so how good she is in bed becomes a moot point.
 
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