I often finish within first couple minutes of the session, what are some tips you use to last longer.
How to last longer?
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I too have had experience where I didn`t last too long.
But as I gained more experience I realize it is a mental thing.
This is my thought process and it has worked wonderfully for me:
At moments when I feel like I am getting close I take a deep breathe, slow down (don`t stop though), relax my muscles slightly, look at her and somehow that urge dissipates. It feels like I went from gear one to gear two and I can continue to go longer without releasing until I`m on the highest gear.
Basically to me it really is like shifting gears on a car. When I hear the engine revving too hard, let go of the gas, clutch, shift gear, foot back on gas again in a fluid motion.
Hope this somehow helps some of you too.
But as I gained more experience I realize it is a mental thing.
This is my thought process and it has worked wonderfully for me:
At moments when I feel like I am getting close I take a deep breathe, slow down (don`t stop though), relax my muscles slightly, look at her and somehow that urge dissipates. It feels like I went from gear one to gear two and I can continue to go longer without releasing until I`m on the highest gear.
Basically to me it really is like shifting gears on a car. When I hear the engine revving too hard, let go of the gas, clutch, shift gear, foot back on gas again in a fluid motion.
Hope this somehow helps some of you too.
This is what I had learned from a friend and which I used to do many years back. When the urge is coming, slow down, put some pressure with a finger on the region between the anus and the genitals. Experiment with the amount of pressure, if too much it tends to make you limp.
It is also noteworthy that one should lube up the lady well by giving her (lots of) oral pleasure beforehand. This way, there'll be less friction and the tendency to come lessens as well.
It is also noteworthy that one should lube up the lady well by giving her (lots of) oral pleasure beforehand. This way, there'll be less friction and the tendency to come lessens as well.
Start slow. This is why I like an SP who kisses. Start kissing and stroking through clothing. Don't be in a big hurry to get to the main event. Try kissing and sucking her tits for a while and then work your way down. Give her a nice long snatch licking starting slow and just breathing on it...lightly touching her lips with your tongue and then taking it away. Get her to blow you slow and sensuously. If you feel you're going to come switch it up and do some more kissing. Start again. when you do go for the main event if you feel you're going to come take your cock out and change positions. That's why people like MPOS cause it helps to prolong it. Hope this is helpful cause that's what I do and it works.
PS You have to get an SP who isn't all about "wham, bam thank you Ma'am."
PS You have to get an SP who isn't all about "wham, bam thank you Ma'am."
Don't jerk off for 3 to 4 days before seeing the SP. For me it works all the time. I read this on the Internet and it works. Post number 14 has also a good technique that can help. And don't forget your cock ring.
I disagree with no jerking off. If my gun is loaded i go off much quicker. everyone is different i suppose.
