Sex at a strip club, who can afford it and why?

[Boss Nass]

A while back I visited a club that has been known for extras, small place outside the GTA. Just wanted a couple of lap dances and found a very nice young lady with a terrific body, and went into the grubby but secluded VIP area. Almost immediately the upsell starts, and was quoted $200 for a blow job? W?T?F?! I can get one for a hell of a lot less without the risk of someone wandering in on us, in nicer surroundings, and a much more relaxed atmosphere. I realise that some bargaining is probably expected, but are guys that turned on by the thought of strip club sex that they will fork over anywhere near that amount? Are they getting migrant farm workers who don't know about things like the internet? Are guys just stupid? Take your pick.

 

[fuji]

Are guys just stupid? Take your pick.

I pick this answer.

 

[DB123]

I pick this answer.

+1 completely pointless

 

[fuji]

Remember, strip clubs serve alcohol.

 

[Toronto`s Finest]

Remember, strip clubs serve alcohol.

Right ...... I think that plays big factor + guys that are newbies not thinkin straight!! :Eek:

 

[Stoo]

I think that they also cater to/prey on the "spontaneous" shopper. I don't know how many times I've stopped in "someplace" to have a beer and see a couple of naked ladies do their thing, only to end up in the back with my dick being Hoovered.

$200 is high though and I really try to work out the price before I head back there. Personally, I find it difficult to negotiate well when my pants are around my knees...

The VIP BJ has a certain seedy appeal, but runs the risk of getting very pricey. On two occasions, I have agreed to a BJ at say $150, instead of FS at $200, then changed my mind mid-way, only to be told that the price was now $150 + $200! Apparently a BJ is not considered foreplay, but a separate act. THAT'S where the prices get stupid. (Both times, I simply said I didn't have that much and split the difference. It almost got ugly in Montreal when she threatened to call a bouncer. Sex on the premises is legal there (outside Montreal) so she could have I suppose.

A fellow is wise to be clear on whether a few warm-dances are included up front as well. The hustlers will agree to $150 BJ, then add on the three dances @ $20 each too...

 

[Imperius]

I think that they also cater to/prey on the "spontaneous" shopper. I don't know how many times I've stopped in "someplace" to have a beer and see a couple of naked ladies do their thing, only to end up in the back with my dick being Hoovered.

That's pretty much what happened to me, and it was my first encounter with "pay for play". I had never heard of TERB before, so I was going in totally blind.

I was already turned on before walking into the joint, then met this absolutely stunning girl (still looking for an SP like her!) who arm-twisted me (lol) into heading to the VIP. After a couple of dances and she assessing how turned on I was, the upsell began. $100 for HJ, $200 for CBJ, $300 for CFS. It was the shortest (10 mins), lowest mileage (SSOG, no MPOS, no privacy), yet most expensive hobbying experience I've had.

After I got home that night, I Googled "Toronto escorts review" and found TERB, and learned just how much I had overpaid.

 

[Ironhead]

remember, strip clubs serve alcohol.

lol !

 

[IM469]

I pick this answer.

The correct answer is it is the PRICK. You are in the booth with a raging hard on NOW. Your mind is clouded with booze and the absence of blood drained to your dick ... yes .. you could go home and do a search on the most economical place to get off or even find a distraction that saves you any outlay of money but .. you have a naked girl in front of you NOW ... the Genie is out of the bottle ...

Post all the cold sober logic and I will agree with you now but in the booth .. a beautiful naked girl .... you might have trouble catching my attention. I'm not into extras but I understand completely why these girls have a competitive advantage in their outrageous rates.

 

[spraggamuffin]

I've been reading about the $300 and $500 options by dancers on the network and list websites.

Pretty ridiculous how many guys do it.

I fell for it once at one of the Trinity clubs and it was the most awful experience ever.

From the dirty chair with no springs touching your ass to the other guys getting serviced right in front of you.

Worst part except for the girl giving suction for a couple seconds, then proceeding to jackhammer you , is the girls actually decide to converse with each other when their mouths aren't busy.

Just from the perspective of hygiene and privacy it's ridiculous.

Add the poor service, hurrying up and lack of comfortable position and you'd have to say these guys are pretty dumb.

 

[mynameisearl11]

That's pretty much what happened to me, and it was my first encounter with "pay for play". I had never heard of TERB before, so I was going in totally blind.

I was already turned on before walking into the joint, then met this absolutely stunning girl (still looking for an SP like her!) who arm-twisted me (lol) into heading to the VIP. After a couple of dances and she assessing how turned on I was, the upsell began. $100 for HJ, $200 for CBJ, $300 for CFS. It was the shortest (10 mins), lowest mileage (SSOG, no MPOS, no privacy), yet most expensive hobbying experience I've had.

After I got home that night, I Googled "Toronto escorts review" and found TERB, and learned just how much I had overpaid.

Still, considering yourself lucky to have paid that much and got fk on your way home. There are guys spent most of their bi-weekly paycheque at SC on a regular basis. And, they still have to go home to do the HJ by themselves.

 

[The Options Menu]

Still, considering yourself lucky to have paid that much and got fk on your way home. There are guys spent most of their bi-weekly paycheque at SC on a regular basis. And, they still have to go home to do the HJ by themselves.

Damn newbs.

First, I have to say, if you're walking out the door 100% looking for release then strip clubs really aren't for you in most cases. Even if you're going to an extras heavy and / or high mileage place. (Extras are things you pay extra for where mileage is how far she'll go for the price of dances.) Many of use SC vets can probably get to as close to a sure bet as the non-sc guys, but honestly, for price per minute for the quality of environment you'd do better elsewhere if that's your primary criteria.

Secondly, dancers aren't 'classy incall ladies', etc. They expect you to haggle like you're buying a goat in a 3rd world country (on extras, not on the price of a song). I'm not an extras guy. Despite my TERB handle, I don't regularly shop from the menu. With that being said, the only times I've bought from the menu had been when a dance has haggles the most common middle option down to well less than I'd have paid in dances. Even then, I did that with the knowledge that when you turn down the menu you usually get crapdances not lapdances.

Even though I don't regularly buy from the menu, I've never had much difficulty in getting a release that doesn't involve cumming in my pants even though I'm not 100% looking for one (or more).

 

[spraggamuffin]

A good way to deter oneself is to say to yourself.

"Do I really want to pay for that Escalade for her pimp?"Lol

 

[VIPhunter]

A while back I visited a club that has been known for extras, small place outside the GTA. Just wanted a couple of lap dances and found a very nice young lady with a terrific body, and went into the grubby but secluded VIP area. Almost immediately the upsell starts, and was quoted $200 for a blow job? W?T?F?! I can get one for a hell of a lot less without the risk of someone wandering in on us, in nicer surroundings, and a much more relaxed atmosphere. I realise that some bargaining is probably expected, but are guys that turned on by the thought of strip club sex that they will fork over anywhere near that amount? Are they getting migrant farm workers who don't know about things like the internet? Are guys just stupid? Take your pick.

The real question is....why do you care? I can go to a SC, have a lap dance (or not) or proceed on to the more naughty options.

I'm in control, I can stop when I want, AND I can take a long lunch and get a knob-gobble if my morning has been a fuck-up.

No real planning required.

It's part of my double life, and it's fun.

I don't go to the BDSM forum and ask why people like golden showers (yuck) or scat play (triple yuck): I just assume they get their rocks off this way, and I suggest: More power to them.

Now, get out of my VIP please.

 

[GameBoy27]

I've had CFS and CBJ's many times at strip clubs over the years, but never paid extra or tipped above the standard fee of $10-20 per song. Sometimes the vibe is right and things just happen. Whenever I've been asked to pay for extras I've always declined.

Paying hundreds of dollars for extras on top of the per song price is just insane.

 

[explorerzip]

At least you're in a strip club when this happens. Almost got scammed in Athens, Greece in a run of the mill bar. Having a drink with a friend when two very nice ladies ask to sit with us. Almost let them sit down when both ladies ask in unison: "can we have a drink with you?" Got rid of them quick since I sensed a scam. The two just went to another table of guys and did the same thing.

Apparently, it's rampant in Athens where pretty girls will approach tourists in bars, sit next to them, rub their legs, etc. and ask to join them for a drink. The guys don't realize that the girls will buy the most expensive item on the list (usually champagne) and put it on the tourist's bill. Think they're called champagne girls or something. Probably even worse know in that country.

 

[sasemohan123]

I WILL NOT disclose where/when/with whom this happened but even guys who said it is stupid thing to do is only speaking for themselves and assuming a lot. The outrageous prices dancers throw at you are negotiable and to some it is within their comfort zone (not mine though) so IF they do it, who are we to say they are stupid?

Forget the cost for a moment, the act itself has a thrilling effect on guys, like the forbidden pleasure, like in the park...If you AND HER can keep the risk to a minimum, it is very thrilling. Take it from me, who has done the deed at all venues: SC, MP and of course in-call: there is nothing to compare to it when you can get what other CAN'T.

With this particular dancer lady, we had done 1 hr marathon quite few times, no extra charge (in fact she refused the tip, saying it is an insult to what we had done). Who is to say I'm crazy or to stupid? It has come to an end because the prolonged "relationship" was getting messy .

 

[kweku7]

I think i know where you went because ive been to all the strip clubs and their the only one that gives extras. i had 3 offers by strippers for $80 for full service, another offer for $200 for full service, and another offer for BJ and full service for $300. most of the girls are doing this to make extra money.

 

[woodee]

These prices are for the impulse buyer. One who thinks with the little head and not the big head.

 

[Vermeer27]

If the girl likes you, those prices go down, FYI. So it's not that she's charging too much, you're just not her type. Sp's who state their rate in public don't have the luxury of operating this way, but I'm sure some of them would prefer to.