Dating is so fucked

[milehigh]

I go on one fucking date.... and OH... you will be really proud of me.... I made damn sure I didn't have sex. And yet we are quote, a couple now.

Holy fuck.... this is why men see escorts. I don't even know this person and we are a couple.

BTW this person did more personal checks on me than any government agency.

Maybe a separate topic, but after 10 or 15 years of hobbying, is it even possible to go back to civilians? I am starting to think I honestly can't.

Sorry to be so warm, but whew do I ever feel better now that I got that off my chest.

 

[chuckparker]

A couple of questions......


I have a buddy who tells me the same ridiculous stuff lately.

What kind of personal checks did she do on you ?

Is this a common thing for women now to say they are dating you or that you are a couple without sex ?

The dating scene is really getting worse the last couple years.

 

[Jitter912]

Ask her for referrals

 

[Pum-Pum Stabba]

I go on one fucking date.... and OH... you will be really proud of me.... I made damn sure I didn't have sex. And yet we are quote, a couple now.

Holy fuck.... this is why men see escorts. I don't even know this person and we are a couple.

BTW this person did more personal checks on me than any government agency.

Maybe a separate topic, but after 10 or 15 years of hobbying, is it even possible to go back to civilians? I am starting to think I honestly can't.

Sorry to be so warm, but whew do I ever feel better now that I got that off my chest.

How are you a couple because she told you so?

 

[james t kirk]

A large percentage of terbites seem to keep confusing paying for sex with love and affection.

It's not.

Don't believe me?

Tell your pay for play friend that you have feelings for her and you can tell she has them for you too and so you don't think that you should have to pay her. See how that goes.

 

[canada-man]

I go on one fucking date.... and OH... you will be really proud of me.... I made damn sure I didn't have sex. And yet we are quote, a couple now.

Holy fuck.... this is why men see escorts. I don't even know this person and we are a couple.

BTW this person did more personal checks on me than any government agency.

Maybe a separate topic, but after 10 or 15 years of hobbying, is it even possible to go back to civilians? I am starting to think I honestly can't.

Sorry to be so warm, but whew do I ever feel better now that I got that off my chest.

you are doing it wrong

 

[SillyGirl]

I go on one fucking date.... and OH... you will be really proud of me.... I made damn sure I didn't have sex. And yet we are quote, a couple now.
.

Seriously. Run.

 

[yolosohobby]

What happened? did she book you for New Year's Eve?

 

[Toronto`s Finest]

I think any woman who sees you as a " couple " after 1 date is too needy, clingy & is way too rushing things. MOST women I know would agree with this as well.

 

[Questor]

I go on one fucking date.... and OH... you will be really proud of me.... I made damn sure I didn't have sex. And yet we are quote, a couple now.

Holy fuck.... this is why men see escorts. I don't even know this person and we are a couple.

BTW this person did more personal checks on me than any government agency.

Maybe a separate topic, but after 10 or 15 years of hobbying, is it even possible to go back to civilians? I am starting to think I honestly can't.

Sorry to be so warm, but whew do I ever feel better now that I got that off my chest.

Not enough information here to make this anything more than a meaningless rant.

What did she do to indicate that she considers you "a couple"?

What personal checks did she make?

 

[HotelCali]

This chick sounds like someone who could end up being quite the nutcase down the road. After ONE date, SHE decides your a couple? Jeepers. Becoming a couple involves input from both parties, not one person just deciding.

Take a few hours to respond to her texts and see what kind of meltdown it incites. It could be the first major test of your "relationship".

Out in the dating world there are plenty of women who are down to fuck on the first date and don't start dreaming of a house and kids right after. If you're sending the right signals (and sometimes that involves being blunt) then the chick should get the message and you both can have whatever kind of time you want. But with someone who's as crazy as this lady sounds I'd high-tail it the other way.

 

[Curious36]

Funny. Im laughing with you and not at you Bud. One word "Next" Similiar thing happened with me. Chatting up this girl i met on POF....good personality, professional etc. Good pics and she was my type. GND cute etc. We meet and I didnt even recognize her.....she was rather robust in appearance (im being kind). Anyhow, we chatted anyhow as we met at a coffee shop. I finally managed to get out of there and no sooner I get home and there is a message from her stating how well we got along, how nice I am, wanting to know if I wanted to go away with her on an upcoming weekend blah blah. I sent her back an email saying I wasnt interested cause she mis-represented herself and thus I felt her credibility was shot. The message I got in return was borderline stalkerish saying I lead her on, got her hopes up etc etc. One freaking coffee date!!!! Some nut jobs out there guys.

 

[red]

same thing happened to me. i met this girl at a work event, asked her for a drink.

we meet the next day and have a few laughs and talk about life and sex and stuff.

at the end she says she had a great time and really missed being part of a couple.

i said, yeah I can understand, I miss being part of a threesome.

she never called again

 

[fuji]

I met a girl online dating that invited me to be her date to a wedding for our third date. I was set to go until she made some comment like, "my friend is getting married to her groom, I wanted to bring mine".

I decided that it was easier just to stop seeing her than to explain I am already married.

 

[GPIDEAL]

i concur. unless the definition of casual dating has changed.

'Casual dating' sounds too much like 'casual encounters' (per dating chat line parlance).

In such dating networks, the usual three categories are: Long-term, Dating and Casual Encounters (which has its variants). Dating is smack in the middle. Women will say, what are you looking for? I say that I like to meet someone who interests me and if we click, we can date some more. However, I tell them that I don't deprive myself of fun, including casual encounters. Just because I wanna have fun while single, doesn't preclude me from seeking a steady or permanent relationship IF I meet the right gal for that.

Some women only want someone looking for a permanent relationship while one is single, unattached or not in an exclusive relationship (whatever you want to call it). WTF?

 

[GPIDEAL]

I met a girl online dating that invited me to be her date to a wedding for our third date. I was set to go until she made some comment like, "my friend is getting married to her groom, I wanted to bring mine".

I decided that it was easier just to stop seeing her than to explain I am already married.

Fuji, lol.

 

[GPIDEAL]

same thing happened to me. i met this girl at a work event, asked her for a drink.

we meet the next day and have a few laughs and talk about life and sex and stuff.

at the end she says she had a great time and really missed being part of a couple.

i said, yeah I can understand, I miss being part of a threesome.

she never called again

Actually, I do miss having a girlfriend, but not just any gal will do (and I don't mean this solely in terms of her physical appearance but other attributes like disposition and open-mindedness).

Being a bachelor and hobbyist still has its ups and downs, like a roller-coaster.

 

[nobody123]

You are only a "couple" if you are game to be a couple. Complain all you want about how fast and silly it is, but the fact that you haven't run for the hills tells us that you don't entirely disapprove.

 

[GPIDEAL]

I go on one fucking date.... and OH... you will be really proud of me.... I made damn sure I didn't have sex. And yet we are quote, a couple now.

Holy fuck.... this is why men see escorts. I don't even know this person and we are a couple.

BTW this person did more personal checks on me than any government agency.

Maybe a separate topic, but after 10 or 15 years of hobbying, is it even possible to go back to civilians? I am starting to think I honestly can't.

Sorry to be so warm, but whew do I ever feel better now that I got that off my chest.

Couple? Excuse me?!? :crazy:

Well, at least she didn't check Terb.

 

[richaceg]

When someone calls you ca couple that's probably because you're not getting any...
Why don't you tell her to drop to her knees and give you a nice blowjob to make everything official?