an Indian escort of mine has a Black husband or boyfriend and advertises NBM in her ads too. She said that her s/o makes the rules for her and protects her, which is probably a smart move. though, I do question why he wants her to be NBM exclusive yet he is black...
I can see that the escorting industry is a calculated risk business. and it is not easy to screen clients, yet- the appeared easy way to screen is by basing on stereotypes associated with obvious distinct features. skin colour is obvious. I don't think it is much more or less than that. The easiest way to be a creep how rapes, rips off, robs or other abuse to an escort is to be a clean, well-mannered white male with disposable money. If that were you, you could probably fool those stereotype base risk avoidance measures time and time again and be very productive in your escort abuse. Odd thoughts, but in line with exactly what I think the escort is trying to screen out- risk.
Now, on the other hand and maybe related, may be not. But, my white wife goes on her girl's night out excursions and when they come home and sort through their pics from the night before, her and her bunch of friends are always dancing and having the time of their lives with black men... so, I am beyond perplexed... my guess it is the liberating experience of 'being bad' in a safe environment and this is easily realized by the appeared obviousness of distinct colour contrast and the cross all culture associated stereotypes of the above. any thoughts? or am I just a dink...