Coffee for first date appropriate?

[youwontknow]

So I ask a girl out on a coffee date that that I met on speed dating since we only knew each other for few minute during that time I figure it would be a little more comfortable for her to get to know me first in a more relax setting. I don't mind taking her out for a nice dinner I just don't want her to feel uncomfortable. I am still waiting for her to confirm a date.

Your thoughts?

 

[Dancerfan]

Of course! Meet her for coffee, see how it goes and take it from there! If it doesn't work out, all you committed to was coffee!

 

[elwoodinontario]

Great idea. No major commitment, public place so she'll be comfortable. Open ended, so either of you can bail if it's not working. Take her to a second Cup or the like.

 

[Ridgeman08]

Glass of wine is better... just sayin...

 

[afterhours]

If she is your age you can meet with her anywhere. But if she is young and beautiful chances are she won't respond as coffee equals cheap in their world.

 

[Toronto`s Finest]

For sure. Speed dating is hardly a first date.... way too quick. So just like a first date off a dating website this is a good first one. A dinner maybe too long & awkward aswell after a half hour or so coffee date you may find you dont really hit it off with her. Easy to end a coffee date anytime & bail.

 

[youwontknow]

I don't drink wine, I can't remember her exact age but I think it was somewhere in her mid 20s to late 20s.

 

[JamesDouglas]

If a woman asks to be taken out to dinner on the first date, run and run fast. Coffee or tea is more than appropriate for the first date, just make sure to pay for her coffee.

 

[youwontknow]

Of course I'll pay for the coffee, which coffee which place do you guys recommend the only 2 I can think of is Starbucks and second cup?

 

[jazzpig]

Of course I'll pay for the coffee, which coffee which place do you guys recommend the only 2 I can think of is Starbucks and second cup?

I don't know where you live, but look for a nice cafe.
Better ambiance without breaking the bank.

 

[youwontknow]

I work downtown TO so anywhere there is fine I figure I would pick some where close to her work for her convenient.

 

[Serpent]

Hank's on Church isn't a coffee shop but it's a nice, laid back location. Google it out and I think you'll like it. G'luck!

 

[Don]

coffee is the default safe first date choice. I have done it many times.

The only issue is try to pick a cafe that i not too crowded so you have a bit of privacy. Don't pick the most popular coffee joint. Remember it is about you two and not the taste of the coffee.

 

[Mr. Piggy]

Of course I'll pay for the coffee, which coffee which place do you guys recommend the only 2 I can think of is Starbucks and second cup?

Tim Hortons. They seem to be everywhere.

 

[Dr69]

Boring. Take her for a couple of drinks after work and see how things progress.

 

[great bear]

Buy her a coffee and then ask if a blow job is available in the near future.

 

[thecuriousgeorge]

I personally dont like coffee..it is possible that she doesnt either..i have turned down "coffee dates" for the simple fact that i dont like coffee...for me..my "safe" "no pressure" date is, dependin on if i think she might like somethig active, bowling or pool at a classy place..or if i think she wouldnt like active stuff its a bakery or desert (i guess thats almost like a coffee house but much more variety for food and i can get a regular drink)

 

[youwontknow]

Yeah like one of the other poster said I need somewhere that can give me some privacy.If things goes well I would step it up next time and take her out somewhere a lot fancier.

 

[amaya777]

I personally dont like coffee..it is possible that she doesnt either..i have turned down "coffee dates" for the simple fact that i dont like coffee...for me..my "safe" "no pressure" date is, dependin on if i think she might like somethig active, bowling or pool at a classy place..or if i think she wouldnt like active stuff its a bakery or desert (i guess thats almost like a coffee house but much more variety for food and i can get a regular drink)

You don't have to buy coffee they have other items on the menu. same here, I dont like coffee. I usually get something else

 

[youwontknow]

I am not forcing her to order a coffee she can order what ever she wants.